Exactly. Which, I guess, is what makes some people go "hmmm". 
Hmmmm, is right. G_Thang/secrawler, Wiggs, Big Dub, Drkaje, Option D, and others (maybe you?), already know how I think about things, and the path that I take. I respect their views on things, even if we may not agree. And G_Thang is right to a degree, Getbig will turn on a person, like say Groink, but Groink had it coming.
If we are talking about black folk, I believe that one should define oneself, and not others who define you, the latter is path that black folk have taken since the Civil Rights era, and it is a path of the weak. And we are seeing the results of that now. Looking for acceptance and love from non-blacks, and when we don’t get it, we meltdown. Because there is this belief ever since slavery, that if we are of some usefulness to the whites, the establishment, then that defines us. And that is not the way to go. Malcolm X was on to something, but hey, whose a President to back, a former criminal and Muslim or Southern Christian preaching love and acceptance (from whites) through non-violence?
Conker is a half Caribbean from the UK who just doesn’t get the US, and grew up where the government takes care of people, plus may have the resentment built up through his experiences in the UK and being part Caribbean.
So, I can see where he is coming from.