Do you avoid fights on account of certain things that may come off during the fight?
I'm an idiot. I'm pretty easy going but I get set off easily and become a Mr. Hyde. I'm not afraid of getting beat up, but I'm afraid, or should be if I thought straight, of getting knifed or falling on my head on the concrete and becoming a vegetable.
Last week I was driving behind someone that was driving pretty slow so I passed him and got back in front of him. This pissed him off and he spend up and then cut in front of me so that I had to slam my brakes. I then pulled up to the side of him and as I looked over he gave me the finger. I motioned for him to pull over in the parking where the gym I go to is. We both got out of the car with him swearing at me. I told him that we should discuss this in a more private setting and pointed to the secluded area underneath a staircase. I've used this area before. Anyway, as I started walking to the area seething with anger vowing to pound this person into a pulp complete with coup de gras boot stomp he went back to his car swearing.
After cooling down I began reflecting how many, perhaps life changing, scenarios could have happened. All because he cut me off.