If he dies...He dies. But since I'm not a bitch he won't have done it for me.

TA is a good man and doubtless so is this BigRo fellow. We all have our differences but rather than celebrate those why not instead choose to revel in what we have in common?
TA has done just that in finding the common ground of good food. Doubtless there are more things we all share in but for now, food will do.