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Title: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 06, 2015, 03:44:22 AM
What's your experiences, for those in it right now and those who threw the towel a while back how was it back then?

I struggled with it as I got older TBH (early 30's +), the reason being is that I became more picky about looks and wanted 9's as an average and believe they are hard to come by in the UK the land of obesity, I would date an 8 and she acts like Kate Moss and is so demanding. I was getting lots of offers more than ever before from milfs and 6's...etc, so really it's a great market if you're a sex addict with low expectations. Only guys I see with model like girls partying all the time are stupidly rich fellas with seekingarrangements.com profiles.

When younger and I was more careless with my Tren dosages which I think lowers our standards. I nailed lots of 7's I didn't mind, if she had a nice face and good tits I hit it. If she had average face and a banging body...I hit, you get the jist. I was also a lot more tolerant, loud mouths, drunks, coke heads, gothic, mud shark, Ibiza partying student chicks, single mums on shitty jobs...etc anything goes, I also brought home anyone to my old semi detached Manchester house I bought for a staggering 75k lol.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 06, 2015, 05:42:06 AM
i think you have a slightly simplistic strategy there

my take is the rules go out the window on a one nighter

as its just a posh wank

best fuck i ever had was a slightly chubby five

when on test i would literally nail anything

true story
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Quickerblade on January 06, 2015, 06:07:16 AM
Keep it up Skorp, Mrs Right will show up one day....Maybe...
 Unfortunately now is not the time to settle down, this is the Whats In It For Me generation.
Treat them mean keep them keen, never text them, actually do not do anything for them, nothing.
The more you chase the quicker they run.
I dont even talk to them when i pick them up to go for dinner, the more fucked up i act the more of a love magnet I become.

Thank you.


Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 06, 2015, 06:18:05 AM
Keep it up Skorp, Mrs Right will show up one day....Maybe...
 Unfortunately now is not the time to settle down, this is the Whats In It For Me generation.
Treat them mean keep them keen, never text them, actually do not do anything for them, nothing.
The more you chase the quicker they run.
I dont even talk to them when i pick them up to go for dinner, the more fucked up i act the more of a love magnet I become.

Thank you.

Do you have the same problem in Austria? would have thought Austrian girls are less fat than Brits so this should increase the ration of WYHI when out and about.

Personality wise are they the same?
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Quickerblade on January 06, 2015, 06:26:13 AM
Do you have the same problem in Austria? would have thought Austrian girls are less fat than Brits so this should increase the ration of WYHI when out and about.

Personality wise are they the same?
You Mean Australia.

Yep, dumb bitches are normal here, social media junkies, will spend their life savings on botox
And fuller lips.
A lot of UK girls here, fucken trashy tip-rats. Why do
These dumb bitches drink till they are throwing up on the kerb??
You want a wife material, you will not get it with this current crop.
2015 will see many divorces, I will not risk losing my earnings cause she isn't in love anymore.
My friend, welcome to the world of trash.
Thanks to facebook, Instagram and the media.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 06, 2015, 07:00:29 AM
You Mean Australia.

Yep, dumb bitches are normal here, social media junkies, will spend their life savings on botox
And fuller lips.
A lot of UK girls here, fucken trashy tip-rats. Why do
These dumb bitches drink till they are throwing up on the kerb??

Brits have some of the worst reputations abroad. Looks like the women are doing a great job over there.

I have to say I struggled with girls and their drinking habits at times. I remember going on dates and girls would actually act and look nice and then the night goes to shit when their pissed beyond comprehension, even the sex is shit then. I find it a huge turn off now seeing girls getting bladdered.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 06, 2015, 07:57:27 AM
Most 30 something singletons are searching for someone who does not exist.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Donny on January 06, 2015, 07:59:40 AM
Brits have some of the worst reputations abroad. Looks like the women are doing a great job over there.

I have to say I struggled with girls and their drinking habits at times. I remember going on dates and girls would actually act and look nice and then the night goes to shit when their pissed beyond comprehension, even the sex is shit then. I find it a huge turn off now seeing girls getting bladdered.
Bladdered is a word i have not heard in a long time... shit faced i like better ;D. I remember seeing a report over here about Blackpool where a group of German students went over there... The Girls liked it but the German Guys were shitting their pants. The German men ,,,well pussies found the Brits too aggressive.. :D
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 06, 2015, 08:09:21 AM
Most 30 something singletons are searching for someone who does not exist.

Not an excuse to get tied down to one vagina for the rest of your life.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: pedro01 on January 06, 2015, 08:24:33 AM
I thought you'd moved to Denmark - not dating there?

There is nothing to say about the situation in the UK. It just is.

Most European countries don't have women that drink 10 pints of lager on a Friday night and then get into a punch up in the queue at the chip shop. You can do better than UK almost anywhere else in Europe.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: pedro01 on January 06, 2015, 08:26:11 AM
As an aside - if the situation in UK depresses you - go to LA for 6 months.

