I had an interesting conversation with a women yesterday.
Her: So, where are you taking me for our first date?
Me: Well, I do not do dinner on the first date. Just coffee or a few drinks. I figure if the women likes me enough, we can do dinner for a 2nd date.
Her: Why don't you do dinner on the first date?
Me: A lot of women will often use men for free dinner, especially women on dating sites.
Her: Are you saying I am going to use you for a free dinner?
Me: I am not saying you are going to, but I am not saying you are not going to. I do not know you.
Her: Well, I can pay for my own dinner. Do you actually think youre going to get a "cheap feel" after just coffee?
Me: No, I never assumed I was going to get a "cheap feel." That would be impossible to do anyway, since we are meeting for coffee in the afternoon.
Her: Well, fuck that, delete my number. Youre not getting a cheap feel for a cup of coffee.
Me: Did you read my previous text? I don't expect a cheap feel. This is just a brief meeting over coffee to see if we like each other enough for a
second date. I don't expect anything more from you (sex).
Her: DELETE MY NUMBER.
Me: It seems like you're pissed because I am not taking you out for dinner.
That was the gist of our conversation.
So, either she got pissed because she wasn't going to use me for a free dinner, or she would allow me to take a cheap feel if I brought her dinner.