Has your arm been in a sling since your daddy died and left you money bitch? Always some reason you can't do what other men do daily. Jesus, I know someone who went to work after being shot in the leg. in fairness only a 22 but shot all the same. dug it out, sterilised it as best they could and went to work the next day.
Real men work, pussies make excuses. Face it you aren't a real man and never will be. Coward. I suppose you can't change diapers with one arm in a sling either so your son will be dragging around a couple of days worth of shit in his nappy until returned to his mother at the end of the visit?
If you had a dad bod, were bald, couldn't bench 150lbs for more than a couple of reps but worked a full time job and were a good father, you'd have a ton of respect, but you have none, from anyone, and that is a FACT.