I understand what you mean. My point was that I'm not attracted to laziness and/or obesity. The majority of the women in my state have let themselves go because of the pc standard that "big is beautiful." 
I agree, my friend.  Trying to call fat, "fun" is nothing short of PC stupid.  I've seen beautiful women that are curvy but not fat, but I recall the stupid skinny sixties craze that started with the so-called supermodel, "Twiggy".  Gag!  So thin that they looked sickly. 
There is a happy medium, but that it seems rare in today's world of PC BS.
That was a goofy pun.  

Again, I agree completely with  you sir!