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Eliot & Silda Spitzer
BayGBM:
Would finding out that your husband of many years (not your boyfriend) had seen a hooker end your relationship?
http://www.nypost.com/seven/03112008/news/regionalnews/spitzer_has_used_hookers_for_6_years__so_101444.htm?page=0
Somehow, I doubt that this marriage is going to end over this. Your thoughts?
w8m8:
--- Quote from: BayGBM on March 11, 2008, 10:36:08 PM ---Would finding out that your husband of many years (not your boyfriend) had seen a hooker end your relationship?
Somehow, I doubt that this marriage is going to end over this. Your thoughts?
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Finding out something that affects so many people in so many ways
Hell Yes , he'd be in so much pain he'd never be right again >:(
He humiliated her !!!! in front of the whole friggin' world !!
I'm really an odd person , here's my take on prostitution > if he was able to afford me AND a few tricks a yr. , keep it wrapped up , make sure I don't get anything from it , and have yourself a blast .
You're as sick as your secrets
Butterbean:
--- Quote from: BayGBM on March 11, 2008, 10:36:08 PM ---Would finding out that your husband of many years (not your boyfriend) had seen a hooker end your relationship?
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Yes
--- Quote from: BayGBM on March 11, 2008, 10:36:08 PM ---
Somehow, I doubt that this marriage is going to end over this. Your thoughts?
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I think it will end.
BayGBM:
--- Quote from: STella on March 12, 2008, 06:44:17 AM ---Yes
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Are you married? Have you been married for years with children? Or are you just answering theoretically? Women who stay with a man who cheated are often criticized, but I think it's a lot harder to give up on a marriage after you've invested so many years together and children are involved. Especially if you love the guy and he is otherwise (aside from cheating with a hooker :-\ ) a good spouse.
--- Quote from: STella on March 12, 2008, 06:44:17 AM ---I think it will end.
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The fact that Silda stood there next to him during his little news conference suggests to me that she may not leave him. He'd be in the doghouse for a good long while and she could milk that for a while... ;) Seriously, with a lot of marriage counseling they could work things out and still make a go of it, don't you think?
Here's another thought. Assuming she leaves him what are his prospects? Would you date someone who had this very public episode in his past even if he had $$? If not you, what kind of woman would date or marry a man like this? It's not as if he is 80; his romantic life is far from over. If he ends up single when this is all over, what sort of woman does he go for? A young bimbo with no standards? A submissive foreign woman who is not clued into American scandals?
The unspoken element in all the press coverage of this story is what I call the "cockroach effect." For every one you see, there are literally dozens you don't see. Hillary Clinton, Jim McGreevy, Terry McMillan, Mrs. Larry Craig, Mrs. Ted Haggard--all had cheating spouses but the incidence of infidelity is far more common than all these judgmental talking heads on TV seem prepared to acknowledge.
No one--especially no woman--should be quick to judge Silda Spitzer. Remember the wife of Senator David Vitter (R-La)? Years ago in an interview she mocked Hillary Clinton and indicated she had better control of her man and that she would not tolerate him cheating on her. Fast forward a few years and her words came back to haunt her when her husband's name and number showed up on the DC Madam's phone records. http://www.thekansan.com/stories/071007/topstories_071007006.shtml
michael arvilla:
If his wife swallowed............... ........he wouldn't have "spit"
get it??
swallowed
spit
spitzer
hahha?
no?
never mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:(
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