Bodybuilding and Relationships don't mix with a normal chick

[juicemachine]

[XFACTOR]

Look you whiny little phaggot.....you want her to stop texting you "looking for cock", post her fucking phone number here?

Within one hour that bitch won't ever want to see you again.

Your story is bullshit and reeks of phaggotry.

Die you spineless kunt.



(64 posts left - FU Ron)

What this guys said.  What's up with all the estrogen filled little wimps here now? 

Save these stupid ass stories for a shrink. 

[Cutlet767]

Another ultra estrogen thread by a beta who destroyed his sense of identity with hormone abuse. Be a normal 22year old man and stop using various messaging boards to post the same sob stories about your feelings to gain sympathy from other men.
Thanks 

lol

[Hulkotron]

It's important to set aside at least an hour each day for the scratching of the ass.

[XFACTOR]

It's important to set aside at least an hour each day for the scratching of the ass.

This is exactly how this dude can get over his sad whittle feewings.

[Grape Ape]

Some of us with wives, kids, and jobs still manage to exercise.

I didn't realize just how incredible that makes me until now.

[BigNJ]

Bodybuilding does not mix with anything except Gay porn.

The end of bodybuilding is near.

[Howard]

I really don't see how anyone thinks you can make gains while being in a relationship. the stress raises cortisol IMO and you just end up with a big film of water over your estrogen pussy whipped ass.

Notice Im talking about a real relationship with a normal chick lol, not some fitness chick who you can eat chicken and broccoli in front of without her thinking your  a fucking wierdo. Lets be real if  you want to have a real relationship with a normal chick your  going to have to get smashed on weekends, your not gonna get 8 hours of sleep every night, your gonna miss workouts, and your  gonna have to eat junk food quite a bit.

This is why Im seriously considering not even dating   for a good three months, and I mean no women period...no going out to clubs or bars.......  until I get some cash in my pocket and am where I want to be physique wise. Think Im gonna enroll in school as well.     Im about to be 22 in a bit and Ive done fuck all with my life the past year...

problem is this- I am very prone to depression and part of me feels like  a man requires a woman in his life for good mental health.  SOOOOO my  question to you guys is  have any of you actually done this before?  Im talking  about going  celibate until you reach your goals.....bodybuilding ,career, etc.... Ive already proven to myself I can't mix the two.

Come back in a few years and see how you feel about this.
BB alone can become a lonely and meaningless existence.

I strongly urge you to read ; " Muscle" by Sammual  J Fussell.

[Deadlifted]

Bro, don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you want a chick to make you happy and get you over your depression? That isn't going to happen. Relationships go up and down, bitches are crazy. The hard part is to find one of the more stable ones. And if you find one, and you are happy more then 75% of the time. Keep her.

Yep this. If youre relying on someone else to make you happy it probably wont work in the long term. Need to fix your mental issues first before trying to get with a girl.

[flinstones1]

Yep this. If youre relying on someone else to make you happy it probably wont work in the long term. Need to fix your mental issues first before trying to get with a girl.

I don't know. I thought I Was happy being a single guy and living a selfish life,  but I wasn't truly happy until I put the player bullshit aside and finally opened up to someone.

There are  popular posters  here with good careers and a lot going for them who have admitted to me in pm's that they are depressed because they have  not had a relationship in a long time.

[thebrink]

I don't know. I thought I Was happy being a single guy and living a selfish life,  but I wasn't truly happy until I put the player bullshit aside and finally opened up to someone.

There are  popular posters  here with good careers and a lot going for them who have admitted to me in pm's that they are depressed because they have  not had a relationship in a long time.

If they are bodybuilders than that is why.

[oldtimer1]

A good woman will make you a better man.  

I've seen so many guys throw away the pursuit of a good career chasing the syringe lifestyle that is a dead end insanity. Then they are in their 30's broke with a garbage job but damn they have a nice lat spread.

Pursue a career through job training or college. You can lift your 2 hours a day with just about any job or school. You might find yourself if you play it right with a nice career, nice house, and most importantly if you want it a family. The alternative is seemingly being the center of attention with your steroid muscles as eventually everyone around you moves on with their life.  All you're left with is tight shirts and a garbage can full of needles.

[The_Iron_Disciple]

A good woman will make you a better man.  

I've seen so many guys throw away the pursuit of a good career chasing the syringe lifestyle that is a dead end insanity. Then they are in their 30's broke with a garbage job but damn they have a nice lat spread.

Pursue a career through job training or college. You can lift your 2 hours a day with just about any job or school. You might find yourself if you play it right with a nice career, nice house, and most importantly if you want it a family. The alternative is seemingly being the center of attention with your steroid muscles as eventually everyone around you moves on with their life.  All you're left with is tight shirts and garbage can full of needles.

Seriously good post. And I mean that.

[TrueGrit]

The love of a good woman is as good as it gets.

The twisted love of a bad bitch is the undoing of many a man.

The stakes are high and sometimes the game isn't even worth playing.

[dustin]

Another ultra estrogen thread by a beta who destroyed his sense of identity with hormone abuse. Be a normal 22year old man and stop using various messaging boards to post the same sob stories about your feelings to gain sympathy from other men.
Thanks 

This had me in stitches lol

[The_Iron_Disciple]

If they are bodybuilders than that is why.

