I think they are part of the journey...like bumps and potholes in a heavily used road. They are telltale signs of your struggles in the gym and your dedication to move past those struggles. I've never worn gloves because powerlifting didn't allow it in the meets, and I didn't like doing something in practice that I wouldn't be allowed to do in the meet.
I apply lotion to my hands constantly while at work and at home, so that helps to keep them a little smoother.