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Title: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 23, 2021, 04:52:12 PM
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First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 23, 2021, 06:22:47 PM
Who is the #5 guy?  Is he the guy from the Office...Ed Helms?

Looking at these pics I can see that I was a 9 in my prime.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: oldtimer1 on November 23, 2021, 07:10:18 PM
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in shit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 23, 2021, 07:56:44 PM
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in sit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.

A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Earl1972 on November 23, 2021, 08:08:25 PM
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First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)

i don't see many athletes, ceo's, attorneys or venture capitalists that look like chris hemsworth or whatever "10" you are using as an example, they look closer to the 4 - 5 range at best

you have a pic?  i mean if you are legit 2% why be so shy about it?

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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: kreator on November 23, 2021, 11:24:58 PM
A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.

True, alpha fucks, beta bucks. Attraction and genuine desire aren't the same
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 24, 2021, 12:35:42 AM
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 08:05:18 AM
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
Spoken like a true "4"
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Griffith on November 24, 2021, 08:12:12 AM
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First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)

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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Army of One on November 24, 2021, 08:14:11 AM

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?

Pure delusion and cope
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SexyCustomSynthesis250 on November 24, 2021, 08:17:26 AM
First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to hom..... Snipping this faggot waffle.


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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Hypertrophy on November 24, 2021, 08:23:59 AM
Spoken like a true "4"


Show your pic, Rico Suave, lol.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: GymnJuice on November 24, 2021, 09:27:41 AM
Wallet trumps looks.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Cook on November 24, 2021, 09:39:41 AM
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
Overload is right.It’s a matter of confidence.Problem is you can’t fake confidence or just decide “hey I’m going to be confident “
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Spike on November 24, 2021, 09:44:24 AM
Overload is right.It’s a matter of confidence.Problem is you can’t fake confidence or just decide “hey I’m going to be confident “

fake it til you make it
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Cook on November 24, 2021, 09:51:49 AM
fake it til you make it
yeah you can try that and hey I am not saying I have ever been a chick magnet just what I have observed through the years. Most of the guys with the great amount of confidence don’t even realize what is working for them,
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 24, 2021, 10:01:54 AM
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?

Good post and you know the deal on what factors that get females wet and ready LOL.

Let me just add that regardless of LOOKS, most men allow "traditional roles" to enter an unbalanced relationship / marriage.
I'd also suggest using compliments about her looks and being sexy to help endear her to you.  ;)

1. Most women want to marry a man with a "good career" ie makes $$$. Ok fine, but more men
should consider what their future wife brings to the table. It's hard to be equal partners, when
the man is the one making most of the $$.

2. If you want children, that makes a drastic change in the marriage dynamic.
If value being a dad,  you also need to embrace the demands that go with it.
This means, you will likely agree to be main "bread winner" and take care of the wife and kids.

If she has to work and care for kids, she's more likely to be cranky and tired.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 24, 2021, 10:28:40 AM
Yep, a 9.

That's me in my prime.

(https://giffiles.alphacoders.com/234/23465.gif)
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: oldtimer1 on November 24, 2021, 10:35:26 AM
A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.

The band guy does great with the 20 something hotties till he gets to around 40. Suddenly the 20 something want nothing to do with him.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Grape Ape on November 24, 2021, 10:40:01 AM
OP is gayer than Anderson Cooper eating dick flavored icecream in a foreskin shaped waffle cone with with whipped sperm topping.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 24, 2021, 12:29:11 PM
OP is gayer than Anderson Cooper eating dick flavored icecream in a foreskin shaped waffle cone with with whipped sperm topping.

Awesome imagery.  I salute you, sir.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: deadz on November 24, 2021, 12:31:44 PM
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
ITS ABOUT THE $$$$$$.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 02:44:43 PM
Pure delusion and cope
It's funny, the more average and homely these guys are, the more they philosophize about getting pussy. Long treatises about "confidence", "money", mentions of billionaires, etc.

Bottom line: Looks are everything.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Irongrip400 on November 24, 2021, 03:06:00 PM
Yep, a 9.

That's me in my prime.

(https://giffiles.alphacoders.com/234/23465.gif)

I’d say I was pushing that in my heyday. Now about 7.5 because I’m in my 40’s. Although, a few years ago I had this old lady in Vienna call me “stunning” in an elevator. I’m not going to lie, it gave me a bit of a chub. She was like a Helen Mirren type.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: TheFranchise on November 24, 2021, 03:39:28 PM
It's funny, the more average and homely these guys are, the more they philosophize about getting pussy. Long treatises about "confidence", "money", mentions of billionaires, etc.

Bottom line: Looks are everything.

It’s all about money to these whores.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Cook on November 24, 2021, 03:42:18 PM
It's funny, the more average and homely these guys are, the more they philosophize about getting pussy. Long treatises about "confidence", "money", mentions of billionaires, etc.

Bottom line: Looks are everything.
There are some good looking guys who never get a girl.Surely you’ve seen this.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Hard Fast on November 24, 2021, 03:47:20 PM
There are some good looking guys who never get a girl.Surely you’ve seen this.
Then they're not good looking.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Cook on November 24, 2021, 03:49:55 PM
Then they're not good looking.
Well then surely you’ve seen some ugly fuckers with hot chicks are they not really ugly?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: wes on November 24, 2021, 03:53:02 PM
Fuck the stupid pictures, most dudes that get married will more than likely be sorry that they did eventually.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 24, 2021, 04:11:10 PM
Overload is right.It’s a matter of confidence.Problem is you can’t fake confidence or just decide “hey I’m going to be confident “

Yeah and i'm just talking about getting laid.

Not buidling a serious relationship.

I should have pointed that out. ;D

Things change a bit when you are looking for something more than a few months of good sex.

It does take time to get the confidence. Like i always say, it's a game. Took me many years to master it. It's hard to be difficult and play hard to get with beautiful women, but it drives them crazy. Good looking women are not used to having to put in effort and be in second place. Most men put them on a pedestal and treat them like a princess. I don't do that and it will change their perspective of you.

Considering how many good-looking women i've slayed, it seems to work well, for me. I've had many women tell me i'm intoxicating and mysterious. I'm not a model, i'm a solid 7, but give me one date with a girl and they will be interested 90% of the time.

Very few women have sex with men because they are good looking, but it does happen. Of course, there are women who are simply looking for money or a popular guy to share time with. Most women are looking for something in particular. But ALL of them can be attracted to a guy with charm and class.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 04:12:22 PM
Yeah and i'm just talking about getting laid.

Not buidling a serious relationship.

I should have pointed that out. ;D

Things change a bit when you are looking for something more than a few months of good sex.

It does take time to get the confidence. Like i always say, it's a game. Took me many years to master it. It's hard to be difficult and play hard to get with beautiful women, but it drives them crazy. Good looking women are not used to having to put in effort and be in second place. Most men put them on a pedestal and treat them like a princess. I don't do that and it will change their perspective of you.

Considering how many good-looking women i've slayed, it seems to work well, for me. I've had many women tell me i'm intoxicating and mysterious. I'm not a model, i'm a solid 7, but give me one date with a girl and they will be interested 90% of the time.

Very few women have sex with men because they are good looking, but it does happen. Of course, there are women who are simply looking for money or a popular guy to share time with. Most women are looking for something in particular. But ALL of them can be attracted to a guy with charm and class.
Wrong.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 24, 2021, 04:14:29 PM
Wrong.

I'm right.

You're just a gimmick.

I bet you haven't been laid in years.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 04:19:48 PM
I'm right.

You're just a gimmick.

I bet you haven't been laid in years.
You're not "right". Like most mediocre men you've sold yourself on a bill of goods that you're a chick magnet. Your depictions of your own perceived attraction to females are cringeworthy. Indulge yourself though, who am I to throw cold water on your delusions?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 24, 2021, 04:23:35 PM
You're not "right". Like most mediocre men you've sold yourself on a bill of goods that you're a chick magnet. Your depictions of your own perceived attraction to females are cringeworthy. Indulge yourself though, who am I to throw cold water on your delusions?

Tell me how i'm wrong, in your own words.

Don't be so hateful, i'm here to help little queers like you get laid.

You should listen and shut the fuck up.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 04:31:01 PM
Tell me how i'm wrong, in your own words.

Don't be so hateful, i'm here to help little queers like you get laid.