You'll be begging for a fatty after the dating scene there.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 06, 2015, 09:15:27 AM
As an aside - if the situation in UK depresses you - go to LA for 6 months.

You'll be begging for a fatty after the dating scene there.

interesting

expand

is it the gold digging
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: local hero on January 06, 2015, 09:51:57 AM
As an aside - if the situation in UK depresses you - go to LA for 6 months.

You'll be begging for a fatty after the dating scene there.


Are they as fake and souless as they seem on tv?


I've been settled down for years, if I was free and single again id be going for a gym bunny for sure
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Teutonic Knight on January 06, 2015, 12:05:01 PM
Relocate to Monaco if U can, Monte Carlo or Cannes film fest time attracts super chicks  ;)
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: pedro01 on January 06, 2015, 05:42:13 PM
interesting

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is it the gold digging

Pretty much.

On a date, be prepared to answer questions about your current income, aspirations and inheritance possibilities.

Oh - and this is regardless of whether you are a chick or a guy. I have a close friend there, a Spanish chick and she says it's the same for her when she goes on a date.

I am sure there's plenty of normal people there but generally speaking, they don't appear to want to spend much time on you if you don't measure up financially.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Quickerblade on January 06, 2015, 07:14:22 PM
Brits have some of the worst reputations abroad. Looks like the women are doing a great job over there.

I have to say I struggled with girls and their drinking habits at times. I remember going on dates and girls would actually act and look nice and then the night goes to shit when their pissed beyond comprehension, even the sex is shit then. I find it a huge turn off now seeing girls getting bladdered.

not to mention their breathe reeks when they are buzzed.

English girls here are easy though, one got really upset with me cause i would not spend the night with her after i executed the deed. I told her I was diabetic and need to go home to take my insulin.
I went home and played Fight Night Champion on the Xbox. She was from Birmingham.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 07, 2015, 12:58:54 AM
not to mention their breathe reeks when they are buzzed.

English girls here are easy though, one got really upset with me cause i would not spend the night with her after i executed the deed. I told her I was diabetic and need to go home to take my insulin.
I went home and played Fight Night Champion on the Xbox. She was from Birmingham.

OMG this is an awesome excuse :D
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 07, 2015, 01:45:43 AM
OMG this is an awesome excuse :D


best one ever thats now my official reason moving forward  8)
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 07, 2015, 02:55:35 AM
best one ever thats now my official reason moving forward  8)

It is really good, no one can argue with that.

I've used ones like "I'm moving house tomorrow and need to be up at 6am" but sometimes this is met with resistance and they kind of suss it out when you're still at the same place 6 months later  :D
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 07, 2015, 03:22:31 AM
It is really good, no one can argue with that.

I've used ones like "I'm moving house tomorrow and need to be up at 6am" but sometimes this is met with resistance and they kind of suss it out when you're still at the same place 6 months later  :D

Tell them u r a bin man and not really a compliance guy from the  city and need to be up at 4.30
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 07, 2015, 03:51:12 AM
Tell them u r a bin man and not really a compliance guy from the  city and need to be up at 4.30

That might work for you more actually cos you look like something pulled out from a skip  ;D
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 07, 2015, 04:01:57 AM
It is really good, no one can argue with that.

I've used ones like "I'm moving house tomorrow and need to be up at 6am" but sometimes this is met with resistance and they kind of suss it out when you're still at the same place 6 months later  :D

ive had some real abuse just fucking off

but why would you stay the night

fuck that noise
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 07, 2015, 04:26:29 AM
ive had some real abuse just fucking off

but why would you stay the night

fuck that noise

Same here. I feel your pain.

Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Quickerblade on January 07, 2015, 07:49:54 AM
ive had some real abuse just fucking off

but why would you stay the night

fuck that noise
I never spend the night over. Girls are fuckin disgusting, filthy bedrooms.
I prefer my own bed and space.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: JasonH on January 07, 2015, 12:24:47 PM
I never spend the night over. Girls are fuckin disgusting, filthy bedrooms.
I prefer my own bed and space.

I've stopped doing this too. Never met a girl with a cleaner, tidier, more comfy bedroom than my own  8)

Went back on Plenty of Fish at the New Year. Needn't have bothered - full of freaks and weirdos, girls' egos getting massaged by receiving 100 messages a day from desperate horny guys telling them how hot they are when they're only about a 5 at best. As a result they don't answer messages from the genuine ones. Not that I've been chasing 5's mind you, I wait for them to message me and decide if I'll respond - play the marathon, not the sprint.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 07, 2015, 03:55:15 PM
Skorp did u ever do professional speed dating?
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: local hero on January 08, 2015, 01:21:06 AM
Skorp did u ever do professional speed dating?


