Cheating

[Hypertrophy]

Cheating is an artificial concept. Men were designed to impregnate as many as possible.

[Fortress]

As long as you tell the slut with whom you're cheating it-doesn't-mean-anything, you are in the clear.

[The Scott]

OP is a cuckold.

[Tapeworm]

Because I'm a human male. My sex-drive was never directed "exclusively" towards my wife. I mean, there was no point when I wasn't aroused by other women. But I guess it's sort of like having your favorite meal everyday. It could be a full course dinner prepared by michelin starred chef, but after a certain point, a slice from Papa John's is going to sound really appealing.

Sure there was.  Ok, maybe it wasn't purely sexual but there was presumably a time, however brief, when you would have knocked back sexual offers from other women owing to being so keen on the one you eventually married.

Between then and now there has been a shift.  So it's either the case that this sort of thing just inevitably comes to pass, which seems more than possible as wives grow old with you and young women retain their flower of youth, or something in the relationship soured or became hum-drum or such, and said shift found itself precipitated.

Honestly, I envy men who are devoted to their wives.  I found it impossible.

[Never1AShow]

Does OP have a job where he is around women all day long?  That is where the trouble starts.  He's out in the world moving and staying vital and wifey is at  home bored and eating and getting fat.

[Tapeworm]

No one said she was fat.  I said old.

[Man of Steel]

You delusional weaklings and your "scripture". 

You unaccountable suppressors of God and your "justifications".  

[Never1AShow]

No one said she was fat.  I said old.

Fat is the usual culprit and I was discussing OPs situation.  He said he was mid 30s so it isn't an age issue.  But if a wife lost her looks due to not taking care of herself it's the same thing unless we are talking so old that you're an old fart too with unrealistic expectations.  How old we talking?  Big diff between 50 and 70

[johnnynoname]

lol at those people who got married and thought that it was gonna (smh) last



are people that fucking stupid


.....seriously---how dumb are these people?

I mean---I kind get it if you're from the Midwest or Amish or some shit like that.....but if you live any where that is even close to a metropolitan area I just don't get how you can seriously buy into the fallacy into "death do us part"


the only life long relationship any man has is with his mother.....and that's coming from someone who isn't a "momma's boy"....however I do love my mom

[johnnynoname]

just remember:

we (men) were made to:
 go around
find a thing to put our dicks inside
make a baby,
then move onto the next fertile thing to make another baby
repeat

we weren't made to stick around and raise kids or stay married....that's all Quaker bullshit that we've bought into

[Grape Ape]

lol at those people who got married and thought that it was gonna (smh) last



are people that fucking stupid


.....seriously---how dumb are these people?

I mean---I kind get it if you're from the Midwest or Amish or some shit like that.....but if you live any where that is even close to a metropolitan area I just don't get how you can seriously buy into the fallacy into "death do us part"


the only life long relationship any man has is with his mother.....and that's coming from someone who isn't a "momma's boy"....however I do love my mom

How long is your current laid-less drought?

[johnnynoname]

August 28th 2010


btw---in a TOTALLY unrelated subject--I someday want to ask Pete Rose if he misses hitting baseballs since he retired

[Grape Ape]

August 28th 2010


btw---in a TOTALLY unrelated subject--I someday want to ask Pete Rose if he misses hitting baseballs since he retired

I've always thought your abandonment of baseball was the root cause of some of your issues.

[NarcissisticDeity]

You unaccountable suppressors of God and your "justifications".  

 

[johnnynoname]

I've always thought your abandonment of baseball was the root cause of some of your issues.

honestly---it was abandonment of other things that most likely caused most of my root issues


"dad stuff" makes up the rest of the issues but I really, REALLY had a great mother who made up for that void

[Grape Ape]

honestly---it was abandonment of other things that most likely caused most of my root issues


"dad stuff" makes up the rest of the issues but I really, REALLY had a great mother who made up for that void

So join a men's league and start playing baseball again.

I can answer your Pete Rose question for him - it's "Yes".

[johnnynoname]

So join a men's league and start playing baseball again.

I can answer your Pete Rose question for him - it's "Yes".

nah---lol...it aint happeining....I sincerely can't stand being around people and really do enjoy my time by myself

plus--baseball is so fucking boring haha

[El Diablo Blanco]

just remember:

we (men) were made to:
 go around
find a thing to put our dicks inside
make a baby,
then move onto the next fertile thing to make another baby
repeat

we weren't made to stick around and raise kids or stay married....that's all Quaker bullshit that we've bought into

Aren't you homo though?  how do you make babies depositing your sperm into another man's anus?

