the fuck you want to live in a shithole like Thailand for.
It's all relative.
I was just out to CDC in Lat Phrao -a relatively new area with lots of places to eat, drink and shop. We were at a pub called "White Beer'd" - wife & 2 kids and a Thai friend.
We sat outside listening to a decent band and I drank a Fullers ESB and a bottle of Bombardier - 2 London beers.
All very civilized to be honest. Not a hooker in sight.
Thailand is developing. Pattaya is still what it always has been. You can't polish a turd after all. Bangkok though - not a terrible place to live at all.