You should listen and shut the fuck up.
You're merely parroting the tripe that the Seduction/PUA hucksters spew to their incel clientele: Looks mean nothing, it's about confidence, treat the female negatively and you'll get in her head, ad nauseum. I suppose you must have a library full of books and e-books on seduction. You really don't know women at all and it's obvious your war stories are but flights of fancy
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 24, 2021, 04:46:07 PM
I’d say I was pushing that in my heyday. Now about 7.5 because I’m in my 40’s. Although, a few years ago I had this old lady in Vienna call me “stunning” in an elevator. I’m not going to lie, it gave me a bit of a chub. She was like a Helen Mirren type.

About 20 years ago I was in a diner with my son, who was about 8 at the time, and the waitress, who was about 60, was hitting on me.  That was weird.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 24, 2021, 04:48:16 PM
You're merely parroting the tripe that the Seduction/PUA hucksters spew to their incel clientele: looks mean nothing, it's about confidence, treat the female negatively and you'll get in her head, ad nauseum. I suppose you must have a library full of books and e-books on seduction. You really don't know women at all and it's obvious your war stories are but flights of fancy

Fair enough.

Never read any books on the subject. I've learned how to master it through years of online dating.

Looks get the immediate attraction, i'm closing the gap from introduction to banging them and getting them to fall for you.

Never said looks aren't important, but they are not why women sleep with you. Maybe a one night stand, but not anything of importance.

A good looking girl isn't going to let you bang them over and over again because you have a strong jaw line and correctly offset eye sockets.  ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 04:54:24 PM
Fair enough.

Never read any books on the subject. I've learned how to master it through years of online dating.

Looks get the immediate attraction, i'm closing the gap from introduction to banging them and getting them to fall for you.

Never said looks aren't important, but they are not why women sleep with you. Maybe a one night stand, but not anything of importance.

A good looking girl isn't going to let you bang them over and over again because you have a strong jaw line and correctly offset eye sockets.  ;D
What could be more important than a One Night Stand?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Primemuscle on November 24, 2021, 04:57:17 PM
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/E1r2PnrVcAY6Kl9?format=jpg&name=large)
First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)

Good to know that you are in the top 2 percentile. I still wouldn't marry you.  ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 24, 2021, 05:02:23 PM
What could be more important than a One Night Stand?

A one night stand every night.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 24, 2021, 08:22:10 PM
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Another chart
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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SOMEPARTS on November 24, 2021, 08:34:31 PM
There are some good looking guys who never get a girl.Surely you’ve seen this.


Yeah, they're the guys that have no debt, a smile on their face and do whatever they want whenever.  :)
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 25, 2021, 01:30:34 AM
What could be more important than a One Night Stand?

Well, i can't argue with you on that.

But what if they have some Mexican fire pussy that sucks the life out of your cock.

Wouldn't you want at least a few months to map that pussy out? ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 25, 2021, 02:31:51 AM
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in shit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.
Most men look like gargoyles to other men but not women.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 25, 2021, 02:34:00 AM
It’s all about money to these whores.
So, all the guys in relationships are rich? ???
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: TheFranchise on November 25, 2021, 03:26:40 AM
So, all the guys in relationships are rich? ???

Not all guys, but every female will always stray for someone who can offer her a better lifestyle.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 25, 2021, 03:30:50 AM
Not all guys, but every female will always stray for someone who can offer her a better lifestyle.
Many will but not most and certainly not every.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Irongrip400 on November 25, 2021, 09:26:58 AM
Well, i can't argue with you on that.

But what if they have some Mexican fire pussy that sucks the life out of your cock.

Wouldn't you want at least a few months to map that pussy out? ;D

Never had any of that, never really had anything other than WASP pussy. I was always curious about a true Latina fire pussy. Fucked a Dominican chick once and she was a total psycho/clinger. Total turn off.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 25, 2021, 09:29:24 AM
Getbiggers only date 11s.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 25, 2021, 09:39:45 AM
Well, i can't argue with you on that.

But what if they have some Mexican fire pussy that sucks the life out of your cock.

Wouldn't you want at least a few months to map that pussy out? ;D
No need. When a man is a 10 there will be another gorgeous woman the following evening.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: 20inch calves on November 25, 2021, 10:13:56 AM
I got called handsome a few days ago. I get vag for now but I'm not dullusional I'm sure I will have to have pay for it in another 15 yrs or so. But it's still better than getting married again
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 25, 2021, 10:21:25 AM
No need. When a man is a 10 there will be another gorgeous woman the following evening.

Looks obviously help, but pure physical attraction is different for males vs females:

The avg guy mostly cares about her looks and acting sweet/flirty with him.

The avg female  cares about looks, BUT is more into an overall image and package.


Men want  girls THEY desire and will take care of them.

Females want to be desired and taken care of by these men.




Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 25, 2021, 10:24:18 AM
I got called handsome a few days ago. I get vag for now but I'm not dullusional I'm sure I will have to have pay for it in another 15 yrs or so. But it's still better than getting married again

1. I don't think getting married or having kids is for everyone.
If you're more happy dating and single, then stay the course.

2. A wife with a decent career, will be more independent minded, BUT it's better overall.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on November 25, 2021, 10:33:56 AM
There are some good looking guys who never get a girl.Surely you’ve seen this.

Seen it many times. One of those times it was a 6'2" broad shouldered blue-eyed blonde guy, with a solid 8 face and dressed very sharp. Watched him strike out again and again at the club.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: tacobender on November 25, 2021, 11:15:05 AM
Who is the #5 guy?  Is he the guy from the Office...Ed Helms?

Looking at these pics I can see that I was a 9 in my prime.
No you look more like number nine
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 26, 2021, 05:34:05 AM
No you look more like number nine

So harsh.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 26, 2021, 09:52:15 AM
So harsh.

At least you look better than me Nat  ;)
Of course , that doesn't get you rated higher, but it might make you feel better.

Hope this helps.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 26, 2021, 01:54:54 PM
At least you look better than me Nat  ;)
Of course , that doesn't get you rated higher, but it might make you feel better.

Hope this helps.

When a Getbigger looks in the mirror he sees Arnold.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 26, 2021, 02:45:05 PM
When a Getbigger looks in the mirror he sees Arnold.

I must need a new mirror  :'(
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: pamith on November 26, 2021, 11:09:54 PM
Who is the #5 guy?  Is he the guy from the Office...Ed Helms?

Looking at these pics I can see that I was a 9 in my prime.
Tbh I was a 10 in my prime, all girls were crazy about me in high school and I was very arrogant and mean looking
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: pamith on November 26, 2021, 11:18:11 PM
The irony is this thread is wrong, women simply do not care about looks, they care about money, you can be a 4 and if you are rich women want you and you can be a 9 and broke and women don't want your loser broke ass
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 27, 2021, 03:09:13 AM
The irony is this thread is wrong, women simply do not care about looks, they care about money, you can be a 4 and if you are rich women want you and you can be a 9 and broke and women don't want your loser broke ass
No, looks matter a lot, especially for young guys. Young guys aren't expected to have a lot of money but it becomes more important as you age. Even then rich ugly guys end up with ugly or average women. Look at Bezos' ex wife and current girlfriend. Zuckerberg, Phil Collins, Tom Hanks, many Hollywood guys, etc, etc.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: kreator on November 27, 2021, 03:45:40 AM
No, looks matter a lot, especially for young guys. Young guys aren't expected to have a lot of money but it becomes more important as you age. Even then rich ugly guys end up with ugly or average women. Look at Bezos' ex wife and current girlfriend. Zuckerberg, Phil Collins, Tom Hanks, many Hollywood guys, etc, etc.

exactly, looks and game get the pu55y for free, money buys you one. Desire and attraction aren't the same thing
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Andy Griffin on November 27, 2021, 04:28:30 AM
What is especially ironic about this men's desirability list is that women hit the wall - without exception - and their SMV (sexual market value) goes straight to zero.

Some may hit the wall later than others, but the wall is undefeated.  Men age like wine; women age like milk.

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 27, 2021, 02:35:55 PM
Tbh I was a 10 in my prime, all girls were crazy about me in high school and I was very arrogant and mean looking
Was that with or without the classic Santa hat?

Reminds me of the timeless phrase that applies to every man trying to score at the club :

" She was a 2 at 10 and a 10 at 2 ! :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: TheFranchise on November 28, 2021, 01:30:10 AM
What is especially ironic about this men's desirability list is that women hit the wall - without exception - and their SMV (sexual market value) goes straight to zero.

Some may hit the wall later than others, but the wall is undefeated.  Men age like wine; women age like milk.

