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Title: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: az on July 13, 2006, 10:17:28 PM

Help!!!! Need some support/encouragement. Right before my first body building comp, relationship goes to pieces. Trying to keep it together but it is kickin my butt. Has anyone ever experienced this

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: 1Fast400 on July 14, 2006, 07:23:47 AM

Competition dieting and relationships aren't always things that go together.  The significant other has to realize they aren't the most important thing during this time.  They should be supportive and do everything they can to help out.  Granted, you don't need to be a super bitch during this time as well.  I've been through quite a few shows.  The key is for the person to realize it is just a short period of time.  Hopefully you would be equally as supportive if they were going to spend 10-12 weeks focusing on something.

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: Lee_a_priest on July 14, 2006, 07:34:15 AM

Quote from: az on July 13, 2006, 10:17:28 PM

Help!!!! Need some support/encouragement. Right before my first body building comp, relationship goes to pieces. Trying to keep it together but it is kickin my butt. Has anyone ever experienced this

Oh been there :) just stayed focused your almost there.Worry about it later.When your dieting things (everything)seems worse.Just keep up your training ,diet,cardio and do what you set out to do.

Lee

Then again why am i giving advice look at my realationship   ???

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: Rick Lohre on July 14, 2006, 10:32:02 AM

Agreed,
You must have a significant other that realizes what happens when dieting.
I chalk it up to "Temporary Insanity", and try to let stuff roll off. 
Realizing there is an end to the tough weeks of prep, is key. 
However, as "Fast" says this does not give you rights to be a total JACKOFF!
Some just use dieting/prep as an exuse to be an A$$. 
Not that I'm saying anything like that about you Julie : )

Rick Lohre
www.LohreCreative.com (http://www.LohreCreative.com)
(http://www.lohrecreative.com/lohrecreative.jpg)

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: Max_Rep on July 15, 2006, 10:20:22 AM

Quote from: az on July 13, 2006, 10:17:28 PM

Help!!!! Need some support/encouragement. Right before my first body building comp, relationship goes to pieces. Trying to keep it together but it is kickin my butt. Has anyone ever experienced this

Sleep with someone else. Solidify the break-up.

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: JMentis on July 16, 2006, 03:13:08 PM

Maybe now you can focus on your show..

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: Slick Vic on July 17, 2006, 05:41:53 AM

Quote from: Lee_a_priest on July 14, 2006, 07:34:15 AM

Then again why am i giving advice look at my realationship   ???

hahaha....  :D

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2006, 07:16:18 PM

Quote from: az on July 13, 2006, 10:17:28 PM

Help!!!! Need some support/encouragement. Right before my first body building comp, relationship goes to pieces. Trying to keep it together but it is kickin my butt. Has anyone ever experienced this

Love > bodybuilding/fitness..blah ...oh for fucks sake it is



if ya dont love him..then..meh..dosen't matter either way...

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2006, 07:17:42 PM

Quote from: Lee_a_priest on July 14, 2006, 07:34:15 AM

Oh been there :) just stayed focused your almost there.Worry about it later.When your dieting things (everything)seems worse.Just keep up your training ,diet,cardio and do what you set out to do.

Lee

Then again why am i giving advice look at my realationship   ???

love the avatar dood..i saw the movie on one of those huge 3 d screens in FL..awesome! 20 mins of the movie ws 3d..the plane scene ws...



although the geeks ruined it with thei insistant clapping  >:(

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: az on August 02, 2006, 12:02:03 AM

Thanks for the comments. I placed third at my first show and it was a great experience, I had fun and met a lot of nice people. Thanks again.

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: ToxicAvenger on August 02, 2006, 07:16:08 AM

G`job....now what happened to the dood?


yeah i have nothing better to do at this moment...

Title: Re: 1 week out and relationship goes down the tubes
Post by: az on August 02, 2006, 10:20:11 PM

evrything is cool now, thanks for asking.