I think women are a lot like cars and so the average guy can only afford a banged up piece of garbage right out the gates. So he either takes what he can get or stays without a car for many years until he has established himself properly. The real question for me is how can you be sure you will be able to get something better? I read that nowadays, women don't care about money as much anymore and prefer to be single moms getting railed by chad and tyrone 
You see - that's the problem most men don't understand. You need to think outside the box. If you get a banged up car - it's just aa banged up car. IF you get a banged up VAN - you're a man with a van! Everyone needs a man with a van at some point to help them do something/move something. You're instantly no longer just a broke loser in a broke car: you're MEN WITH VEN!!! Money goes out of the window. The rest is down to personality and confidence when you're helping them with the task.
I'm actually serious: I've never had much need for cars due to always needing vans growing up and in my 20's. Plenty of people phoning me up.
On another note: I've had trouble finding decent women as I don't like anyone to know anything about me and these girls these days love to look you up on social media and what you do for a living, etc. It's hard to get an established relationship because I don't know if they're clouded by my rusty banger vans or want me for me....
Another problem I've encountered is that when I get invited to 'networking' type events; it's always with cultured types with backgrounds in civil engineering, CILT professionals, and the like. Some nice professional, established women - but I'm kind of not in their league. I don't speak the Queen's English, being a Brummie. I'm trying to rectify my 'rough' edges through elocution lessons and doing mature studies now that I have time to do my own thing for the first time in my life... I'd love to meet a refined person from a good background where I wouldn't feel subservient and lower in terms of intellect. I've also tried other events through my solicitors, for example, where I do get invited to their events; and I met a lovely girl that worked in London on Intellectual Property law, but she wanted kids and I didn't. That went south quickly and I messed that up one drunken night. I've been single for a long time, now. I do get lonely - but I wouldn't date some slag or materialistic twerp: they get so upset when you don't want them knowing your full name right away. Nosey twats.
