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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #25 on: December 15, 2014, 04:50:24 PM »
I will say that I have been worrying a lot about my age recently, I have been asking people if 26 is old, if 27 is old etc etc.


I feel that I should really want to settle down and start squirting out kids... I have no interest in it yet. I want to bang hot puss and live for me.



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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #26 on: December 15, 2014, 06:26:26 PM »
I will say that I have been worrying a lot about my age recently, I have been asking people if 26 is old, if 27 is old etc etc.


I feel that I should really want to settle down and start squirting out kids... I have no interest in it yet. I want to bang hot puss and live for me.




You feel a need for other people to tell you what to do?

How about developing your own "life-map"?
For some it's very difficult tho'.. that's why religion and other similar stuff is created.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #27 on: December 15, 2014, 07:13:05 PM »
I will say that I have been worrying a lot about my age recently, I have been asking people if 26 is old, if 27 is old etc etc.


I feel that I should really want to settle down and start squirting out kids... I have no interest in it yet. I want to bang hot puss and live for me.



26 is still a spring chicken. I am 38 lol That's what they said to me at 26 anyway... and the time flew by. Have no idea what happened... nor where the time went.  ???
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #28 on: December 15, 2014, 07:28:55 PM »
You feel a need for other people to tell you what to do?

How about developing your own "life-map"?
For some it's very difficult tho'.. that's why religion and other similar stuff is created.

No. It's called an "outside perspective", where did I state that I am asking people for advice, direction, or anything other than an opinion about an age bracket?

If someone is to ask their friend if white is kind of a feminine color for a car, does he feel a need for someone to tell him what to do?

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #29 on: December 15, 2014, 10:03:09 PM »
You feel a need for other people to tell you what to do?

How about developing your own "life-map"?
For some it's very difficult tho'.. that's why religion and other similar stuff is created.

Lower your tone when addressing visualizing erections, pipsqueak.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #30 on: December 15, 2014, 10:06:16 PM »
Lower your tone when addressing visualizing erections, pipsqueak.

Exactly, he might be sleeping and you don't want to wake him up from his nap. (No ageist)

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #31 on: December 16, 2014, 04:09:43 AM »
No. It's called an "outside perspective", where did I state that I am asking people for advice, direction, or anything other than an opinion about an age bracket?

If someone is to ask their friend if white is kind of a feminine color for a car, does he feel a need for someone to tell him what to do?

You ask only to assess/compare your own views. I, for example, don't care, so I don't ask.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #32 on: December 16, 2014, 04:16:37 AM »
I will say that I have been worrying a lot about my age recently, I have been asking people if 26 is old, if 27 is old etc etc.


I feel that I should really want to settle down and start squirting out kids... I have no interest in it yet. I want to bang hot puss and live for me.

I never though like that lol

I always had epic plans, Ibiza, Weekends away...etc which needed me to be single for a full impact. No regrets.

I had a long term relationship in my early 20's a controlling bitch too, wasted vital years, gave me a taster of what married life is like, not for me.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #33 on: December 16, 2014, 04:57:26 AM »
I never though like that lol

I always had epic plans, Ibiza, Weekends away...etc which needed me to be single for a full impact. No regrets.

I had a long term relationship in my early 20's a controlling bitch too, wasted vital years, gave me a taster of what married life is like, not for me.

I've had a ~7year rel. from 18, could taste that "marriage" life somewhat too. I'm so fukkin happy I managed not to get her pregnant.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #34 on: December 16, 2014, 05:10:50 AM »
I would think the taste of marriage you guys got from 18-20 years olds could be quite different with a little more mature of a woman.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #35 on: December 16, 2014, 05:15:29 AM »
I would think the taste of marriage you guys got from 18-20 years olds could be quite different with a little more mature of a woman.

I guess it's more about a taste of being with the same female for a long time.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #36 on: December 16, 2014, 05:17:47 AM »
I guess it's more about a taste of being with the same female for a long time.

Didn't realize it was you I replied to - please forget it - no need to discuss.....carry on.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #37 on: December 16, 2014, 05:43:17 AM »
I would think the taste of marriage you guys got from 18-20 years olds could be quite different with a little more mature of a woman.

I don't know about women in your neck of the woods, but here they want their cake and want to eat it too.

They expect a man to be a man, earn good money and punch burglars in the face (in case of a break in) but other than that you must act like a castrated twat, be home after work, get permission before you go out, or they tell you don't have to, you're free to do as you please but act like complete c unts the next day in retaliation.

Put up with her friends over at my house drinking wine whilst I'm reduced to the bedroom, then hear them say "oh you're gona have beautiful babies" just cos of my Nesquick complexion and being a gullible moron for the last year and she's a Ginge doesn't mean I am here to racially experiment with babies for your own amusement you daft twats. Get out of my house you chubby herd of feminist imbeciles and take that Ginger bint with you, I'm gona inject 1g of test and then I'm off to Ibiza on my own to wash off the miserabilia you rubbed off on me.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #38 on: December 16, 2014, 05:48:58 AM »
I don't know about women in your neck of the woods, but here they want their cake and want to eat it too.