I heard he never made it to the pros, stayed amature
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 08, 2015, 03:11:51 AM
You're black.

Aim lower.



thats bit racists chuckles

keep that shit off this forum  :-*
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 08, 2015, 05:54:40 AM
Skorp did u ever do professional speed dating?

Yes, I went once in Manchester.

You sit and talk to 20 girls, you get 2 minutes with each. then go on the website and click yes/no. where you get a match you exchange details and meet again. I clicked yes on one girl, a Slovakian and the only foreigner in that line up (this feeds into my other threads about UK fatties). as for me I scored a staggering 18 out of 20 yes'  8) TBH the competition was very weak.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 08, 2015, 01:25:15 PM
Yes, I went once in Manchester.

You sit and talk to 20 girls, you get 2 minutes with each. then go on the website and click yes/no. where you get a match you exchange details and meet again. I clicked yes on one girl, a Slovakian and the only foreigner in that line up (this feeds into my other threads about UK fatties). as for me I scored a staggering 18 out of 20 yes'  8) TBH the competition was very weak.

there are such things as professionals in manchester?
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: JasonH on January 09, 2015, 03:53:24 PM
Yes, I went once in Manchester.

You sit and talk to 20 girls, you get 2 minutes with each. then go on the website and click yes/no. where you get a match you exchange details and meet again. I clicked yes on one girl, a Slovakian and the only foreigner in that line up (this feeds into my other threads about UK fatties). as for me I scored a staggering 18 out of 20 yes'  8) TBH the competition was very weak.

I did a bit of speed dating last year, went to a few events. First time I went there were 10 girls and 10 guys. 8 out the 10 girls wanted to see me again  8) so I thought fucking brilliant, I'm liking this speed dating lark, good for the ego like. Unfortunately I wasn't really into any of them so I didn't tick any boxes and as a result they gave me a free go the next time because I'd ticked nobody.

So the second time I went there about a month later were more people there, maybe 15 of each. So I'm there thinking I'm going to walk this easy (other guys were all nerdy, simpleton types) and got chatting to each of the girls in turn. Next day when I checked my ticks not a single one of them wanted to see me again. Owned. Ego battered. Must have come across a bit to cocky I reckon.

So there's another one in a few weeks time. Third time's the charm  :)
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 10, 2015, 04:43:07 AM
I did a bit of speed dating last year, went to a few events. First time I went there were 10 girls and 10 guys. 8 out the 10 girls wanted to see me again  8) so I thought fucking brilliant, I'm liking this speed dating lark, good for the ego like. Unfortunately I wasn't really into any of them so I didn't tick any boxes and as a result they gave me a free go the next time because I'd ticked nobody.

So the second time I went there about a month later were more people there, maybe 15 of each. So I'm there thinking I'm going to walk this easy (other guys were all nerdy, simpleton types) and got chatting to each of the girls in turn. Next day when I checked my ticks not a single one of them wanted to see me again. Owned. Ego battered. Must have come across a bit to cocky I reckon.

So there's another one in a few weeks time. Third time's the charm  :)

just ask loads of stuff about them

and maintain eye contact

you will get almost 100 percent

girls cant help falling for guys that appear interested in them
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: JasonH on January 10, 2015, 06:33:59 AM
just ask loads of stuff about them

and maintain eye contact

you will get almost 100 percent

girls cant help falling for guys that appear interested in them

Good advice, will take into the next session.

I think where it's going wrong isn't exactly my fault - I'd like to think I'm reasonably good looking, good physique, well-dressed etc, it's just that as soon as I open my mouth to chat to them my Scottish accent comes out and it makes me sound unique to everyone else. It's a good conversation starter but then they're asking me about my life story and how I came to be in England etc. By the time I'm finished with all that the four minutes is up and it's time to move on to the next one and I haven't asked them a single question about themselves. I think I need to keep it to a minimum and like you say, ask more about them.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: booty on January 10, 2015, 07:36:44 PM
I would feel uncomfortable doing speed dating. It sounds unnatural and forced. I would be guarded and would only make small talk during that 4 mins. I don't believe in dating anyway. You meet someone and then get to know them. If there's chemistry etc and it's meant to happen between you both then it will be.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 11, 2015, 06:31:17 AM
Good advice, will take into the next session.

I think where it's going wrong isn't exactly my fault - I'd like to think I'm reasonably good looking, good physique, well-dressed etc, it's just that as soon as I open my mouth to chat to them my Scottish accent comes out and it makes me sound unique to everyone else. It's a good conversation starter but then they're asking me about my life story and how I came to be in England etc. By the time I'm finished with all that the four minutes is up and it's time to move on to the next one and I haven't asked them a single question about themselves. I think I need to keep it to a minimum and like you say, ask more about them.

im a scot living in england

no one can understand a word im saying

and ive been here for years
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 11, 2015, 11:37:25 AM
I would feel uncomfortable doing speed dating. It sounds unnatural and forced. I would be guarded and would only make small talk during that 4 mins. I don't believe in dating anyway. You meet someone and then get to know them. If there's chemistry etc and it's meant to happen between you both then it will be.

