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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #50 on: June 20, 2015, 08:59:43 PM »
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.

Interesting hypothesis, I'm sure there's much truth in there but as someone said what about gay men or those who are single? Do you really think mothers pull that many strings in successful,  well adjusted grown men's lives?

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #51 on: June 20, 2015, 11:20:34 PM »
Yes, I think a lot of it has to do with "being somewhere" or "doing something." People just cant be still these days. Its uncomfortable for them. They are always on the "go." Going here, going there. The best is when people are driving like lunatics to get somewhere. 10 to 1, they really have nowhere important to go, and even if they are 5 minutes late, they are not important enough to where it matters. Yet, they have to put everyone elses life in danger to get where they are going.  ::) ::)

This.

They're under the impression that they have 'active' lifestyles with iPhones, iPads and iMacs diaries filled up with pointless stupid irrelevant dumb shit. It's all a pretense for others. I swear people spend half their fucking lives trying to impress others. Especially girls and fags in their 20s.
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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #52 on: June 21, 2015, 03:40:44 AM »
Survival..........the strong survive.......weak will die off........resources.... ...fighting for resources.........power. ............struggle.... ......

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #53 on: June 21, 2015, 04:02:45 PM »
Interesting hypothesis, I'm sure there's much truth in there but as someone said what about gay men or those who are single? Do you really think mothers pull that many strings in successful,  well adjusted grown men's lives?
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #54 on: June 21, 2015, 04:43:57 PM »
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #55 on: June 21, 2015, 06:02:06 PM »
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

Come on dude! You've seen the porn videos... Women getting drunk and doing things to strangers they would never do to you in a million years. When they go out, if dick is on the menu, it probably won't be yours.

Life is short, don't worry about anyone that much. Except for your kid(s) of course, if you have any.

What's the worst that can happen? That she comes home with a bag full of wet cocks?

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #56 on: June 21, 2015, 06:04:37 PM »
And learn from your mistakes.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #57 on: June 21, 2015, 06:17:06 PM »
I dated a girl who used to go out after work like every night, and most of the people with her were guys. It used to bother me, but then I started going out myself when she did. Even if I wasnt doing anything I'd ignore her and act like I was busy. Not after long she stopped going out after work.

So next time she go's out with the girls, say ''cool, I'm gonna meet up with the guys at xxxbar'. Don't be surprised if she shows up.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #58 on: June 21, 2015, 06:30:50 PM »
I dated a girl who used to go out after work like every night, and most of the people with her were guys. It used to bother me, but then I started going out myself when she did. Even if I wasn't doing anything I'd ignore her and act like I was busy. Not after long she stopped going out after work.

So next time she go's out with the girls, say ''cool, I'm gonna meet up with the guys at xxxbar'. Don't be surprised if she shows up.

But why should he be dependent on what she does though? That creates dependence issues.

My wife goes out once in a while. Do I worry? No. Why? Because if someone else is dumb enough to fall for a "used doll" they deserve to get that.

What I will never do is ask myself why. Did I fuck her right? Did I treat her well? Who the fuck cares! Life is literally TOO SHORT to have to worry about another human being that much. What you really want to do NOW is stop worrying about shit like that. If you find out that she cheated on you, break it off and move on immediately. If she didn't, but she still wants to go out once in a while WITHOUT YOU? Bullshit, there's the door. Have a nice life.

Kids aside, no one should be that important in your life.

My grandfather once told my grandmother, who was suffering from a bout of depression, to "walk it off". Eventually she did get out of the mental funk, but it wasn't because of what he said.  

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #59 on: June 21, 2015, 07:02:28 PM »
But why should he be dependent on what she does though? That creates dependence issues.

My wife goes out once in a while. Do I worry? No. Why? Because if someone else is dumb enough to fall for a "used doll" they deserve to get that.

What I will never do is ask myself why. Did I fuck her right? Did I treat her well? Who the fuck cares! Life is literally TOO SHORT to have to worry about another human being that much. What you really want to do NOW is stop worrying about shit like that. If you find out that she cheated on you, break it off and move on immediately. If she didn't, but she still wants to go out once in a while WITHOUT YOU? Bullshit, there's the door. Have a nice life.

Kids aside, no one should be that important in your life.

