GROINK you're going to experience a lot of things like that. Just go easy, you know how big and strong you are. No sense in rubbing someones nose in it , especially a relative.
A similar situation is when people say, " My _____ lifts weights too but he's bigger than you" You just know the kid goes about a buck eighty. Just smile and nod like you're at the in-laws.
BTW twenty years and a torn rotator cuff from now keep your " I used to bench four plates" comments to yourself.
That's actually good advice for me.
" Back in the day Jack Lalanne and I rode the trolley down to Muscle Beach and...don't walk away when I'm talking..you little ......