In a true self protection (which includes protecting family and those that can’t protect themselves) chances of doing any real time are fairly slim. But to your point, the family is alive, the father is alive the attacker is hopefully dead. I’m with Rob…
That wasnt the scenario
If you go and kill someone after the event you will be in jail, its rare that you wont get any time and your child will end up growing up without you.
The real problem in the black community is single parent families with no father present, kids far more likely to end up in jail themselves.
What real father would want that for their child?
The initial feeligs would be to harm the person who hurt youur child but long term for the child it isnt the answer.
Your child would need you more than ever after a traumatic event, you are not much good in jail even for a short time