This x 100. It’s why you see a bunch of female teachers in their 30s who are divorced or have to resort to “dating”(aka one night stands). The wall hits at 30 and continues pounding until menopause.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 28, 2021, 03:09:56 AM
This x 100. It’s why you see a bunch of female teachers in their 30s who are divorced or have to resort to “dating”(aka one night stands). The wall hits at 30 and continues pounding until menopause.
We won't even talk about after menopause. :-X
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sam on November 28, 2021, 04:54:30 AM
haha who the fuck thinks about where they are on a scale of attractiveness  :D...If you do you are already out of the game. Just enjoy being yourself, learn to respect yourself and understand your own worth.. and if a woman does not give back...move the fuck on. simples 
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 28, 2021, 05:09:17 AM
haha who the fuck thinks about where they are on a scale of attractiveness  :D...If you do you are already out of the game. Just enjoy being yourself, learn to respect yourself and understand your own worth.. and if a woman does not give back...move the fuck on. simples 

Alpha dog philosophy, bro. 

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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on November 28, 2021, 05:18:19 AM
This x 100. It’s why you see a bunch of female teachers in their 30s who are divorced or have to resort to “dating”(aka one night stands). The wall hits at 30 and continues pounding until menopause.

Honestly the wall hits earlier, try 24 (refer to first graph in said article) and all men of all ages want a 20 year old (check second graph). Funny thing about the second graph is that the age doesn't go younger any than 20, but if it went to say 18 would that be the desired age for all men of all ages?

https://therationalmale.com/2014/10/13/validation-hunting-the-jenny-bahn-epiphany/
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 28, 2021, 07:32:24 AM
Wimmens are at their peak around age 16.

But that's a no-no age.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 28, 2021, 10:42:43 AM
Wimmens are at their peak around age 16.

But that's a no-no age.

I think, historical record estimates  Mary was  15 -16 when she was mother to Jesus .
Maybe that young only applies to "immaculate conceptions" LOL :o

Until  modern medicine, there was a much greater risk of maternal death during childbirth.

In the modern world, women want to bear children in their mid 30's and early 40's now for financial /lifestyle reasons.
Sounds reasonable, but mother nature is a real bi-atch.
The best biological age is  around 18-29 for most females .  Biological vs economic needs don't always line up.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: YngiweRhoads on November 28, 2021, 11:05:15 AM
haha who the fuck thinks about where they are on a scale of attractiveness  :D...If you do you are already out of the game. Just enjoy being yourself, learn to respect yourself and understand your own worth.. and if a woman does not give back...move the fuck on. simples

Solid post.

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 29, 2021, 03:13:08 AM
Wimmens are at their peak around age 16.

But that's a no-no age.
At least it is in western civilization.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 29, 2021, 03:32:27 AM
At least it is in western civilization.

Right.  Not in Muslim land.  There it's 2-years old.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 29, 2021, 11:20:24 AM
Never had any of that, never really had anything other than WASP pussy. I was always curious about a true Latina fire pussy. Fucked a Dominican chick once and she was a total psycho/clinger. Total turn off.

I swear to you women in Latin America have warmer and wetter love boxes. It's crazy.

My ex-GF from El Salvador got so wet that we would have to lay towels down on the bed or couch before having sex. She would soak the cushions so bad it looked like she pissed on it.

Yeah the Dominican's are crazy, i've dated a few Puerto Rican broads, they are legitimately insane and very angry. Fun in bed, but not worth the drama.

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 29, 2021, 11:25:25 AM
I swear to you women in Latin America have warmer and wetter love boxes. It's crazy.

My ex-GF from El Salvador got so wet that we would have to lay towels down on the bed or couch before having sex. She would soak the cushions so bad it looked like she pissed on it.

Yeah the Dominican's are crazy, i've dated a few Puerto Rican broads, they are legitimately insane and very angry. Fun in bed, but not worth the drama.
You just drive women wild.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on November 29, 2021, 11:39:52 AM
I swear to you women in Latin America have warmer and wetter love boxes. It's crazy.

My ex-GF from El Salvador got so wet that we would have to lay towels down on the bed or couch before having sex. She would soak the cushions so bad it looked like she pissed on it.

Yeah the Dominican's are crazy, i've dated a few Puerto Rican broads, they are legitimately insane and very angry. Fun in bed, but not worth the drama.

Most improtantly, do they take it up the ass?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 29, 2021, 12:25:28 PM
Most improtantly, do they take it up the ass?

Most women do if properly motivated. ;D

This PR broad i was banging several years ago preferred it.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 29, 2021, 12:30:41 PM
Most women do if properly motivated. ;D

This PR *tranny i was banging several years ago preferred it.

* fixed - for get big truth  ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 12:31:22 PM
I swear to you women in Latin America have warmer and wetter love boxes. It's crazy.

My ex-GF from El Salvador got so wet that we would have to lay towels down on the bed or couch before having sex. She would soak the cushions so bad it looked like she pissed on it.

Yeah the Dominican's are crazy, i've dated a few Puerto Rican broads, they are legitimately insane and very angry. Fun in bed, but not worth the drama.
Predictably, the thread has morphed from a discussion about the science of attraction into a bs session of mediocre men puffing their chests and regaling one another with decades old war stories.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 29, 2021, 12:36:54 PM
Predictably, the thread has morphed from a discussion about the science of attraction into a bs session of mediocre men puffing their chests and regaling one another with decades old war stories.

So, it's become a genuine getbig thread? :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 12:45:09 PM
So, it's become a genuine getbig thread? :D
It's typical of just average men anywhere.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on November 29, 2021, 12:53:32 PM
Predictably, the thread has morphed from a discussion about the science of attraction into a bs session of mediocre men puffing their chests and regaling one another with decades old war stories.

Do you believe using Tren gives men pheromones to attract women?

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 01:21:27 PM
Do you believe using Tren gives men pheromones to attract women?
The level of debate surrounding the topic of pheromones and human attraction indicates my answer is no, I don't believe it. What I know to be true is that Looks Are Everything and most of the Earth's population fall dreadfully below the aesthetic ideal. Coping mechanisms like pheromones, Rogaine, workout regimens, keto diets, etc will always generate a fortune in profits for those who exploit the masses.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on November 29, 2021, 01:29:11 PM
The level of debate surrounding the topic of pheromones and human attraction indicates my answer is no, I don't believe it. What I know to be true is that Looks Are Everything and most of the Earth's population fall dreadfully below the aesthetic ideal. Coping mechanisms like pheromones, Rogaine, workout regimens, keto diets, etc will always generate a fortune in profits for those who exploit the masses.

 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 29, 2021, 01:30:24 PM
Do you believe using Tren gives men pheromones to attract women?

It increases sexual attraction ... with older "business men" .
Your butt musk is all the pheromones the discerning schmoe neeeds .

G4P approved by lower tier pros everywhere. :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Earl1972 on November 29, 2021, 04:45:57 PM
The level of debate surrounding the topic of pheromones and human attraction indicates my answer is no, I don't believe it. What I know to be true is that Looks Are Everything and most of the Earth's population fall dreadfully below the aesthetic ideal. Coping mechanisms like pheromones, Rogaine, workout regimens, keto diets, etc will always generate a fortune in profits for those who exploit the masses.

what will you do when you lose your alleged top 2% looks? 

brad pitt is never mentioned among the sexiest men anymore, it's a safe bet you aren't brad pitt so how will you "cope" as you black pillers like to say when you hit the wall?

E
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 04:54:58 PM
what will you do when you lose your alleged top 2% looks? 

brad pitt is never mentioned among the sexiest men anymore, it's a safe bet you aren't brad pitt so how will you "cope" as you black pillers like to say when you hit the wall?

E
Good question. At the moment I am employing a number of looksmaxxing techniques to preserve my youth. I appear significantly younger than my biological age. I have the ability scoop women as young as 18. They are still approaching me. From time to time I receive phone calls from women I've never met who express intense desire to fornicate with me.  Because of my lottery genetics, my natural tendency toward extreme muscularity, and know how in the area of looksmaxxing I can probably continue for decades until I hit the wall.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 29, 2021, 04:59:46 PM
Good question. At the moment I am employing a number of looksmaxxing techniques to preserve my youth. I appear significantly younger than my biological age. I have the ability scoop women as young as 18. They are still approaching me. From time to time I receive phone calls from women I've never met who express intense desire to fornicate with me.  Because of my lottery genetics, my natural tendency toward extreme muscularity, and know how in the area of looksmaxxing I can probably continue for decades until I hit the wall.

I don't know you and have no idea of your actual prowess with the ladies .

However, any real "ladies man" doesn't talk like your posts.

