dude, you are so clueless it hurts. I would exspect a lot more wisdom from someone your age. Yes, adults are responsible for their actions but where does the drive for those actions come from Einstein? Why do you think psychiatrists always try to dig into a patient's childhood? Because the behavioural patterns we acquire during our upbringing are engraved in our brain. That's why people are so hard to change when they grow up. When one comes from a f***** up background he/she is more inclined to abnormal behaviour later in the adulthood. I didn't adress his faggotry, just his drug abuse and prostitution.
And yes people can blame their parents for their shitty life but they can't blame their parents for continouing to live a shitty life after coming to realization that their life is shitty. Understand?
At what age do these folks realize that their lifestyle is toxic? By the time one is an adult, they should have developed some self-awareness. At this point, the onus is on them.
Not everyone uses a dysfunctional family as a whipping post for their wrongheaded choices. My childhood was about as crappy as they get. No doubt it affected my beliefs, including the fact that I am responsible for my behavior, both good and bad. As a mature adult, I can honestly say that I've made mostly excellent decisions with regards to my life.
If you blame Tbombz's poor choices on his parents, then you must also credit them for his current life, which seems to be pretty darn good.
I am a parent, grandparent and great-grandparent. I am not as clueless as you suggest.
