Dating a single mom

[Howard]

Your mother must be a very happy grandma of 2 cabbage patch grandkids 

HOF getbig zinger !

After the 1st divorce, I had a nightmare where these demon cabbage patch dolls were trying to get me. 100% serious.
Trust me, no man endures a divorce without some PTSD.

[Teutonic Knight 1]

HOF getbig zinger !

After the 1st divorce, I had a nightmare where these demon cabbage patch dolls were trying to get me. 100% serious.
Trust me, no man endures a divorce without some PTSD.

Love you misery , how is old mama !.

 

[FitnessFrenzy]

pics of the MILF please

[Teutonic Knight 1]

pics of the MILF please

>>>Howards video, 

[Chidoman]

>>>Howards video, 

LMAO

[Fortress]

This thread is plagued with an over abundance of estrogen.

Stop your yacking and figure it out.

Hell, stay with the broad ... and rig a scene in which the little wanker is “accidentally” run over. Ride out the emotional fallout and then knock her up with your own seed.

Don’t have to thank me.

[Grape Ape]

This thread is plagued with an over abundance of estrogen.

Stop your yacking and figure it out.

Hell, stay with the broad ... and rig a scene in which the little wanker is “accidentally” run over. Ride out the emotional fallout and then knock her up with your own seed.

Don’t have to thank me.

Nothing you say matters.

The dude is actually taking life advice from the biggest collection of retards on the planet.

Hopefully he realizes he's already hit rock bottom and snaps out of it.

[youandme]

the kid's dad is a deadbeat.  Turned out he became a drunk a couple years into the marriage.  For whatever reason.  Would berate her, yell at her and emotionally beat her down.  She tried to make the relationship work but left him a few years after the kid was born.  He has no interest in seeing the kid but she does make the effort to try to have him see the kid so the kid doesn't feel abandoned and mentally fucked up.  She hates her ex with a passion. 

Hey bro that’s her side of the story. I have dated women that say same things about their ex and guess what I am after we break up? Yep, I’m the bad guy that she tells the next guy was emotionally abusive, mean, toxic, yada yada.  You said some men’s things recently - guess what now she’s saying in her head or out loud that you are emotionally abusive.

Always two sides and in the middle somewhere is the truth. She’s manipulating you with that story. I respect women so much when they just tell me, “things didn’t work out” and don’t bash the ex or anything.

I’ve been in your same situation many years ago. I moved on.....she’s been engaged twice but no marriage and has been riding that cock carousel for years now.

[Teutonic Knight 1]

Simple solution: El Diablo Blanco & Howard should do wife swap !.

 

[Humble Narcissist]

Hey bro that’s her side of the story. I have dated women that say same things about their ex and guess what I am after we break up? Yep, I’m the bad guy that she tells the next guy was emotionally abusive, mean, toxic, yada yada.  You said some men’s things recently - guess what now she’s saying in her head or out loud that you are emotionally abusive.

Always two sides and in the middle somewhere is the truth. She’s manipulating you with that story. I respect women so much when they just tell me, “things didn’t work out” and don’t bash the ex or anything.

I’ve been in your same situation many years ago. I moved on.....she’s been engaged twice but no marriage and has been riding that cock carousel for years now.

This.

[Hulkotron]

I think social media has made women more bay shit crazy. On the plus side helps guys easily identify the cluster B chicks.

 

[IroNat]

Hey bro that’s her side of the story. I have dated women that say same things about their ex and guess what I am after we break up? Yep, I’m the bad guy that she tells the next guy was emotionally abusive, mean, toxic, yada yada.  You said some men’s things recently - guess what now she’s saying in her head or out loud that you are emotionally abusive.

Always two sides and in the middle somewhere is the truth. She’s manipulating you with that story. I respect women so much when they just tell me, “things didn’t work out” and don’t bash the ex or anything.

I’ve been in your same situation many years ago. I moved on.....she’s been engaged twice but no marriage and has been riding that cock carousel for years now.

I think you are on to something here.

[ThisisOverload]

It occurred to me that Diablo likes to run Tren.  If you're on Tren right now you might want to taper off and mellow out a bit.

I can tell you a dozen times i flipped out about something on Tren, that would have normally been no big deal.

[WoogsRaven]

It occurred to me that Diablo likes to run Tren.  If you're on Tren right now you might want to taper off and mellow out a bit.

I can tell you a dozen times i flipped out about something on Tren, that would have normally been no big deal.

Running Tren at age 45 doesn't sound like a good idea to me.

[IroNat]

Running Tren at age 45 doesn't sound like a good idea to me.

How about at 60?

