You've trained the same gym for three years and have had what could Loosely be called a conversation with 5 people in those 3 yrs? Lol
That's exactly what I'm talking about. And you blame it on you "having a life". Lol... no it's because you're socially inept and people can't stand to be around you or else they'd be introducing you or mentioning you to their friends and you be meeting more people. But instead people avoid speaking with you and never invite you and your wife over for a barbecue or to watch a football game or fight or their spouses bodybuilding or powerlifting competition... You know, things that normal people do.
I go to the gym to train, not to chat and have conversations, I treat it as a place of work, just as when I'm at work I don't chit chat with people I do my job, I don't socialise with anyone I work with, they are simply colleagues, and back at the gym who wants to hang around the reception desk because listening to idiotic meatheads talking about how much gear they take and how many people they have knocked out over the weekend.