what do you mean? plz explain
i no understand 
Sometimes there are issues that must be resolved in the shadows.
Being overt about some things shows your hand, disturbs the peace, can cause conflict, lets them know what you're thinking.
Sometimes in order to keep the peace, keep the machine going certain matters must be solved covertly and your message can be received without blatantly saying it. Women aren't dumb. They know. You get your point across without being a barbarian. It's an art. Most men are too ignorant or just outright primates in dealing emotionally with a woman. A bitch will take you on a emotional rollercoaster ride of your life if you let her. For her it's normal cause she's a woman. For you it's pure misery. It's your job as her man to keep that shit under control. BEWARE! Chose your battles. When you put your foot down on something morally. Stick to it. Do not move. She'll respect you more than if you cave in for pussy. Don't be a weak willed punk bitch. Don't be a warden but don't be a punk. American women are some of the most superficial, emotionally damaged, unloyal, hypnotized, ignorant creatures on this planet. It didn't have to be this way. There was a time when things were different...better. But those times are over and now we're in damage control mode. There's wild bitches everywhere. Untamed, uncultured, uneducated and oversexed. Us as men can easily get this under control if we were smart enough to come together and agree to a core set of values as men. Anyway enough babble.