[El Diablo Blanco]

Hey bro that’s her side of the story. I have dated women that say same things about their ex and guess what I am after we break up? Yep, I’m the bad guy that she tells the next guy was emotionally abusive, mean, toxic, yada yada.  You said some men’s things recently - guess what now she’s saying in her head or out loud that you are emotionally abusive.

Always two sides and in the middle somewhere is the truth. She’s manipulating you with that story. I respect women so much when they just tell me, “things didn’t work out” and don’t bash the ex or anything.

I’ve been in your same situation many years ago. I moved on.....she’s been engaged twice but no marriage and has been riding that cock carousel for years now.

I've been thinking the same thing.  Sometimes I wonder if she was the real problem and not the dad.  Truth is though, he never makes the effort to see the kid so she does all the time.  She feels guilty the kid will turned fucked in the head because of it.  But then why the guilt?  Was it really her that fucked up and why the dad never wants to see her and it's not really the kid that's the issue?

I think about this a lot.  I also thought the same that if we break up, she will tell everyone I was the bad guy and she was the angel blah blah blah.  I think most women do that anyways.  Most won't admit that they were the fuck up.

[El Diablo Blanco]

For me to really plan a long term relationship with this gal, I really want to meet her Ex.  I need to figure out how.  Have a beer with him and see if there's a pattern to her behavior or if it really was him being a shit head loser.  That would solidify if I have a serial psycho girlfriend or someone how is 100% legit.

[tres_taco_combo]

late to the thread

1. do you live with her and her kid?
2. what does she do a living?

[IroNat]

For me to really plan a long term relationship with this gal, I really want to meet her Ex.  I need to figure out how.  Have a beer with him and see if there's a pattern to her behavior or if it really was him being a shit head loser.  That would solidify if I have a serial psycho girlfriend or someone how is 100% legit.

I saw a movie where the guy met with the former husband.

Seems like good move.

[Tapeworm]

Of all the hairbrained notions.... Are we being trolled here? Do not meet her ex husband on the sly. Just you and her are generating all the data you need.

Bear in mind it's not up to only you whether to stay together or not. Her behavior, as you describe it, is that of a person who is not so terribly keen but doesn't want to rip the bandaid off.

[youandme]

For me to really plan a long term relationship with this gal, I really want to meet her Ex.  I need to figure out how.  Have a beer with him and see if there's a pattern to her behavior or if it really was him being a shit head loser.  That would solidify if I have a serial psycho girlfriend or someone how is 100% legit.

There’s a reason he doesn’t come around. I dated another crazy broad with a kid (different than previously mentioned) and I knew her ex boyfriend since we would shoot the shit in the gym and see each other out. Nice guy. One night she told me how her ex was a deadbeat, didn’t want the kid when she was pregnant, etc. Few weeks later she says his name. I put two and two together and confirm it’s the dude I know. Keep my mouth shut that I know him, just say yeah I think I know who that is.

Next week I run into him. He tells me the story is she would continually keep him from seeing the kid out of punishment for past wrongs in the relationship. Be spiteful and actually tell him that I was going to adopt the kid legally and he needs to sign over rights. That she was always starting fights with him. He admitted he doesn’t pay support but he’s struggling to build his company up (2007 crash he was hurting).

If you’re going to stay in it plan to meet him or do some digging to get 100% out and not look back. 

[Fortress]

This entire scene is way too tiring.

Just punch your monkey several times each week and be done with it.

[Dave D]

I've been thinking the same thing.  Sometimes I wonder if she was the real problem and not the dad.  Truth is though, he never makes the effort to see the kid so she does all the time.  She feels guilty the kid will turned fucked in the head because of it.  But then why the guilt?  Was it really her that fucked up and why the dad never wants to see her and it's not really the kid that's the issue?

I think about this a lot.  I also thought the same that if we break up, she will tell everyone I was the bad guy and she was the angel blah blah blah.  I think most women do that anyways.  Most won't admit that they were the fuck up.

LOL you wonder if the dad is the problem?

The guy who walked out on his kid and left him with the potentially crazy mom.

This is good stuff.

[Humble Narcissist]

This entire scene is way too tiring.

Just punch your monkey several times each week and be done with it.

X2

[Howard]

Of all the hairbrained notions.... Are we being trolled here? Do not meet her ex husband on the sly. Just you and her are generating all the data you need.

Bear in mind it's not up to only you whether to stay together or not. Her behavior, as you describe it, is that of a person who is not so terribly keen but doesn't want to rip the bandaid off.

Great post with solid, direct advice and insight.

I don't  know El Diablo . It looks like most here , don't know him either.
We can only go on what he's posted , here , in this thread

In the end, El Diablo needs to do what's right for him , her and the kid

I'll be direct and concise on my final advice for him:

1.  RUN!