It just seems that we have exhausted all of our avenues in order to "civilize" and "placate" and "advance". What more can be done? Even when given carte blanche with no obstruction, they fail.
Also, what you may think or identify as "stress", "stressors" or a "bad living situation", they do not see it that way at all. Its what they like and are comfortable with. How they act is also a universal constant pretty much, no matter what area of the country you find them.
There is a lot of components to all of it, but I think we all are out of ideas on how to improve the situation, especially when they are not interested in doing so themselves. No interest whatsoever.
By the way, I read the "Blank Slate" when it first came out. Perhaps I shall have to read it again.
To be honest, I grew up middle-to-upper middle class (my parents made good livings--obviously not rich or anything. But we grew up nicely), so I cannot provide you with a more personalized answer. As I said, I do not make up answers like the majority of getbiggers. I do work with many different poor communities, and they are beset with many problems. The issue is often Multigenerational. Murray Bowen, a founding father of family therapy, discussed something called, "Multigenerational Transmission Process, which is: The concept of the multigenerational transmission process describes how small differences in the levels of differentiation between parents and their offspring lead over many generations to marked differences in differentiation among the members of a multigenerational family. The information creating these differences is transmitted across generations through relationships. The transmission occurs on several interconnected levels ranging from the conscious teaching and learning of information to the automatic and unconscious programming of emotional reactions and behaviors. Relationally and genetically transmitted information interact to shape an individual’s “self."
https://www.thebowencenter.org/theory/eight-concepts/multigenerational-transmission-process/This is huge in many families, especially low-income families. You will often see the transmission of trauma through generations, i.e., domestic violence or sexual abuse has occurred for generations. The only way to break the cycle is to break the way its passed on to the children. But as long as parents keep passing on genetic and psychological transmitted information to their children, it will be hard to break the cycle. Thus, the cycle of emotions and behaviors continue.
But, to complicate the matter even more, read Urie Bronfenbrenner (developmental psychologist), who extended family issues to varying levels of the environment. You may have heard of Bronfenbrenner. Here is his bioecological systems theory:
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