Dating single mothers

[Taffin]

It's unlikely I'd benefit a kid. I once saw a young boy throwing a tantrum and the adults around him were reacting to it. My instinct was to ask "Are you experiencing an emotion?" Then discuss the nature and validity of subjective experience.

People generally find themselves emotionally invalidated around me. It's probably not developmentally healthy for a young person to be asked to adopt an observer's perspective and alienate themselves from their feelings.

Sounds logical, my fellow Vulcan



 

[Earl1972]

I think you’ve been watching too much porn

the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them

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[Tapeworm]

Sounds logical, my fellow Vulcan



 

I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism. Not only was my counsel discounted, she was disposed to manifest its very opposite. Peculiar creatures.

[Humble Narcissist]

the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them

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[FitnessFrenzy]

I once advised a furious woman to try a little stoicism.

I love stoicism. Angry and stubborn people are their own worst enemy.

[bhank]

It isn't pathetic at all. You don't have to have someone who matches you or equals your wealth or IQ. You can have someone who complements you and makes your life more fun. If I'm with a 20 something it isn't for intellectual stimulation or high brow conversation. I have getbig for that 

Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.

[GymnJuice]

Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.

I don't think so many men are unhappy. And if they are I think it is because they settled for less than what they wanted and stuck around too long with the wrong person.

[falco]

Dating a single mother brings problems that i do not need into my life.

[Dave D]

Have you ever hung out with an actual 20 something? How old are you? Again your naive view is why so many men are unhappy they think it is all about looks and want the prettiest youngest girl they can get so they will be judged successful by others who also don't get it. It takes a long time for some men to learn some never do. Find a woman who is actually into you who you are actually into not just the prettiest youngest girl willing to go out with you.

Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?

What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?

[King Shizzo]

Everyone talks about equality.....

What about single fathers?

[Flexacon]

Everyone talks about equality.....

What about single fathers?

If you want to date them or suck them off, then more power to you.

[joswift]

Bhanks what do you think makes a successful relationship?

What happened with you and your sons mother, you were obviously older when he was born, why didnt your wisdom apply to that relationship?

[Henda]

Haha

Josh says let you know it’s gazoos birthday today mate, says he misses you on face book

[IroNat]

Bhanky,

Were you legally married to your son's mother?

Is his last name "Bhanky"?

[King Shizzo]

If you want to date them or suck them off, then more power to you.

[Skeletor]

Nasser El Bhanky.

[ProudVirgin69]

the porn girls on the howard stern show often said their step dad molested them

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what is this supposed to prove, aside from your poor understanding of statistics

[Earl1972]

what is this supposed to prove, aside from your poor understanding of statistics

poor understanding of what statistics?  where are these statistics you speak of?

why are you under the impression that step fathers hurting their step daughters only happens in porn?  i think it happens a lot more than you want to think hence most kids hating their step fathers

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[Earl1972]

Everyone talks about equality.....

What about single fathers?

they often have the same problems as single mothers but society doesn't care about men

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[Humble Narcissist]

Dating a single mother brings problems that i do not need into my life.

You can pull it off if you don't ever move in with them.

[lightweight83]

they often have the same problems as single mothers but society doesn't care about men

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Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak!  He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life.  They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36.  They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment!  Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women.  He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids. 

[BBSSchlemiel]

Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak!  He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life.  They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36.  They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment!  Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women.  He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids.

He has to raise his kids and after only less than year of having his last kid, he MUST meet another woman immediately, but can’t.

Poor dear.

The thirst and simping is becoming more brutal each passing year. Men are acting like if they don’t get a pat on the head from some surrogate mommy for a day they’re gonna die!

Then we wonder why we are living in a gynecocracy. “Yo bro! You suffering from X malady? You sad, suicidal, broke? Easy to solve bro: go find a woman!”

I thought you were going to mention serious issues like who is gonna care for the kids if he has work or financial worries, such as getting taken to the cleaners by courts!

[Humble Narcissist]

Funny you mention this, as a co worker of mine is going through this as we speak!  He just split up with his old lady about 2 months ago, after being together basically his entire adult life.  They began dating at 19 and he's currently 36.  They had a kid together when he was 20, which is probably what kept them together, and they JUST had a baby last summer, which he is definitely regretting at the moment!  Since he has his kids on his days off and has to raise a baby all on his own, he has very little if any time to meet new women.  He also said that most women don't want anything to do with him, because of his kids.

He should consider himself lucky that no woman wants anything to do with him.

[bhank]

My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.

[kreator]

My girlfriend has 3 daughters. I have a son. We all get along great. Her youngest daughter and my son are inseparable. Her kids are really nice to me and my son. We are all going to see Batman together this week. You guys are missing out on a lot of good women. Children enhance your life they are not the end.

couldn't care less about other people's children