I think you're typical getbigger  nonsense . If I'm wrong you get the last laugh by enjoying top shelf poontang.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Van_Bilderass on November 29, 2021, 05:01:05 PM
Brad Pitt had women leaving him. Think about that. Nothing matters, looks or money or fame, you'll have a woman leave you.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 05:01:45 PM
I don't know you and have no idea of your actual prowess with the ladies .

However, any real "ladies man" doesn't talk like your posts.

I think you're typical getbigger  nonsense . If I'm wrong you get the last laugh by enjoying top shelf poontang.
You're aged out of the dating game. A horse and buggy in the world of automobiles. Thank you though.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 05:02:57 PM
Brad Pitt had women leaving him. Think about that. Nothing matters, looks or money or fame, you'll have a woman leave you.
Good. The sooner the better. Fresh pussy is preferable to leftovers.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 29, 2021, 05:07:53 PM
You're aged out of the dating game. A horse and buggy in the world of automobiles. Thank you though.

Well at least I'm home married and posting on get big LOL.

Ya know, I was able to marry my current ( 3rd) wife back when I was 53.
In all modesty, I think she's a  pretty , smart lady with a good career .

Like I said, what matters is what you really do with the ladies.
What getbiggers think is up there with winning the Special Olympics .
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Earl1972 on November 29, 2021, 05:09:44 PM
Good question. At the moment I am employing a number of looksmaxxing techniques to preserve my youth. I appear significantly younger than my biological age. I have the ability scoop women as young as 18. They are still approaching me. From time to time I receive phone calls from women I've never met who express intense desire to fornicate with me.  Because of my lottery genetics, my natural tendency toward extreme muscularity, and know how in the area of looksmaxxing I can probably continue for decades until I hit the wall.

but there is only so much you can do to delay the aging process, you can't make a 50 year old look the same as when he was 25 no matter how much you "looksmax", you can age well with a healthy lifestyle but you get older every day

how old are you now and how old do people say you look?  the wall is inevitable for all of us so how will you cope when it comes for you?

also the best looking men are intimidating to women, are you sure you're not just a good looking 7 that's approachable?  a legit 9 or 10 man would be scary for women to even talk to let alone approach randomly

E
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: GymnJuice on November 29, 2021, 05:12:04 PM
Good question. At the moment I am employing a number of looksmaxxing techniques to preserve my youth. I appear significantly younger than my biological age. I have the ability scoop women as young as 18. They are still approaching me. From time to time I receive phone calls from women I've never met who express intense desire to fornicate with me.  Because of my lottery genetics, my natural tendency toward extreme muscularity, and know how in the area of looksmaxxing I can probably continue for decades until I hit the wall.

Have you considered a nutrition cocoon for your face?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 05:14:51 PM
but there is only so much you can do to delay the aging process, you can't make a 50 year old look the same as when he was 25 no matter how much you "looksmax", you can age well with a healthy lifestyle but you get older every day

how old are you now and how old do people say you look?  the wall is inevitable for all of us so how will you cope when it comes for you?

also the best looking men are intimidating to women, are you sure you're not just a good looking 7 that's approachable?  a legit 9 or 10 man would be scary for women to even talk to let alone approach randomly

E
You probably also believe that beautiful women are home alone on a Friday night because no man has the balls to step up to her. The reality is she is swarmed by men on a near constant basis. By the same token, a man who is a 9 will constantly be approached for sex by high tier women. The woman's biological urge to breed drives this action.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 05:17:59 PM
Have you considered a nutrition cocoon for your face?
Retin-A cream and some select moisturizers.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Earl1972 on November 29, 2021, 05:23:12 PM
You probably also believe that beautiful women are home alone on a Friday night because no man has the balls to step up to her. The reality is she is swarmed by men on a near constant basis. By the same token, a man who is a 9 will constantly be approached for sex by high tier women. The woman's biological urge to breed drives this action.

exactly beautiful women are constantly approached by men... which is why they have zero reason to approach men

why didn't you answer the rest of my questions?

E
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on November 29, 2021, 05:29:58 PM
exactly beautiful women are constantly approached by men... which is why they have zero reason to approach men

why didn't you answer the rest of my questions?

E
She is being approached all the time by incels, betas and creeps. Some of these undesirables will go on to become orbiters and text, call, provide gifts and money etc. But none of these types (98% of men) will succeed. The man that she must pursue will be the victor. If you find this difficult to believe simply open your eyes and look around.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on November 30, 2021, 01:34:50 AM
but there is only so much you can do to delay the aging process, you can't make a 50 year old look the same as when he was 25 no matter how much you "looksmax", you can age well with a healthy lifestyle but you get older every day

how old are you now and how old do people say you look?  the wall is inevitable for all of us so how will you cope when it comes for you?

also the best looking men are intimidating to women, are you sure you're not just a good looking 7 that's approachable?  a legit 9 or 10 man would be scary for women to even talk to let alone approach randomly

E

Thing is it's men who approach women, unless you are like Sir Bicep then females of all ages harass you.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 30, 2021, 03:29:46 AM
Brad Pitt had women leaving him. Think about that. Nothing matters, looks or money or fame, you'll have a woman leave you.
True, they left him after he fucked them for years. He had no problem getting them though.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on November 30, 2021, 04:34:45 AM
True, they left him after he fucked them for years. He had no problem getting them though.

Pitt is losing it.  Was with 11s and is now working his way with 10s.

It's hell to get old.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on November 30, 2021, 04:52:42 AM
Pitt is losing it.  Was with 11s and is now working his way with 10s.

It's hell to get old.
:D It sure must be.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on November 30, 2021, 11:45:33 AM
She is being approached all the time by incels, betas and creeps. Some of these undesirables will go on to become orbiters and text, call, provide gifts and money etc. But none of these types (98% of men) will succeed. The man that she must pursue will be the victor. If you find this difficult to believe simply open your eyes and look around.

98% of males who follow your dating strategy end up spending weekends with Mary Palm and her 5 sisters.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 01, 2021, 02:10:09 AM
98% of males who follow your dating strategy end up spending weekends with Mary Palm and her 5 sisters.
At least there's no alimony and child support. :-\
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Super Natural on December 01, 2021, 03:40:50 AM
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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on December 01, 2021, 03:47:21 AM
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Massive respect to this fella.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 01, 2021, 06:54:08 AM
98% of males who follow your dating strategy end up spending weekends with Mary Palm and her 5 sisters.
No "dating strategy" is being offered because there is no "dating strategy" that works. A man either has elite looks or he doesn't. If he does have elite looks he will know it because women are always trying to fornicate with him. That is 2% of men. The rest purchase courses in seduction, tell war stories, look in the mirror, throw money hand over fist at strippers, escorts and gold diggers, and eventually settle for an ugly woman.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 01, 2021, 08:57:18 AM
No "dating strategy" is being offered because there is no "dating strategy" that works. A man either has elite looks or he doesn't. If he does have elite looks he will know it because women are always trying to fornicate with him. That is 2% of men. The rest purchase courses in seduction, tell war stories, look in the mirror, throw money hand over fist at strippers, escorts and gold diggers, and eventually settle for an ugly woman.

Dude!  ;D  I was making a 1 line joke reply. C'mon now, it's f'n get big .
I've been guilty of taking this stuff waaaaaaaaaaay too serious myself , so no biggy

Lighten up , have fun and please stop taking this goofy forum so seriously.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on December 01, 2021, 11:15:50 AM
No "dating strategy" is being offered because there is no "dating strategy" that works. A man either has elite looks or he doesn't. If he does have elite looks he will know it because women are always trying to fornicate with him. That is 2% of men. The rest purchase courses in seduction, tell war stories, look in the mirror, throw money hand over fist at strippers, escorts and gold diggers, and eventually settle for an ugly woman.

Or they just become beta orbiters ;D These guys are the absolute worst imho.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 01, 2021, 11:35:31 AM
Or they just become beta orbiters ;D These guys are the absolute worst imho.
It's neither good nor bad. 98% of the world's population are hard on the eyes and that's the natural state of things. 4's marrying and breeding 4's keep the cogs turning. It is on their backs that civilization is built. Elite looking men are one in thousands and are in the role of playmaker, directing the action, making the big plans.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on December 01, 2021, 11:43:25 AM
It's neither good nor bad. 98% of the world's population are hard on the eyes and that's the natural state of things. 4's marrying and breeding 4's keep the cogs turning. It is on their backs that civilization is built. Elite looking men are one in thousands and are in the role of playmaker, directing the action, making the big plans.

