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Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« on: November 23, 2021, 04:52:12 PM »

First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #1 on: November 23, 2021, 06:22:47 PM »
Who is the #5 guy?  Is he the guy from the Office...Ed Helms?

Looking at these pics I can see that I was a 9 in my prime.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2021, 07:10:18 PM »
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in shit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #3 on: November 23, 2021, 07:56:44 PM »
Said it before. Men are delusional about how they look. If you took 20 guys and had them rate them self they would all rate them self an 8 or better. The reality is that most men look like gargoyles.

On another note I work for the government in an office as my retirement job near some affluent towns. Time after time I see knock out women with ugly guys. Then I look to the parking lot and see the incredible cars they stepped out of and see the rich town they live in on their paper work.  To a hot chick looking for a great life style an ugly guy becomes Brad Pitt if he has money.  A rational woman when she wants to settle down is looking to live in a nice house and have a husband that can take care of her and her children.  The good looking cool guy in the band with the steroid physique living in sit hole basement apartment isn't attractive anymore.

A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #4 on: November 23, 2021, 08:08:25 PM »

First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)

i don't see many athletes, ceo's, attorneys or venture capitalists that look like chris hemsworth or whatever "10" you are using as an example, they look closer to the 4 - 5 range at best

you have a pic?  i mean if you are legit 2% why be so shy about it?

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #5 on: November 23, 2021, 11:24:58 PM »
A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.

True, alpha fucks, beta bucks. Attraction and genuine desire aren't the same

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2021, 12:35:42 AM »
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2021, 08:05:18 AM »
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
Spoken like a true "4"

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2021, 08:12:12 AM »

First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to homely to forgettable. This comprises 98% of the male population. 2% of the male population, conversely, women consider handsome, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. That 98% of men ,who are homely/ugly, are damned to a life of celibacy UNLESS they can convince some nice gal to marry them. These are the men who SHOULD marry. For if they DON'T marry, they will seldom if ever get laid for free. And when they do cough up the money for an escort, she is usually so turned off she can barely hide her disgust. The sex is ice cold and unsatisfactory. These men need to stake their claim of a an average looking female early, marry and lock her down with offspring. Otherwise they will grow old and alone and watch happy couples from the sidelines.
The remaining 2% of men (see chart) are the genetic lottery winners. The men with the prominent, chiseled jaw line. The high cheekbones. The aesthetic eyes. The straight, white teeth. The tall, naturally mesomorphic physique. And, of course, a full head of lush hair. These are the alpha males the Universe rewards for their looks. Doors open easily. These are the pro athletes, the entertainers, the CEOs, the high powered attorneys, the venture capitalists, etc. These men need not marry. These are the men who women merely glance at and go into heat. These men need no "game", for women throw themselves at this elite group. The idea of this caliber of man settling down with any one woman is preposterous. Men like this are born to pleasure a vast sea of women.

(Full disclosure: I am in the 2%)






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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2021, 08:14:11 AM »

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?

Pure delusion and cope

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2021, 08:17:26 AM »
First things first: Most men are not good looking. Most men range from hideous to hom..... Snipping this faggot waffle.


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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2021, 08:23:59 AM »
Spoken like a true "4"


Show your pic, Rico Suave, lol.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #12 on: November 24, 2021, 09:27:41 AM »
Wallet trumps looks.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #13 on: November 24, 2021, 09:39:41 AM »
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
Overload is right.It’s a matter of confidence.Problem is you can’t fake confidence or just decide “hey I’m going to be confident “

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #14 on: November 24, 2021, 09:44:24 AM »
Overload is right.It’s a matter of confidence.Problem is you can’t fake confidence or just decide “hey I’m going to be confident “

fake it til you make it

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #15 on: November 24, 2021, 09:51:49 AM »
fake it til you make it
yeah you can try that and hey I am not saying I have ever been a chick magnet just what I have observed through the years. Most of the guys with the great amount of confidence don’t even realize what is working for them,

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #16 on: November 24, 2021, 10:01:54 AM »
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?

Good post and you know the deal on what factors that get females wet and ready LOL.

Let me just add that regardless of LOOKS, most men allow "traditional roles" to enter an unbalanced relationship / marriage.
I'd also suggest using compliments about her looks and being sexy to help endear her to you.  ;)

1. Most women want to marry a man with a "good career" ie makes $$$. Ok fine, but more men
should consider what their future wife brings to the table. It's hard to be equal partners, when
the man is the one making most of the $$.

2. If you want children, that makes a drastic change in the marriage dynamic.
If value being a dad,  you also need to embrace the demands that go with it.
This means, you will likely agree to be main "bread winner" and take care of the wife and kids.

If she has to work and care for kids, she's more likely to be cranky and tired.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #17 on: November 24, 2021, 10:28:40 AM »
Yep, a 9.

That's me in my prime.


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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #18 on: November 24, 2021, 10:35:26 AM »
A. The stud in the band could give a fuck less because he's got a line of bitches dying to fuck him.

B. The babe who married the rich gargoyle is still sneaking back to fuck the stud behind hubby's back. She's cheating.

The band guy does great with the 20 something hotties till he gets to around 40. Suddenly the 20 something want nothing to do with him.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #19 on: November 24, 2021, 10:40:01 AM »
OP is gayer than Anderson Cooper eating dick flavored icecream in a foreskin shaped waffle cone with with whipped sperm topping.
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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #20 on: November 24, 2021, 12:29:11 PM »
OP is gayer than Anderson Cooper eating dick flavored icecream in a foreskin shaped waffle cone with with whipped sperm topping.

Awesome imagery.  I salute you, sir.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #21 on: November 24, 2021, 12:31:44 PM »
These threads pop up a lot lately.

I'll say it for the 17th time.

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and charisma.

The dudes who are 9 and 10 don't slay vag because they look good. They slay vag because picking up women is easy for them and they have learned to play the game.

When you can stare a beautiful girl in the face who is ready to suck you off and say "not tonight, i'm busy and have to go", you are on your way to winning the slay game.

Looks are good for the immediate attraction, personality and charm bring them to your bed.

Learn to treat them all like 5's. Be in control at all times. You set the mood and expectations. Do not put them on a pedestal.

That's what the 9 and 10 guys do because it's easy to meet beautiful women.

But it takes more than that to smash them guts.

Or just become rich and pay whores. They will cheat on you with men like me, but do you really care at that point?
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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #22 on: November 24, 2021, 02:44:43 PM »
Pure delusion and cope
It's funny, the more average and homely these guys are, the more they philosophize about getting pussy. Long treatises about "confidence", "money", mentions of billionaires, etc.

Bottom line: Looks are everything.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #23 on: November 24, 2021, 03:06:00 PM »
Yep, a 9.

That's me in my prime.



I’d say I was pushing that in my heyday. Now about 7.5 because I’m in my 40’s. Although, a few years ago I had this old lady in Vienna call me “stunning” in an elevator. I’m not going to lie, it gave me a bit of a chub. She was like a Helen Mirren type.

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Re: Why most men should and do get married, and why some shouldn't
« Reply #24 on: November 24, 2021, 03:39:28 PM »
It's funny, the more average and homely these guys are, the more they philosophize about getting pussy. Long treatises about "confidence", "money", mentions of billionaires, etc.

Bottom line: Looks are everything.

It’s all about money to these whores.