Lee: Hey booty we have met before

Booty: Yes I dont like to talk about that

Lee: Well you dont want me to talk about chic and how they screwed me from the O do you, we already discussed that 500x

Booty: Quite, do you like my mascara

Lee: Yes but its not the best color on you

Booty: Lee, mascara only comes in black

Lee: Yes, but I thought a certain brown looked great on you

Booty: Erh, what?

Lee: Can we go into the disabled toilet to scat?

Booty: Im leaving right now

Lee: Can I come?

Booty: In your dreams

Lee: In my memories actually
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: booty on January 11, 2015, 05:16:15 PM
Lee: Hey booty we have met before

Booty: Yes I dont like to talk about that

Lee: Well you dont want me to talk about chic and how they screwed me from the O do you, we already discussed that 500x

Booty: Quite, do you like my mascara

Lee: Yes but its not the best color on you

Booty: Lee, mascara only comes in black

Lee: Yes, but I thought a certain brown looked great on you

Booty: Erh, what?

Lee: Can we go into the disabled toilet to scat?

Booty: Im leaving right now

Lee: Can I come?

Booty: In your dreams

Lee: In my memories actually
you are so juvenile. At least Lee can see his own cock.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 11, 2015, 10:49:15 PM
you are so juvenile. At least Lee can see his own cock.

You are suggesting that is one of his best attributes?
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: booty on January 11, 2015, 11:21:40 PM
You are suggesting that is one of his best attributes?
I am suggesting that you spend less time on here and more time in the gym training and kitchen cooking lean healthy meals.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: bigmc on January 12, 2015, 10:56:32 AM
I am suggesting that you spend less time on here and more time in the gym training and kitchen cooking lean healthy meals.

truth
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 12, 2015, 01:29:31 PM
I am suggesting that you spend less time on here and more time in the gym training and kitchen cooking lean healthy meals.

booty did you ever do a scene on the original milf hunter website, you look a bit like some of the chicks on that.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 12, 2015, 01:31:51 PM
I am suggesting that you spend less time on here and more time in the gym training and kitchen cooking lean healthy meals.

He'd still look like shit.

Take a pile of shit, make a Greek god statue out of it...it's still a pile of shit.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 12, 2015, 03:06:00 PM
He'd still look like shit.

Take a pile of shit, make a Greek god statue out of it...it's still a pile of shit.

Did you work in the family kebab shop when you went home at christmas?
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 12, 2015, 06:03:16 PM
Did you work in the family kebab shop when you went home at christmas?

Isn't your wife Sri Lankan?

I'd keep my mouth shut if I were you seeing as "kebab" jokes are closer to home than you think.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: booty on January 12, 2015, 06:56:23 PM
booty did you ever do a scene on the original milf hunter website, you look a bit like some of the chicks on that.
I look like me and nobody else. Stop talking shit... You are boring as hell.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 13, 2015, 04:43:15 AM
Isn't your wife Sri Lankan?

I'd keep my mouth shut if I were you seeing as "kebab" jokes are closer to home than you think.

Yeah but she isn't from some village family who emigrated to the north of England and started selling vegetables as a means of living.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 13, 2015, 06:01:13 AM
Yeah but she isn't from some village family who emigrated to the north of England and started selling vegetables as a means of living.

So you are selectively racist?

A hard working Sri Lankan migrant who decided to locate himself in the North and open up his own business selling groceries is beneath you and your wife?

 
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Donny on January 13, 2015, 06:20:07 AM
im a scot living in england

no one can understand a word im saying

and ive been here for years
where in Scotland are you from ? i am a Fifer but grew up near Stirling.
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Donny on January 13, 2015, 06:21:00 AM
...should add i donīt want to Date you .. ;D
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 13, 2015, 06:25:22 AM
So you are selectively racist?

A hard working Sri Lankan migrant who decided to locate himself in the North and open up his own business selling groceries is beneath you and your wife?
 

It's the uneducated village mentality that holds these places back
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: Skorp1o on January 13, 2015, 06:40:53 AM
Would you go and live there? I hear properties are dirt made cheap, but a solid investment return.

(http://mw2.google.com/mw-panoramio/photos/medium/57489613.jpg)
Title: Re: UK Dating scene
Post by: denarii on January 13, 2015, 06:56:44 AM
The renovated colonial villas are ok
http://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Hotel_Review-g293962-d665553-Reviews-The_Park_Street_Hotel-Colombo_Western_Province.html