Yep you're right, but these orbiters are the worst because they have no fucking pride. If a female isn't interested in you, do not hang around like a beta, find another. They just look so desperate and weak. What's your thoughts on the "numbers game"?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 01, 2021, 11:45:08 AM
Yep you're right, but these orbiters are the worst because they have no fucking pride. If a female isn't interested in you, do not hang around like a beta, find another. They just look so desperate and weak. What's your thoughts on the "numbers game"?
There's no game to be had. Either you got it or you don't. Most don't.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on December 01, 2021, 11:57:47 AM
There's no game to be had. Either you got it or you don't. Most don't.

I've watched multiple guys do this in real and they always end up with 5's and not even the first 5 that they talk to. One guy chatted up well over 100 females in my prescence and he did actually pull one 7, shit's not worth it imho. Other guys would say who they can get any girl and I'd see them strike out constantly. Do you know Roosh V? He claims that back in the day that he hooked up with a large number of 7's or 8's, and he's a 5 tops.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Griffith on December 01, 2021, 12:03:11 PM
There's no game to be had. Either you got it or you don't. Most don't.

'Game' is a skill which can be improved with learning, practice and experience.

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SOMEPARTS on December 01, 2021, 12:08:22 PM
'Game' is a skill which can be improved with learning, practice and experience. money, working on yourself and not giving a shit if a woman says no.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Griffith on December 01, 2021, 12:27:15 PM


Yes.

The point is if a guy is at least above subhuman-tier looks and not a complete autist, there is some hope.

‘Incels’ would argue it is completely pointless and only looks matter due to genetics and don’t seem to bother about trying to improve themselves or create value.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 01, 2021, 03:38:24 PM
'Game' is a skill which can be improved with learning, practice and experience.

The "game" most get biggers play is of the video variety , sitting in their mom's basement . :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 02, 2021, 04:45:37 AM
The "game" most get biggers play is of the video variety , sitting in their mom's basement . :D
I have my own room on the ground floor.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Omega Male on December 02, 2021, 06:51:20 AM
Plenty of beta orbiters in this thread.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 02, 2021, 07:11:33 AM
I have my own room on the ground floor.

In the words of Napoleon Dynamite ; " Lucky!"  :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 02, 2021, 07:31:35 AM
Massive respect to this fella.

No question  the dude in the "decent guy pic montage" is a good man.

* So...why doesn't he just go ahead and MOVE to that sweet plot of land and live out his days with family?

1. Unless he works as a lumberjack, he needs to live close to his JOB.

2. His wife doesn't want to be isolated in some mountain man shack.

3. His kids want to attend a real  school ,hate farming and think Dad is insane .

4. If he shoots himself in the foot while Turkey hunting, he needs a hospital nearby.

5. Spotty internet due to location , inhibits his posting on getbig.

Mike Tyson once said ; " Every fighter has a plan, until they get punched in the mouth"

If you want to turn dreams into reality, you need a way to deal with  basic , daily stuff.  ;)


Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 02, 2021, 08:02:46 AM
Plenty of beta orbiters in this thread.

LOL, it's get big .

I used to train in a gym where a total "beta orbiter" trained.
He was hot for this cute Hooters waitress, who trained there.

He was always trying to talk to her and bragged that she liked him.
After weeks of bugging me, I went with him to see her at work ( nearby Hooters).
It was obvious she flirted with him because he tipped her quite well.

I wondered, if he'd asked her out on a date.
He replied ; " She said ,she can't date customers ."  *Ok.... ::)

Fast fwd a couple years later , she'd completed her tech school program
and worked in a dental office.

He approached her by the juice bar  and I  heard him ask her out.
She smiles and replies ; " Sorry, I can't. I have a boyfriend now. "
She finishes her drink and leaves.

He looks at me and says ; " Damn it, I missed my chance."  :o

LOL, some bros never learn. ;)

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 03, 2021, 09:14:03 AM
Yes.

The point is if a guy is at least above subhuman-tier looks and not a complete autist, there is some hope.

‘Incels’ would argue it is completely pointless and only looks matter due to genetics and don’t seem to bother about trying to improve themselves or create value.

The incel crowd would be advised to watch a few " Chick Flick Romance Movies" on the Hallmark channel.

The actors and scenes may change but the basic scenario remains the same.

1. A 30 something female is working in a successful, lucrative career in the big city.
She's either too busy to date or with a guy who's a cold asshole.

2. Some event requires here to travel to Podunk USA ,where she literally runs into " Mr Right".
The sparks fly from the jump but it's a rocky road at first.
During that time she does some epic things to impact the little town.

3. She's about to leave  and Mr Right rides in to profess his love.
They kiss and she ends up staying in Podunk , where they live happily ever after.

That's what makes most women tick, deep inside , no matter how successful or beautiful they are.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 03, 2021, 09:27:31 AM
The incel crowd would be advised to watch a few " Chick Flick Romance Movies" on the Hallmark channel.

The actors and scenes may change but the basic scenario remains the same.

1. A 30 something female is working in a successful, lucrative career in the big city.
She's either too busy to date or with a guy who's a cold asshole.

2. Some event requires here to travel to Podunk USA ,where she literally runs into " Mr Right".
The sparks fly from the jump but it's a rocky road at first.
During that time she does some epic things to impact the little town.

3. She's about to leave  and Mr Right rides in to profess his love.
They kiss and she ends up staying in Podunk , where they live happily ever after.

That's what makes most women tick, deep inside , no matter how successful or beautiful they are.
Hollywood is the last place in the world to take direction from. In every Hollywood romance movie, the man is rejected and then wins the woman's love by acting like a creepy desperate stalker who refuses to take no for an answer. In real life it simply doesn't work. Also the notion that beautiful successful women are lonely is more tripe aimed at giving incels hope. Get real.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 03, 2021, 09:36:29 AM
The incel crowd would be advised to watch a few " Chick Flick Romance Movies" on the Hallmark channel.

The actors and scenes may change but the basic scenario remains the same.

1. A 30 something female is working in a successful, lucrative career in the big city.
She's either too busy to date or with a guy who's a cold asshole.

2. Some event requires here to travel to Podunk USA ,where she literally runs into " Mr Right".
The sparks fly from the jump but it's a rocky road at first.
During that time she does some epic things to impact the little town.

3. She's about to leave  and Mr Right rides in to profess his love.
They kiss and she ends up staying in Podunk , where they live happily ever after.

That's what makes most women tick, deep inside , no matter how successful or beautiful they are.

And Mr. Podunk has a career where he is a fireman, farmer, blue collar tradesman, artist, doctor, someone who helps kids, the poor, etc.

In all cases he is well off.  Since he works in a career where no one gets rich, he comes from inherited wealth, but of course he spurns the meaningless life of money chasing for altruistic reasons.

Usually drives a pickup truck and wears a Carhart jacket.  The locals know and love him. 

When he goes in the local bar everybody knows his name. 

The bartender/owner is an earthy,  middle aged, motherly woman who tells her what a great guy he is because he secretly does wonderful things for people without bragging.  Truly selfless.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 03, 2021, 09:53:50 AM
Hollywood is the last place in the world to take direction from. In every Hollywood romance movie, the man is rejected and then wins the woman's love by acting like a creepy desperate stalker who refuses to take no for an answer. In real life it simply doesn't work. Also the notion that beautiful successful women are lonely is more tripe aimed at giving incels hope. Get real.

It's a common female fantasy to be rescued by her prince.
Then he rides off with her to love happily ever after.

If that wasn't true, they wouldn't make so many "chick flicks" with the same basic scenario.

Men are different . We want a pretty face , nice boobs and butt. If she's sweet and smiles at us, that's the game LOL.

PLus, most women are reluctant to openly admit their real inner feelings on romance.
That's why they always "fight it" at first in the movies .

A successful guy is viewed as an independent stud if he remains unmarried and hooks top shelf pussy.
As men get older, they often get called ; distinguished or statesman, etc

However, an unmarried woman is considered lacking regardless of her personal success.
Terms like "spinster" and old bat are used to describe older females , especially if she isn't too hot looking.

Men will marry a much younger pretty woman and feel triumphant .
Woman want to marry a man that makes then feel safe, loved and secure.

My wife is a successful baking exec VP and was married /divorced before we ever met.
She's independent minded and has her own strong opinions.
BUT, when we started dating ( in her 40's) she started acting like a "schoolgirl".
A gf of her's remarked about that , when we all met for dinner.