[johnnynoname]

me posting on this forum today is proof that I'm not a gay person

here's why---- years ago when I was still handsome enough I could have made a fucking killing doing gay porn or gay escorting......so this would have led to two possible outcomes:

1- dead from some sort of really bad gay vinearl disese from all the dick I was sucking/putting in my ass and the afterlife is a great place to play ping pong wiith jimmy hendrix and abraham lincoln but they have no internet there
2- too rich from man-sex to even be posting on such a prolateriat forum such as this

[johnnynoname]

heterosexuality is keeping me alive, brother

[Al Doggity]

Sure there was.  Ok, maybe it wasn't purely sexual but there was presumably a time, however brief, when you would have knocked back sexual offers from other women owing to being so keen on the one you eventually married.

Between then and now there has been a shift.  So it's either the case that this sort of thing just inevitably comes to pass, which seems more than possible as wives grow old with you and young women retain their flower of youth, or something in the relationship soured or became hum-drum or such, and said shift found itself precipitated.

Honestly, I envy men who are devoted to their wives.  I found it impossible.

To me there's a difference between "no problem being faithful" and  "only being sexually attracted to my wife". In this particular situation, I don't think it's a matter of semantics.

[Al Doggity]

Fat is the usual culprit and I was discussing OPs situation.  He said he was mid 30s so it isn't an age issue.  But if a wife lost her looks due to not taking care of herself it's the same thing unless we are talking so old that you're an old fart too with unrealistic expectations.  How old we talking?  Big diff between 50 and 70

Haha, sorry I haven't been reading your posts. Your earlier posts in this thread were childish enough that I was just skipping over everything else you posted. Wife is 31. Gave birth at the end of January to our second child. Still an incredibly beautiful woman. Like I said in my reply, you can just take something for granted over time.I've said it over and over again, I haven't fallen out of love with her, I haven't even fallen out of attraction with her. I've yet to meet a woman of whom I've thought "I'd rather be spending my life with her rather than my wife."  I'm not one foot out the door. I'm not even halfway inside some sideline ho's pussy.


Yesterday, I re-read Thong Maniac's post and, for whatever reason,  it made me realize something about myself: even though I considered myself a serial monogamist before getting married, I have never been in a relationship this long. I never consciously split with a girl just to start sleeping around and there were times when I was on the receiving end, so now that I look back, that definitely played apart in me not ever wanting to stray. Even when I was in my early 20s, bedding a lot of chicks wasn't something I aspired to do or admired. And I'm pretty decent in the looks department and am an affable guy, so it wasn't a thing where I was bad with women. Even now- I've considered how I'd react if my wife just decided "Okay, I get you. Let's keep our relationship basically the same but let's take monogamy on your part out of the equation." I don't think I'd just go hog wild. I don't think I'd even want to have a steady affair.  Ideally, my goal is to not have an affair and ultimately just be better at denying temptation.

[HockeyFightFan]

Can someone please give me cliff notes for the last few pages I missed while I was out banging Howard's wife?

[Never1AShow]

Haha, sorry I haven't been reading your posts. Your earlier posts in this thread were childish enough that I was just skipping over everything else you posted. Wife is 31. Gave birth at the end of January to our second child. Still an incredibly beautiful woman. Like I said in my reply, you can just take something for granted over time.I've said it over and over again, I haven't fallen out of love with her, I haven't even fallen out of attraction with her. I've yet to meet a woman of whom I've thought "I'd rather be spending my life with her rather than my wife."  I'm not one foot out the door. I'm not even halfway inside some sideline ho's pussy.


Yesterday, I re-read Thong Maniac's post and, for whatever reason,  it made me realize something about myself: even though I considered myself a serial monogamist before getting married, I have never been in a relationship this long. I never consciously split with a girl just to start sleeping around and there were times when I was on the receiving end, so now that I look back, that definitely played apart in me not ever wanting to stray. Even when I was in my early 20s, bedding a lot of chicks wasn't something I aspired to do or admired. And I'm pretty decent in the looks department and am an affable guy, so it wasn't a thing where I was bad with women. Even now- I've considered how I'd react if my wife just decided "Okay, I get you. Let's keep our relationship basically the same but let's take monogamy on your part out of the equation." I don't think I'd just go hog wild. I don't think I'd even want to have a steady affair.  Ideally, my goal is to not have an affair and ultimately just be better at denying temptation.

Young enough wife, just had second kid, and you're here trying to justify cheating?  I know all I need to at this point.

[Al Doggity]

Young enough wife, just had second kid, and you're here trying to justify cheating?  I know all I need to at this point.

That's great?    Because I was waiting for you to render a judgement?