the hardwiring is determined at birth? thats what scientist want you to believe
This is something every person (or at least 97% of all people) can relate to.
For example, I've been a 'schmoe' since birth. That is, with regards to preferences, I've preferred athletic women for as long as I can remember. There was no defining moment or event where I began liking strong chicks - I've just always been this way. It has nothing to do with my environment either. Sure, there were fast girls in the neighborhood who knew how to play basketball, but every neighborhood has one or two of those, right? My mother and grandmother were not athletic.
It's a preference that I have and I cannot recall a time when it did not exist within me. Now, I will admit that the fact I've taken it to the level of making it my business is a bit extreme, but liking girls with nice triceps is not something that I can decide NOT to do.