My wife and and her "professional " girl friends all went with her to select her wedding gown.
LOL, I swear , despite being 40's  yr old professional woman, you'd think they were getting a prom gown.
TRust me, this is how most females really THINK deep inside when it comes to romance.

Many woman will go along with being put down , IF they're really into the guy.
BUT, in the back of their mind they will try to CHANGE him.
They pften use subtle female manipulation to do this and most men remain oblivious.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 03, 2021, 10:20:24 AM
It's a common female fantasy to be rescued by her prince.
Then he rides off with her to love happily ever after.

If that wasn't true, they wouldn't make so many "chick flicks" with the same basic scenario.

Men are different . We want a pretty face , nice boobs and butt. If she's sweet and smiles at us, that's the game LOL.

PLus, most women are reluctant to openly admit their real inner feelings on romance.
That's why they always "fight it" at first in the movies .

A successful guy is viewed as an independent stud if he remains unmarried and hooks top shelf pussy.
As men get older, they often get called ; distinguished or statesman, etc

However, an unmarried woman is considered lacking regardless of her personal success.
Terms like "spinster" and old bat are used to describe older females , especially if she isn't too hot looking.

Men will marry a much younger pretty woman and feel triumphant .
Woman want to marry a man that makes then feel safe, loved and secure.

My wife is a successful baking exec VP and was married /divorced before we ever met.
She's independent minded and has her own strong opinions.
BUT, when we started dating ( in her 40's) she started acting like a "schoolgirl".
A gf of her's remarked about that , when we all met for dinner.

My wife and and her "professional " girl friends all went with her to select her wedding gown.
LOL, I swear , despite being 40's  yr old professional woman, you'd think they were getting a prom gown.
TRust me, this is how most females really THINK deep inside when it comes to romance.

Many woman will go along with being put down , IF they're really into the guy.
BUT, in the back of their mind they will try to CHANGE him.
They pften use subtle female manipulation to do this and most men remain oblivious.

I agree with you, Howard.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 03, 2021, 12:45:01 PM
Good question. At the moment I am employing a number of looksmaxxing techniques to preserve my youth. I appear significantly younger than my biological age. I have the ability scoop women as young as 18. They are still approaching me. From time to time I receive phone calls from women I've never met who express intense desire to fornicate with me.  Because of my lottery genetics, my natural tendency toward extreme muscularity, and know how in the area of looksmaxxing I can probably continue for decades until I hit the wall.

A big Hebrew kielbasa like Vince would take your bf, and then fuck you in your asshole afterwards
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 03, 2021, 12:49:30 PM
but there is only so much you can do to delay the aging process, you can't make a 50 year old look the same as when he was 25 no matter how much you "looksmax", you can age well with a healthy lifestyle but you get older every day

how old are you now and how old do people say you look?  the wall is inevitable for all of us so how will you cope when it comes for you?

also the best looking men are intimidating to women, are you sure you're not just a good looking 7 that's approachable?  a legit 9 or 10 man would be scary for women to even talk to let alone approach randomly

E

He’s already coping with it by posting on getbig

Funny how these threads are almost always started by mid age crisis white lonely men, all these charts are created by these “betas” sad and pathetic
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 03, 2021, 12:52:28 PM
He’s already coping with it by posting on getbig

Funny how these threads are almost always started by mid age crisis white lonely men, all these charts are created by these “betas” sad and pathetic

Sir Bicep is waiting for an 11 to show up in his mom's basement.  In the meantime he jerks off while playing Call of Duty.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 03, 2021, 12:57:52 PM
Sir Bicep is waiting for an 11 to show up in his mom's basement.  In the meantime he jerks off while playing Call of Duty.

What’s hysterical is these guys call themselves alphas but they are studying charts, graphs, about another males looks, hahahaha, oh brother

At least he gets an A- for effort
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 03, 2021, 04:30:47 PM
And Mr. Podunk has a career where he is a fireman, farmer, blue collar tradesman, artist, doctor, someone who helps kids, the poor, etc.

In all cases he is well off.  Since he works in a career where no one gets rich, he comes from inherited wealth, but of course he spurns the meaningless life of money chasing for altruistic reasons.

Usually drives a pickup truck and wears a Carhart jacket.  The locals know and love him. 

When he goes in the local bar everybody knows his name. 

The bartender/owner is an earthy,  middle aged, motherly woman who tells her what a great guy he is because he secretly does wonderful things for people without bragging.  Truly selfless.

You've nailed the scenario and obviously seen your share of "chick-centric" romance movies . Hallmark channel?
I've watched a few myself with my wife ( and ex-wife).

I don't think most of these guys understand the difference between :
1. treating a woman well and complimenting her     vs    2. Being a doormat , cuck or wimp .
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 03, 2021, 04:44:30 PM
Hollywood is the last place in the world to take direction from. In every Hollywood romance movie, the man is rejected and then wins the woman's love by acting like a creepy desperate stalker who refuses to take no for an answer. In real life it simply doesn't work. Also the notion that beautiful successful women are lonely is more tripe aimed at giving incels hope. Get real.

I don't know what kind of women you date , but I suspect they might be different from my dating experiences .

An attractive, smart , secure female , over 35, with a good career, isn't going to let a man rule her
They just won't put up with it. If you try that macho , aloof crap , turn around and she's walking away.

BUT, they don't want a wimp or man that is floundering in his own life.

Women , like my wife, want a man to be  a man . BUT they won't accept bad behavior or immature games from any man.
Before me she dated  a man that she lost respect for. Why? Because he was a wimp that  whined  and complained to her.
To her, that was acting like an old lady and she kicked him to the curb.

I treat her well ,compliment her and still bring her flowers. BUT, I know when to say NO.
She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is". I do likewise with her.

For example, I don't pressure her to attend sports ( games) with me.
She doesn't expect me to go with her to  weddings or dinners with old female pals.
I have a "man cave" to watch my sports and we have a TV in the bedroom for her to watch her chick movies.

It's all about mutual respect and love that holds it all in place.

Now having rambled on with my view, I'll ask one basic question about your's :

Are you happy and content with your dating/relationship situation?
If so, carry on "as is" . That's the only thing that matters. ;)

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: BossBoss on December 03, 2021, 05:59:05 PM
Before me she dated  a man that she lost respect for. Why?
Truth is, she is a piece of shit.

I treat her well ,compliment her and still bring her flowers. ..
She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is".
I have a "man cave" to watch my sports..

Thank her everyday for your man cave, that's really nice of her..
Why you submit to a woman? (She is not even a friendly one)

Personaly, if i don't get sex it's over.. i mean, it's obviously over.
Maybe you just had bad luck.

Personal Advice: divorce

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 03, 2021, 06:07:59 PM
I don't know what kind of women you date , but I suspect they might be different from my dating experiences .

An attractive, smart , secure female , over 35, with a good career, isn't going to let a man rule her
They just won't put up with it. If you try that macho , aloof crap , turn around and she's walking away.

BUT, they don't want a wimp or man that is floundering in his own life.

Women , like my wife, want a man to be  a man . BUT they won't accept bad behavior or immature games from any man.
Before me she dated  a man that she lost respect for. Why? Because he was a wimp that  whined  and complained to her.
To her, that was acting like an old lady and she kicked him to the curb.

I treat her well ,compliment her and still bring her flowers. BUT, I know when to say NO.
She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is". I do likewise with her.

For example, I don't pressure her to attend sports ( games) with me.
She doesn't expect me to go with her to  weddings or dinners with old female pals.
I have a "man cave" to watch my sports and we have a TV in the bedroom for her to watch her chick movies.

It's all about mutual respect and love that holds it all in place.

Now having rambled on with my view, I'll ask one basic question about your's :

Are you happy and content with your dating/relationship situation?
If so, carry on "as is" . That's the only thing that matters. ;)
Quite frankly you lost me in a previous post when you used the word "spinster". We've nothing to discuss.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SOMEPARTS on December 03, 2021, 06:22:46 PM
I always laugh when men brag about their man cave or hanging out in their special space in the garage. Enjoy 10% of the house you pay for.  :D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 03, 2021, 07:27:08 PM
I always laugh when men brag about their man cave or hanging out in their special space in the garage. Enjoy 10% of the house you pay for.  :D
The so-called "man cave" is actually a calculated step in the wife's path to divorce. The separation actually begins inside the property, as she gets her ugly husband accustomed to being alone all the time. Meanwhile she is cultivating new relationships with men in the outside world as hubby thinks he's got it made in his "man cave". In reality he is one step closer to being put out of the house.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 04, 2021, 04:43:17 AM
I always laugh when men brag about their man cave or hanging out in their special space in the garage. Enjoy 10% of the house you pay for.  :D
No shit, the wussification of men. Our grand dads didn't have a man cave, they had the whole damn house except for the kitchen and laundry room.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 04, 2021, 05:29:50 AM
You've nailed the scenario and obviously seen your share of "chick-centric" romance movies . Hallmark channel?
I've watched a few myself with my wife ( and ex-wife).