Bullshit. I'm a bodybuilder with a good career and could give fuck all about relationships. Shit, I'm happier with I'm not in one !! Lol !! And am at my happiest when I'm just banging whoever the hell I want, WHEN I want.

[juicemachine]

Obsessive routines with regards to diet, training, and injecting anabolics do get in the way of a social life. Now if we are talking about injecting 3cc of test every friday, hitting the gym 3 days a week and stuffing yourself with your wife's cooking then I don't see an issue.

[dustin]

A good woman will make you a better man.  

I've seen so many guys throw away the pursuit of a good career chasing the syringe lifestyle that is a dead end insanity. Then they are in their 30's broke with a garbage job but damn they have a nice lat spread.

Pursue a career through job training or college. You can lift your 2 hours a day with just about any job or school. You might find yourself if you play it right with a nice career, nice house, and most importantly if you want it a family. The alternative is seemingly being the center of attention with your steroid muscles as eventually everyone around you moves on with their life.  All you're left with is tight shirts and a garbage can full of needles.

Potent and very accurate advice!! I didn't want to ever get married or settle down, but my wife was a 10/10 before I met her and I KNEW her parents would want an immediate marriage. Did tons of soul searching and really straightened my shit out. I never would have imagined staying home to raise a baby, working full time, going to school, having a house and living the life I live now. I'm really glad I manned up and matured so quickly. I wouldn't have done that for any other reason other than to impress her... then I realized that I'm actually important too, so I started taking care of myself first and took care of her as well.

Never would have had so many epiphanies and learned so much unless I strived to be better. Stumbled along the way, but it was always her that pushed me to move constantly forward. I have a really great life now and don't obsess over chicken breast rations for the next few days or pointless bullshit. I'm big, I have abs, have a bombshell wife and beautiful child, etc. If I had focused on something stupid like bodybuilding I'd probably still be fat and permabulking, renting a basement suite from some asshole, minimum wage job and/or selling juice, no education or career prospects, etc. Women are annoying as fuck (I want to kill my wife most of the time, but I love her lol) but their constant nagging does occasionally produce some positive outcomes!

[juicemachine]

A good woman will make you a better man.  

I've seen so many guys throw away the pursuit of a good career chasing the syringe lifestyle that is a dead end insanity. Then they are in their 30's broke with a garbage job but damn they have a nice lat spread.

Pursue a career through job training or college. You can lift your 2 hours a day with just about any job or school. You might find yourself if you play it right with a nice career, nice house, and most importantly if you want it a family. The alternative is seemingly being the center of attention with your steroid muscles as eventually everyone around you moves on with their life.  All you're left with is tight shirts and a garbage can full of needles.

This is one of those "half truth" brain washing posts. The fact is that a lot of people are in their 30's with a shit job, not a lot of money without being steroid using bodybuilders. Face it, a lot of people out there basically lack the brain capacity to succeed in life, bodybuilding or no bodybuilding. Steroids aren't that expensive either, if used in moderate doses.

[Howard]

Bullshit. I'm a bodybuilder with a good career and could give fuck all about relationships. Shit, I'm happier with I'm not in one !! Lol !! And am at my happiest when I'm just banging whoever the hell I want, WHEN I want.

Good post . The real key is to be happy with yourself, FIRST.

After my 3rd divorce, I considered being "retired" from any serious romantic relationships.
I really made my peace with living by myself and just dating for the rest of my life.

Then, after dating for awhile, I enjoyed life MORE with this new , wonderful woman at my side.
So, I married her and have no regrets.

[DroppingPlates]

Stress & cortisol? You're simply not ready yet for a serious relationship. The fact that you start threads like these says enough... You simply don't know what to do with your life.

[AlphaGyno]

OP most likely has a diary in which he writes short poems dedicated to his broken sexuality and understanding for Elliot Rodger

[pissant]

sorry but what kinda idiot cant spend an hour inside a gym and eat a couple times a day? Do you let women control your whole life?

You sound like you are a pussy whipped idiot.

You tell a girl how it is is. She follows. You lead.

[Howard]

A good woman will make you a better man.  

I've seen so many guys throw away the pursuit of a good career chasing the syringe lifestyle that is a dead end insanity. Then they are in their 30's broke with a garbage job but damn they have a nice lat spread.

Pursue a career through job training or college. You can lift your 2 hours a day with just about any job or school. You might find yourself if you play it right with a nice career, nice house, and most importantly if you want it a family. The alternative is seemingly being the center of attention with your steroid muscles as eventually everyone around you moves on with their life.  All you're left with is tight shirts and a garbage can full of needles.

Lee Haney , won 8 Mr Olympia's in a row and was married to wife Shirley for each one.
He has a few kids with her and last I heard ran a farm home for troubled teens near ATL.

Lee would agree with the above post and always felt his wife was his best "training partner".

[Automation]

Lee Haney , won 8 Mr Olympia's in a row and was married to wife Shirley for each one.
He has a few kids with her and last I heard ran a farm home for troubled teens near ATL.

Lee would agree with the above post and always felt his wife was his best "training partner".

Didn't you hear the news? It was all an elaborate hoax! Lee has just been outed as a fag by Josh.