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« on: December 07, 2013, 12:47:50 PM »

A little history :

We dated on / off for 4 years..
Half Mexican / Brazilian ..
Great in bed  Tongue
She moved away when things didn't work out..
Met my new girlfriend now my wife and have a 2 year old son.
when I was dating my now wife.. she came into the picture and we fucked a couple times
No strings attached.. at first she was ok being the 2nd women.. but then she wanted more..
so I told her that I wasn't ready to leave my girlfriend now my wife at that time. So she stopped calling me for about year and She got married.. we stop talking as her husband is very jealous
Now she is having maritial problems with the possessive bastard of a husband she has..
she called me for advice as she wants to leave him..
if I continue to talk to her I know I will wind up sleeping with her..
There is still feelings on both sides .. but I would never leave my wife for her..

Any advice getbiggers Huh??


I tempted to fucker again as she is Fucking hot..
Due to my marriage I deleted all pics of her.. had some nice ones in lingerie / bikinis..
sorry no visual getbiggers  Undecided
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« Reply #1 on: December 09, 2013, 11:28:48 AM »

Had this problem with my ex-wife long ago. We just couldn't stay together but our sex life was porn quality shit...but it was all we really had in reality.

There is a reason it didn't work out between you and her and are you willing to give up the life you have now? Thinks to think about -

- crushing your wife's and sons heart first of all.
- child support and possibly spousal maintenance.
- your and her family realizing you are selfish, no morals dick that has no self control and threw away a GOOD life for some pussy.
- teaching your son (he will realize it when older) that most important thing over family loyalty and love is pussy?

Can you live with that yourself? If so, you are a very weak man and need to re-evaluate your shit.

Man my advice is to tell her straight up that you can't talk to her anymore that you are happy now and while you guys had some good times, and it sucks her shit if falling apart, you don't care to be her rebound cause she is feeling insecure and unwanted. If she truly cares for you she'll leave you alone. You owe that to our wife, of which you swore your devotion to, and YOUR SON who more than likely thinks you are superman himself.

If she gets crazy tell the wife that an old GF is trying to creep in, you tried to handle it but she is getting nuts and let your wife tell the bitch to go away. You will be a hero to one and the other will know your ass was serious.

It comes down to what you are willing to lose bro....for some pussy I might add. That's weak man.

I've been married for awhile and lost a marriage to infidelity (she cheated) so I know the emotional shit this brings to kids as they grow up without both parents. I get tempted to cheat too man, a lot...but I don't because nothing is worth seeing my wife crushed and seeing my kids every other weekend.


PS - what made the sex so good? Why can't you be open and honest with the wife about shit you like and want her to do? Betting she may have some things on the list she's been too embarrassed to share as well man. This situation has a potential to break your shit or make it much stronger. Peace bro.
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« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2014, 09:46:15 PM »

thats some real talk right there
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« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2014, 09:48:54 PM »

got any nudes of your wife?

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« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2014, 10:22:53 PM »

got any nudes of your wife?

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« Reply #5 on: January 22, 2014, 11:02:30 PM »

Don't be stupid OP. You've answered your question already.

The only reason you've posted this is because you are looking for someone to reassure you and say "go for it". You know this would help ease the guilt. And of course on Getbig you'll find that stupid fucking schmuck.

But this isn't gossip and opinions so let's be serious.

Do you really have so little respect for your wife that you'd be willing to hurt her like that? If so time to end the marriage.

Stop talking to her right now and go be with your wife.

Temptation is normal. However you have a choice and you are an adult so make the right one.
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« Reply #6 on: January 23, 2014, 02:01:29 AM »

A little history :

We dated on / off for 4 years..
Half Mexican / Brazilian ..
Great in bed  Tongue
She moved away when things didn't work out..
Met my new girlfriend now my wife and have a 2 year old son.
when I was dating my now wife.. she came into the picture and we fucked a couple times
No strings attached.. at first she was ok being the 2nd women.. but then she wanted more..
so I told her that I wasn't ready to leave my girlfriend now my wife at that time. So she stopped calling me for about year and She got married.. we stop talking as her husband is very jealous
Now she is having maritial problems with the possessive bastard of a husband she has..
she called me for advice as she wants to leave him..
if I continue to talk to her I know I will wind up sleeping with her..
There is still feelings on both sides .. but I would never leave my wife for her..