I don't think most of these guys understand the difference between :
1. treating a woman well and complimenting her     vs    2. Being a doormat , cuck or wimp .
I don't know what kind of women you date , but I suspect they might be different from my dating experiences .

An attractive, smart , secure female , over 35, with a good career, isn't going to let a man rule her
They just won't put up with it. If you try that macho , aloof crap , turn around and she's walking away.

BUT, they don't want a wimp or man that is floundering in his own life.

Women , like my wife, want a man to be  a man . BUT they won't accept bad behavior or immature games from any man.
Before me she dated  a man that she lost respect for. Why? Because he was a wimp that  whined  and complained to her.
To her, that was acting like an old lady and she kicked him to the curb.

I treat her well ,compliment her and still bring her flowers. BUT, I know when to say NO.
She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is". I do likewise with her.

For example, I don't pressure her to attend sports ( games) with me.
She doesn't expect me to go with her to  weddings or dinners with old female pals.
I have a "man cave" to watch my sports and we have a TV in the bedroom for her to watch her chick movies.

It's all about mutual respect and love that holds it all in place.

Now having rambled on with my view, I'll ask one basic question about your's :

Are you happy and content with your dating/relationship situation?
If so, carry on "as is" . That's the only thing that matters. ;)



Sounds good, Howard.

I disagree with you on most topics but this is one I can agree with.

Most Getbiggers are woman-less while jerking to pron.

Both today's mate-less men and woman generally (not in all case) are manipulated by social media to think they deserve 11s while they are 4-5's.



Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 04, 2021, 05:41:54 AM
No shit, the wussification of men. Our grand dads didn't have a man cave, they had the whole damn house except for the kitchen and laundry room.

My dad/grandfather didn't hang around in the bedroom, living room or kitchen.  He was making/fixing things in his workshop or the garage or outside working around the house, etc.

Today's males got nothing to do.  The modern world has done away with a lot of that or they pay to have things done and don't do anything.

So, when not at their job they sit on their azzes playing video games, surfing the web, online betting, or other time-filling activities.

No wonder everybody is depressed and on meds. 
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ProudVirgin69 on December 04, 2021, 06:13:13 AM
I always laugh when men brag about their man cave or hanging out in their special space in the garage. Enjoy 10% of the house you pay for.  :D

i wouldnt brag about it but i prefer to hang out in & maintain the basement/garage anyways so i was all too ready to let her deal w the kitchen/bedrooms/living room.  i wouldnt spend much time in those areas even if i lived alone so its no loss
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: POB on December 04, 2021, 06:29:19 AM
I don't know what kind of women you date , but I suspect they might be different from my dating experiences .

An attractive, smart , secure female , over 35, with a good career, isn't going to let a man rule her
They just won't put up with it. If you try that macho , aloof crap , turn around and she's walking away.

BUT, they don't want a wimp or man that is floundering in his own life.

Women , like my wife, want a man to be  a man . BUT they won't accept bad behavior or immature games from any man.
Before me she dated  a man that she lost respect for. Why? Because he was a wimp that  whined  and complained to her.
To her, that was acting like an old lady and she kicked him to the curb.

I treat her well ,compliment her and still bring her flowers. BUT, I know when to say NO.
She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is". I do likewise with her.

For example, I don't pressure her to attend sports ( games) with me.
She doesn't expect me to go with her to  weddings or dinners with old female pals.
I have a "man cave" to watch my sports and we have a TV in the bedroom for her to watch her chick movies.

It's all about mutual respect and love that holds it all in place.

Now having rambled on with my view, I'll ask one basic question about your's :

Are you happy and content with your dating/relationship situation?
If so, carry on "as is" . That's the only thing that matters. ;)


“She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is".”

Translation she allows me to browse men in thongs occasionally  :D

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 04, 2021, 08:13:57 AM

“She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is".”

Translation she allows me to browse men in thongs occasionally  :D


...and post on Getbig...but only occasionally.

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Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 09:27:11 AM
Truth is, she is a piece of shit.

Thank her everyday for your man cave, that's really nice of her..
Why you submit to a woman? (She is not even a friendly one)

Personaly, if i don't get sex it's over.. i mean, it's obviously over.
Maybe you just had bad luck.

Personal Advice: divorce

Granted, we're not having Roman orgies in our house, but, I'm quite content with our sex life.
LOL, I just hope she's as happy with it.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 09:30:00 AM

“She respects my personal needs and accepts me "as is".”

Translation she allows me to browse men in thongs occasionally  :D

Ok, you got me there.
But, gawking at flexed , oiled man beasts on stage in thongs is a "sport" right?  right? ... ;)
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 09:32:56 AM
Quite frankly you lost me in a previous post when you used the word "spinster". We've nothing to discuss.

Ok, I'll assume you're happy and content with your love life then.
No hard feelings here . I'm not the oracle of infinite knowledge on dating LOL.
Carry on and enjoy your life.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 09:40:47 AM
My dad/grandfather didn't hang around in the bedroom, living room or kitchen.  He was making/fixing things in his workshop or the garage or outside working around the house, etc.

Today's males got nothing to do.  The modern world has done away with a lot of that or they pay to have things done and don't do anything.

So, when not at their job they sit on their azzes playing video games, surfing the web, online betting, or other time-filling activities.

No wonder everybody is depressed and on meds.

Bingo!

I watch my sports in the man-cave ( a converted bed room), when my wife watches her shows in the bedroom.
They have this modern technology called DVR. It allows me to record the game, watch it later and skip thru commercials.
She does the same thing with her shows and we watch them , at times of our choosing.

I know most "studs" will find this lame, but I don't care :
 We spend most nights, laying beside each other , watching a program* we BOTH enjoy.
* We enjoy the old classic, "wholesome" programs : ( The Walton's ,  Little House on the Prairie , TMC classic films, etc ).
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 10:11:18 AM
The so-called "man cave" is actually a calculated step in the wife's path to divorce. The separation actually begins inside the property, as she gets her ugly husband accustomed to being alone all the time. Meanwhile she is cultivating new relationships with men in the outside world as hubby thinks he's got it made in his "man cave". In reality he is one step closer to being put out of the house.

 If a wife is unhappy with her hubby, she's seek other companions , regardless of man caves .

I've known married couples that sleep in separate beds and end up being like " room mates" .

I'd refuse to live in a loveless marriage where 2 people mutually exist in the same house. That's insane!
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: GymnJuice on December 04, 2021, 11:01:01 AM
At this point why get married? Assuming there's no more kids to be had why not just live your life exactly as you are without getting married?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: bLuEeYes on December 04, 2021, 11:37:21 AM
At this point why get married? Assuming there's no more kids to be had why not just live your life exactly as you are without getting married?
It's not like he had a choice. She rules him. Some men can't talk straight to a woman and have their words heard.

She wanted to marry him to milk him and he said yes.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Sir Bicep on December 04, 2021, 12:04:18 PM
At this point why get married? Assuming there's no more kids to be had why not just live your life exactly as you are without getting married?
As per the title of the thread, most men should marry. That is because the vast majority of men are average or worse; most men are ugly. So by marrying they have a shot at getting some pussy, even infrequently. Staying single, 98% of men in the USA would never get laid again after the age of 24.

The men who shouldn't marry are the top 2%. That is the high tier 8's and up. These lucky few have a sea of 8/9 rated women legs open and at the ready. It would be foolhardy for  man of this caliber to think he could ever be faithful. In past generations, members of the Illuminati and their associates were required to be family men, and squire future generations of slayers. But today, as the world goes to Hell in a handbucket, top tier men should skip marriage and enjoy a wide range of beautiful women.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 04, 2021, 12:10:11 PM
As per the title of the thread, most men should marry. That is because the vast majority of men are average or worse; most men are ugly. So by marrying they have a shot at getting some pussy, even infrequently. Staying single, 98% of men in the USA would never get laid again after the age of 24.

The men who shouldn't marry are the top 2%. That is the high tier 8's and up. These lucky few have a sea of 8/9 rated women legs open and at the ready. It would be foolhardy for  man of this caliber to think he could ever be faithful. In past generations, members of the Illuminati and their associates were required to be family men, and squire future generations of slayers. But today, as the world goes to Hell in a handbucket, top tier men should skip marriage and enjoy a wide range of beautiful women.

