It really depends. There isn't one thing men and women are looking for, so how high you score depends on what people you surround yourself with.
Looks: For people who love rugged men I'd score 8/10 now. 9/10 if I lean out more. 7/10 across the entire population.
Physique: Men and women who are into musclebears score me 9/10 consistently. Those who aren't: 5/10.
Dick: Rock hard, curved up, not huge in length but gets the job done well. 9/10.