Any advice getbiggers Huh??


I tempted to fucker again as she is Fucking hot..
Due to my marriage I deleted all pics of her.. had some nice ones in lingerie / bikinis..
sorry no visual getbiggers  Undecided

Think with your head and not with your dick and you should be fine.
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« Reply #7 on: January 24, 2014, 12:49:55 AM »

 Tongue Lips sealed
A little history :

We dated on / off for 4 years..
Half Mexican / Brazilian ..
Great in bed  Tongue
She moved away when things didn't work out..
Met my new girlfriend now my wife and have a 2 year old son.
when I was dating my now wife.. she came into the picture and we fucked a couple times
No strings attached.. at first she was ok being the 2nd women.. but then she wanted more..
so I told her that I wasn't ready to leave my girlfriend now my wife at that time. So she stopped calling me for about year and She got married.. we stop talking as her husband is very jealous
Now she is having maritial problems with the possessive bastard of a husband she has..
she called me for advice as she wants to leave him..
if I continue to talk to her I know I will wind up sleeping with her..
There is still feelings on both sides .. but I would never leave my wife for her..

Any advice getbiggers Huh??


I tempted to fucker again as she is Fucking hot..
Due to my marriage I deleted all pics of her.. had some nice ones in lingerie / bikinis..
sorry no visual getbiggers  Undecided
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« Reply #8 on: February 02, 2014, 11:57:11 PM »

You're married now. Cut her off. It's only fair to your wife and child given your past. You probsbly wound want your wife bring too frendly with an ex. Especially if she was fooling around with him while y'all were dating.

But before you cut her off completely ask her for a couple of nude pics just in case you wanna crack one off to them later.  Grin
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« Reply #9 on: February 03, 2014, 12:12:21 AM »

First off, I try not to put myself in positions where I will have to tell a lie.  2nd, I ask myself, if you get caught and one day have to look your children in the eye and explain to them that the reason your daddy doesn't live with you any more is because he is a piece of shit and his dick is more important than you guys.  Hope this helps.  It helps me.
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« Reply #10 on: February 03, 2014, 12:12:51 AM »

First off, I try not to put myself in positions where I will have to tell a lie.  2nd, I ask myself, if you get caught and one day have to look your children in the eye and explain to them that the reason your daddy doesn't live with you any more is because he is a piece of shit and his dick is more important than you guys.  Hope this helps.  It helps me.
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« Reply #11 on: February 03, 2014, 10:01:14 PM »

You're married now. Cut her off. It's only fair to your wife and child given your past. You probsbly wound want your wife bring too frendly with an ex. Especially if she was fooling around with him while y'all were dating.

But before you cut her off completely ask her for a couple of nude pics just in case you wanna crack one off to them later.  Grin




Well said sir... Wink
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« Reply #12 on: February 04, 2014, 06:35:16 PM »

I can sleep with her for you, and you can talk to her after.  just trying to help.   Cheesy
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« Reply #13 on: February 18, 2014, 03:31:41 AM »

She doesn't want advice she wants to steal you from your wife. Tell her no and no. If she insists spank her with a wet towel so you will leave no bruses and she can not press charges.
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« Reply #14 on: February 18, 2014, 09:02:24 PM »

^would be far from shocked if you were a closet homosexual^
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« Reply #15 on: February 19, 2014, 06:10:02 AM »

^would be far from shocked if you were a closet homosexual^



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« Reply #16 on: February 19, 2014, 08:06:06 AM »

you wanna fuck her. decide between her and the wife and kids, then live with it. If you pick wife and kids tell the ex to hit the bricks.
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