Spoken like a true person that neither has looks or money

Josh should out you and expose all your info on here to see
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Walter Sobchak on December 04, 2021, 12:11:12 PM
As per the title of the thread, most men should marry. That is because the vast majority of men are average or worse; most men are ugly. So by marrying they have a shot at getting some pussy, even infrequently. Staying single, 98% of men in the USA would never get laid again after the age of 24.

The men who shouldn't marry are the top 2%. That is the high tier 8's and up. These lucky few have a sea of 8/9 rated women legs open and at the ready. It would be foolhardy for  man of this caliber to think he could ever be faithful. In past generations, members of the Illuminati and their associates were required to be family men, and squire future generations of slayers. But today, as the world goes to Hell in a handbucket, top tier men should skip marriage and enjoy a wide range of beautiful women.

STFU pussy.

Real men have multiple children out of wedlock and then ignore raising them properly.

They also know a clean bulk starts at 167 lbs of bodyweight.

Pussy.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 04, 2021, 12:14:58 PM
STFU pussy.

Real men have multiple children out of wedlock and then ignore raising them properly.

They also know a clean bulk starts at 167 lbs of bodyweight.

Pussy.

Someone who gets it, you have to spread your seed to as many as possible

Matt gets it
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Walter Sobchak on December 04, 2021, 12:19:05 PM
Someone who gets it, you have to spread your seed to as many as possible

Matt gets it

Those aren’t really Spazmattic’s kids, those women just told him that so that he would pay them child support.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: bLuEeYes on December 04, 2021, 01:08:02 PM
STFU pussy.

Real men have multiple children out of wedlock and then ignore raising them properly.

They also know a clean bulk starts at 167 lbs of bodyweight.

Pussy.

Even the door seems intimated. That's a physique that turns crossed legs to open ones
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Andy Griffin on December 04, 2021, 02:16:13 PM
STFU pussy.

Real men have multiple children out of wedlock and then ignore raising them properly.

They also know a clean bulk starts at 167 lbs of bodyweight.

Pussy.

Alphas breed.
Betas feed.

Tully Blanchard owned Magnum TA in the final analysis. 
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 08:01:46 PM
Alphas breed.
When divorced ,  they pay to support her child needs . ;)

 
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Hulkotron on December 04, 2021, 08:09:06 PM
Spoken like a true person that neither has looks or money

Josh should out you and expose all your info on here to see

I have OP's photos.

He and his entire family are very ugly.

I'm not allowed to post them though.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Howard on December 04, 2021, 08:24:44 PM
STFU pussy.

Real men have multiple children out of wedlock and then ignore raising them properly.

They also know a clean bulk starts at 167 lbs of bodyweight.

Pussy.

His taut buttocks look quite fetching in those tight Gildan boxer briefs. :P
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Bevo on December 04, 2021, 08:34:04 PM
I have OP's photos.

He and his entire family are very ugly.

I'm not allowed to post them though.

Comes as no surprise

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 05, 2021, 02:24:48 AM
His taut buttocks look quite fetching in those tight Gildan boxer briefs. :P
Gildan makes the worst underwear. I had a few pair and threw them away.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SOMEPARTS on December 05, 2021, 07:27:43 AM
At this point why get married? Assuming there's no more kids to be had why not just live your life exactly as you are without getting married?


Co-dependency issues  for most.

Getting a housekeeper solves half of the problem.  ;D

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: ThisisOverload on December 06, 2021, 06:24:43 PM
My dad/grandfather didn't hang around in the bedroom, living room or kitchen.  He was making/fixing things in his workshop or the garage or outside working around the house, etc.

Today's males got nothing to do.  The modern world has done away with a lot of that or they pay to have things done and don't do anything.

So, when not at their job they sit on their azzes playing video games, surfing the web, online betting, or other time-filling activities.

No wonder everybody is depressed and on meds.

People today will spend the money to buy nice things rather than old crap they have to fix every few months. The new generation has proven this for the most part. 50-100 years ago people would buy worn out crap and fix it because it saved them money.

My house is 45 years old and i can tell you i spend about 1-2 hours a week "fixing" things. Things that "need" to be fixed at least.

Now i could easily "find" things to do if i didn't have other hobbies i enjoy more. Working on a house or something like that is the last thing i would ever choose to do, i have a lot of real hobbies.

Perhaps gramps was looking for an excuse to get away by "creating" projects?

My dad did the same thing. It was his release to have time alone.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: IroNat on December 07, 2021, 04:05:39 AM
Gildan makes the worst underwear. I had a few pair and threw them away.

WalMart sells Gildan.  I have some of the socks.

Serviceable.

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 07, 2021, 07:03:02 AM
WalMart sells Gildan.  I have some of the socks.

Serviceable.
I bought mine on Amazon. The weirdest fit ever.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: SOMEPARTS on December 07, 2021, 09:14:04 AM
WalMart sells Gildan.  I have some of the socks.

Serviceable.


Gold toe socks are the only plain looking sport socks worth owning.

My cardio wears instant holes in anything else cheaper...Hanes, Gildan, Fruit of the Loom, etc.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Griffith on December 08, 2021, 04:08:02 AM

Gold toe socks are the only plain looking sport socks worth owning.

My cardio wears instant holes in anything else cheaper...Hanes, Gildan, Fruit of the Loom, etc.

Best sports socks I've used are Adidas.

Same with their sneakers.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Rmj11 on May 15, 2022, 10:55:15 AM
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in shit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.

Most women actually look like gargoyles without their fake make up, hair extensions, fake tans, push up bras, high heels. Do you know the old joke about a woman without any make up on who walks by a group of guys? One of them points at her and says who's that guy?
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: deadz on May 15, 2022, 02:18:27 PM
Marriage is good
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Humble Narcissist on May 16, 2022, 07:50:35 AM
Marriage is good
For women.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Rmj11 on December 18, 2022, 01:23:31 PM
For women.

Exactly. Men get little to no benefit from marriage. Take this quote which sums it up perfectly.

"Give a homeless Man a cardboard box to sleep in and he'll be thankful. Buy a woman a mansion and she'll still find something to complain about."

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: nzmusclemonster on December 18, 2022, 02:35:23 PM
I knew a couple of 10's in my younger days and they had the worst game out of anyone and hardly picked up.

Perhaps they were too into their own looks, slightly gay, or thought their looks alone could seal the deal, but I loved hanging round them.

I was an 8, possibly 9, but I loved meeting women and pointing at my 10 mates and saying "come over, have a chat with us", knowing my 10 mates would completely fuck it up and I'd be there to pick up the pieces  ;D
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: irishdave on December 18, 2022, 02:46:56 PM
I knew a couple of 10's in my younger days and they had the worst game out of anyone and hardly picked up.

Perhaps they were too into their own looks, slightly gay, or thought their looks alone could seal the deal, but I loved hanging round them.

I was an 8, possibly 9, but I loved meeting women and pointing at my 10 mates and saying "come over, have a chat with us", knowing my 10 mates would completely fuck it up and I'd be there to pick up the pieces  ;D

That’s very nice. When are you coming to Galway? I’m not far from there. I’m more Limerick. The only thing you’ll be picking up here is your teeth off the floor and your cousins house getting petrol bombed for what you said on here. You won’t be an 8 or a 9 then
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Dave D on December 18, 2022, 02:49:18 PM
That’s very nice. When are you coming to Galway? I’m not far from there. I’m more Limerick. The only thing you’ll be picking up here is your teeth off the floor and your cousins house getting petrol bombed for what you said on here

Nicely played.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: nzmusclemonster on December 18, 2022, 02:52:14 PM
Good to see Irishdildo is still butt hurt from comments I made 10 years ago.

Come to NZ and I won't break your face, I'll take pity on you and find you a nice Maori musclebear that you can powerbottom for.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: nzmusclemonster on December 18, 2022, 02:59:59 PM
Don't worry, if I ever go to Ireland again I'll be easy to find.

I'll be the one wearing an "Irishdildo is a homo" t-shirt.
Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: irishdave on December 18, 2022, 03:01:51 PM
Don't worry, if I ever go to Ireland again I'll be easy to find.

I'll be the one wearing an "Irishdildo is a homo" t-shirt.

 ;D

Title: Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
Post by: Hulkotron on December 19, 2022, 03:57:17 AM
I wasn’t aware there are irishdave x. nzmm things.