Why do so many dudes cave in to females and have kids ?

[loco]

Great question and I've answered that a couple times, but forum posts are easy to miss.

I tried to get one years ago, right after my first marriage.
The doc told me I was too young to get one , especially since I never had kids.

There is no law or code of ethics in the US preventing a doctor from performing a vasectomy on a healthy, adult male.  If he didn't want to perform the procedure because of your age and not having had children yet, then the doctor was forcing his own ethics/morals on you and you allowed it.  You could have always moved on to the next urologist if you really meant business.  Just saying.

[Howard]

Howard this a mighty interesting post. Excellent! It reads like a novel, or a script for a softporn movie, not sure yet LOL. Somehow it is mind boggeling to read about a women wanting to "get it on" year after year in and even past a marrige, and simply having a very high sexdrive. For most this stops or at least slows down very much after the first one or two years in a relationship. I think you described it well, it is the perfect relationship until you arrive at the moment in time you want "something" more/deeper.

I swear, I often  think I'm living in some alternate reality LOL.
Not sure why, but just about EVERY serious gf or wife wanted sex as much ( or more) then me.

Every time I hear other dudes complain their wife never wants sex, I shake my head.
To me, these douchebags are clueless when it comes to what turns females on.
Worse then that, they THINK they know LOL.

My ( current ) wife is in her 50's , menopause and still gets "hot to trot".
I hate to be  a broken record, but not having kids has a LOT to do with it.

Once a wife becomes a mom, a man's sex life goes out the window ( 90% of the time).
They shift focus to the kids and lose the energy and desire to get busy.

[Howard]

Initially, because they're horny.  Women are aware of this and use it to get them to sign that marriage certificate (a legally binding financial contract).

You want to keep all your money and toys? 

NEVER get married... NEVER have kids.

Depends?

I enjoy married life and have no real desires to "screw around".
My wife is my partner, lover  and best friend .

However, for a lot of men, marriage doesn't suit them.
So, I don't think they should force themselves to fit into marriage.

For some men, they feel called to be dads.
They love their kids and cherish the experience.
Even in divorce, they enjoy being a big part of their kids life.

I just strongly, no man should get married or have kids;
* because it's just what you do.*

If you have serious doubts about marriage or kids...DON'T!

[The_Punisher]

most men are total pussies!!!

women are scammers and have kid man doesnt want

seems like in the past 20yrs, we've witnessed the Pussification of many men in America.....and it's getting worse

[Meta-physical]

seems like in the past 20yrs, we've witnessed the Pussification of many men in America.....and it's getting worse

People talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

Spent many years in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most people here in the 'real world' aren't ready for what could happen...and run their mouths like the world is a make-believe cartoon. Despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying the bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

The guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. If you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

[chokeslam]

We live in a generation of confused cucks that don't know their role.

I've always had strong paternal instincts, always wanted a child or two, but I was definitely a cuck beta when I caved in and let me ex get pregnant.

After a shitty marriage and divorce, I took my balls back (instead of asking to borrow them for the evening), let her fall on her face, became the best version of myself and subsequently upped my dad-game 100000000% fold.

Baby's momma was forced to work on herself too, we became way better at co-parenting and subsequently getting along. But it all depends on your inner game. Some guys just never recover and become a shell of a man that keeps withering away. I feel sorry for these guys. Now that I'm a single dad, I'm fucking their ex's and getting calls from their wife's saying they want a real man too. You just need to understand yourself and the stupid demands and head games women play. If you get pulled into it, it can be hard to get out of.


If any woman pressures you, just put your foot down or leave her entirely if it's passed the point of no return. Most women are completely entitled and don't need to work on themselves because the cucks enable them. Smash and dash those broads because they eventually get bored of their beta husbands. Go for the real gems. They're rare, but they're out there.

[DroppingPlates]

Good points.

BUT, why is it a lot of get-biggers call me a "beta-male" for divorcing two of 'em over the issue. WTF?

A true alpha is upfront about vital things like these right from the beginning. Other than that, marrying x times, c'mon man...

[Parker]

Howard, many moons ago, your father caved in to your mother (figuratively and literally) and then they had you. So, are you thankful?