They expect a man to be a man, earn the money and punch burglars in the face (in case of a break in) but other than that you must act like a castrated twat, be home after work, get permission before you go out, or they tell you don't have to, you're free to do as you please but act like complete c unts the next day in retaliation.

Put up with her friends over at my house drinking wine whilst I'm reduced to the bedroom, then hear them say "oh you're gona have beautiful babies" just cos of my Nesquick complexion and being a gullible moron for the last year and she's a Ginge doesn't mean I am here to racially experiment with babies for your own amusement you daft twats.

I get that, but all this stuff really boils down to the woman and the evolution of the relationship you're in.  For instance - I do this part: 

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They expect a man to be a man, earn the money and punch burglars in the face (in case of a break in)

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but other than that you must act like a castrated twat, be home after work, get permission before you go out, or they tell you don't have to, you're free to do as you please but act like complete c unts the next day in retaliation.

I'm home because I want  to be, act like my normal self, and don't need permission to go out.  Like I said, it really depends on the woman.  But also,  I don't begrudge anyone who's not doing things this way - to each his own.  Only point I'm making is it's not cut and dry like some say it is.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #39 on: December 16, 2014, 05:50:08 AM »

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #40 on: December 16, 2014, 05:51:34 AM »
I'm home because I want  to be, act like my normal self, and don't need permission to go out.  Like I said, it really depends on the woman.  But also,  I don't begrudge anyone who's not doing things this way - to each his own.  Only point I'm making is it's not cut and dry like some say it is.

I have many friends in happy relationships, I was unlucky twice, a lot of women out there treat men like a commodity. If you have a well balanced life then all good for you, but take it from me, what you have going on is not in the majority of cases. Albeit not that uncommon either.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #41 on: December 16, 2014, 05:53:36 AM »
I have many friends in happy relationships, I was unlucky twice, a lot of women out there treat men like a commodity. If you have a well balanced life then all good for you, but take it from me, what you have going on is not in the majority of cases.

nah man, I get that.  What you're doing is pretty cool, actually, and you've got it right for you.

Still think you'll settle down and have some kids though in a few.......but that's just a guess.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #42 on: December 16, 2014, 05:54:37 AM »
Made my money in the tech boom in my early twenties, got the buying shit to impress out of my system then.

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #43 on: December 16, 2014, 05:55:47 AM »
nah man, I get that.  What you're doing is pretty cool, actually, and you've got it right for you.

Still think you'll settle down and have some kids though in a few.......but that's just a guess.

I have a GF right now, but we don't fully live together I'm working on it.

Over the years I developed a need for time alone, if I share space with someone for prolonged periods of times I get distressed, and then need a day or two or complete alone time to recover.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #44 on: December 16, 2014, 05:59:20 AM »
I have a GF right now, but we don't fully live together I'm working on it.

Over the years I developed a need for time alone, if I share space with someone for prolonged periods of times I get distressed, and then need a day or two or complete alone time to recover.

It's good that you recognize that.  If the girl you're with is right for you in the long run, she'll understand too, and be confident and secure enough to let it happen.  Or maybe your need for that will dissipate.

Either way, until then, I still suggest you do the year end, 2 russian escort thing.   ;D
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #45 on: December 16, 2014, 05:59:36 AM »
Made my money in the tech boom in my early twenties, got the buying shit to impress out of my system then.

Buying shit or doing shit...etc is not a blanket fits all. Some people come from nothing become millionaires and don't change their life style in the slightest. wear same old t-shirts and live in same old apartment. I don't care what people do as long that you live within your means. I see guys in Marbella on 50k a year buying bottles on credit cards and wearing what clearly looks like a fake Hublot, that's someone punching above their weight.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #46 on: December 16, 2014, 06:01:20 AM »
It's good that you recognize that.  If the girl you're with is right for you in the long run, she'll understand too, and be confident and secure enough to let it happen.  Or maybe your need for that will dissipate.

Either way, until then, I still suggest you do the year end, 2 russian escort thing.   ;D

Hotel booked end of Jan, just browsing websites for the best escorts right now, thinking a brunette and a blonde combo :D
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #47 on: December 16, 2014, 06:02:14 AM »
Hotel booked end of Jan, just browsing websites for the best escorts right now, thinking a brunette and a blonde combo  :D

Pics or it didn't won't happen.
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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #48 on: December 16, 2014, 06:03:00 AM »
Pics or it didn't won't happen.

Will do  8)

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Re: Mid-life crisis is a myth
« Reply #49 on: December 16, 2014, 06:27:43 AM »
Over the years I developed a need for time alone, if I share space with someone for prolonged periods of times I get distressed, and then need a day or two or complete alone time to recover.

This gets more serious over time. I'm the same. I "kind of live" together with my gf, but it's vital to escape to my own place I have (I haven't offered to instantly live at my place on purpose, as where the hell would I go for "time alone", a hotel?) periodically. SOme people can't stand being alone for a prolonged time and I feel a big pleasure doing that. Good music, good read, a glass of wine, internet and the world stops existing.