Have you or are you married? If so, did you and your spouse have a wedding ceremony? Who planned it? Who made the guest list? Did you invite people you and your spouse had nothing in common with? If so, why did you? Was it because your parents insisted? If so, whose wedding was it your parents or yours?
Yes, am.
We invited family and friends, regardless of their political affiliation.
Were these lesbos inviting random folks they had to screen? Doubtful. So they are doing one of two things - virtue signaling (which would be on brand) OR, actually excluding friends and family based on politics. Which makes my point stand.