[SOMEPARTS]

Great question and I've answered that a couple times, but forum posts are easy to miss.

I tried to get one years ago, right after my first marriage.
The doc told me I was too young to get one , especially since I never had kids.

Let me get this straight - the doc talked to you, then he still thought it was a good idea for you to pass on your genes? 

[tres_taco_combo]

any tom leykis fans here?

this is his favorite topic

[Danimal77]

It's very hard for men to resist women in general.
Women know this and they are quite manipulative. Socially way smarter than men.
Women can make many men do anything they want... including kids.

And we don't trust in ourselves enough. We know any woman can get as many men as they want. But we fear deep inside we won't ever get another woman if we loose the one we managed to get. So we take their orders.

Not talking about alphas here but us normal men.

But you see that's a beta attitude. The irony is the OP is talking about men like you. Not all guys think the way you do. You're either pussy whipped (your woman wears the pants), or you're NOT. Simple as that. They do what they can get away with.

[Tha Grim Lifter]

Let me get this straight - the doc talked to you, then he still thought it was a good idea for you to pass on your genes? 

Damm Straight he did. We need more Alpha Males in this world like Howard and Trump.

[mazrim]

If you dont want kids, stay on androgens year round. I was with my ex for 3yrs before she finally got pregnant (after 2 5000iu hcg shots). Thats after having sex well over 1000x if not 1200, unprotected everytime. And back then i wasnt even using heavy doses... At least not till aftervthe first baby... Then 6 months later she was pregnant again (after 2 more 5000iu hcg shots), that was on 7g/wk. The others i was either off or took clomid for a few days to blow huge loads. Lol... Out of 124-127(?) girls since 2011, only 2 girls got pregnant, and those happened when i was off or hadbtaken a lil clomid.... ALL unprotected. Honestly, ive only wrapped it up once for about the first 3mins the firstbtime with my ex, till i took that shit off. Lol

I feel like you and that Whitewidow character would get along very well.

[local hero]

We all know what happened when WWidow finally posted pics of his monster physique and then even pics of all the 10's he was smashing...

Eagerly awaiting similar self owning from the ESF chap above..

[muscleman-2017]

Howard, we are sick of your pathetic excuses. Now you resort to insulting people to protect your secret.

You are GAY.

Also Howard, NOBODY wants to have kids with you.

I'm not talking about guys that want to be dads.
No, I'm referring to the countless beta males that cave in to female pressure.

I've known numerous old friends , gym bros, and unknown guys that had kids and seem miserable.
Some are divorced, paying child support and are pissed off about it.

I see these poor bastards on weekends in some Burger King parking lot.
They are getting the brats for the weekend , dropped of by some bitter ex-wife.
She looks pissed off, resentful and has zero respect for him.
He looks beat down and has the life force sucked out of him.

I've asked ( when I can) WHY they had kids in the first place.

Most admit they didn't really want to and it just "happened".
Some admit the woman really wanted kids and they just went along with it.

Lots of the dudes with kids, often say how bad the sex life with their wife is.
Again and again, I hear the same , sad tale.
Married life was a lot more fun BEFORE the kids came.

Many that don't divorce, hunker down for a life of quiet desperation.

Why?

[muscleman-2017]

BUT, only a real man, admits it and then does the hard work to go forward the right way.

And for YOU Howard, that requires coming out of the closet.

[Dave D]

Dumb question.

Why do people smoke cigarettes, drink and drive, go into debt, not wear helmets on motorcycles.....

People are simple minded and generally dont give a lot of thought to their actions.

[Man of Steel]

For the record I fully support the vast majority of Getbiggers that never want to have children.

[Simple Simon]

For the record I fully support the vast majority of Getbiggers that never want to have children.

 

[Hack Benchers]

For the record I fully support the vast majority of Getbiggers that never want to have children.

I see what you did bro, I see it  

[gothorium]

sterilize reversibly all women at 9

when she has 500k and a signed contract that dad wants baby THEN woman can have it reversed and have kid

then fixed again



pro tip: most undeirables jsut take care of themselves