My grandfather once told my grandmother, who was suffering from a bout of depression, to "walk it off". Eventually she did get out of the mental funk, but it wasn't because of what he said.  

I agree with you, but he wont be creating dependency issues. Just the opposite. His girl is going out and I bet he sits at home depressed about it. Use it as an opportunity to get out yourself.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #60 on: June 21, 2015, 07:21:54 PM »
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.

Survival..........the strong survive.......weak will die off........resources.... ...fighting for resources.........power. ............struggle.... ......
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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #61 on: June 21, 2015, 08:19:53 PM »
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

Man, be more confident. With this attitude, you're going to lose her QUICK. Major turn-off to a girl when her guy's insecure.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #62 on: June 21, 2015, 08:23:00 PM »
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

If your asking this question then you must be a total beta bottom bitch. In which case then yes you ought to be worried.

You ought to have gone with her though. Maybe the other guy would let you suck his dick.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #63 on: June 21, 2015, 10:07:54 PM »
Please don't be mean to me.  Thank you.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #64 on: June 21, 2015, 10:20:12 PM »
Please don't be mean to me.  Thank you.

Well, we can either warn you now with a little tough advice, or you can find a video of her blowing her coworker on her iPhone six months from now.

Your choice.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #65 on: June 21, 2015, 10:28:59 PM »
1st rule : Never get married.  Its an outdated concept.
2nd rule : If you have to worry about things like this then you've already lost the upper hand. 
3rd rule : Never ever let her know it concerns you.
4th rule : Never get married.

If you have "rules" that dictate your behavior with women you are a douche-bag... Interacting with women should be as natural as breathing.. "Lost the upper hand" - lol. Like its some kind of fucking game...   You should be in great condition 365 and have read a fucking book or two - that's

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #66 on: June 21, 2015, 10:31:57 PM »
If you have "rules" that dictate your behavior with women you are a douche-bag... Interacting with women should be as natural as breathing.. "Lost the upper hand" - lol. Like its some kind of fucking game...   You should be in great condition 365 and have read a fucking book or two - that's

Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #67 on: June 21, 2015, 10:35:28 PM »
Well, we can either warn you now with a little tough advice, or you can find a video of her blowing her coworker on her iPhone six months from now.

Your choice.

Oh I was being facetious.  It's get big so i expect to be told I stuck cock, take it up the ass from barn animals,  etc.

As for this whole thing,  I'm fine about it now.  This thread let me vent about it.  I forgot who asked earlier but not running then just test.  But i don't remember ever getting like this before.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #68 on: June 21, 2015, 10:50:39 PM »
Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #69 on: June 22, 2015, 03:42:24 AM »

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #70 on: June 22, 2015, 05:32:02 AM »
Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.

The proper attribution is "250 @ 6% @ about 6 feet"

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #71 on: June 22, 2015, 11:43:43 AM »
The proper attribution is "250 @ 6% @ about 6 feet"

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true, or for those living a more relaxed lifestyle involving coke whores and late night partying, like many getbiggers stray toward... 280 at 8% at 6ft.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #72 on: June 22, 2015, 11:53:52 AM »
true, or for those living a more relaxed lifestyle involving coke whores and late night partying, like many getbiggers stray toward... 280 at 8% at 6ft.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #73 on: June 22, 2015, 05:44:50 PM »
I agree with you, but he wont be creating dependency issues. Just the opposite. His girl is going out and I bet he sits at home depressed about it. Use it as an opportunity to get out yourself.

Nah, nah, nah. See, you're putting the ball on her side of the court. She jumps, he has to jump. She goes out, he has to go out. This is the BS I'm talking about. The guy ought to go out IF he feels like going out, not because she's out with her friends.

I really do not know the specifics. I don't think any of us know. I'm giving a 30,000-foot view of what I think ought to be done. The guy is probably worried because he is the one that cheated on the girl. Sounds like cheater's remorse to me.

At the end of the day, life is short. If she likes to get drunk and a cock happens to fall out of the sky... he'll know. Question is: What will HE do? I say, walk away and find yourself another woman. Live life. Do not hold grudges. Laugh it off. And don't sweat it. Not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong.

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Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
« Reply #74 on: June 22, 2015, 09:49:52 PM »
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less
Stop being beta.
you think she is fucking around? Has she ever gave you a reason to think so?
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