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"High" Heels for Little Girls?
« on: January 17, 2010, 11:54:11 AM »
Doctors Debate Tots Teetering In High HeelsWorries Include Falls, Development, Appropriateness
JAMIE STENGLE, Associated Press Writer

POSTED: Thursday, January 14, 2010
UPDATED: 9:03 am EST January 14, 2010

DALLAS -- A pair of sparkly, peekaboo shoes with heels 2 inches high have been favorites of 6-year-old Helena Bell ever since she got them for a wedding.

"She's worn them to the point where the jewels have fallen off," says Helena's mother, Dana Bell of Woodland Hills, Calif. "It's not my preference, but I've stopped fighting it."

The heels aren't allowed at school, but the first-grader slips on her white treasures first thing when she gets home and wears them to church every Sunday. "I think if it's within reason, it's OK," her mom says.

As images of 3½-year-old Suri Cruise out and about in blingy heels recently hit magazines and the Internet, reactions to the grown-up look for not-so-old kids have ranged from cries of inappropriate to defense of a little girl's right to be girlie. Suri's mom, Katie Holmes, told Access Hollywood she considers the kitten heels supportive because they were made specifically for kids learning ballroom dancing.

Samantha Fein of San Jose, Calif., says her 6-year-old daughter has attracted some double-edge remarks -- "My, look at your big girl shoes" -- when she wears her knee-high boots with a 2-inch chunky heel or her brown wedges with only slightly less height. Fein notes that her child wears sneakers 90 percent of the time and heels on special occasions, like birthday parties.

"It's not like I'm sending her to the park in them," she says. "I think there's a time and a place for everything."

The San Francisco Bay area is pretty fashion forward, so it's not unusual to see girls that young wearing heels. Fein says they've helped her daughter learn to walk like a lady. "They're definitely not suggestive at all. Suggestive to me is inappropriate."

The phenom falls in line with other trends in clothing, books, music and movies once reserved for older audiences trickling down the age ladder.

As Christina Vercelletto, senior editor of Parenting magazine, has been putting together the spring fashion edition, she's noticed shoes for girls as young as 5 and 6 sporting heels as high as an inch.

"I am seeing these heeled shoes, shoes that would be considered a little too grown up typically for a girl that age," she says. "I think it's definitely a trend for 5- or 6-year-olds."

In years past, Vercelletto says, heels usually stopped at sizes for 8- or 9-year-olds. She unsuccessfully tried to nab a pair of stacked heel boots that arrived in a bag of hand-me-downs for her own 6-year-old but wasn't quick enough. Now, Vercelletto tries to keep them out of sight in the back of a closet.

"I do feel that it's rushing it a little to put a girl 3 years old in shoes like that," said Vercelletto, among those who fear the physical perils.

Unlike other trends, heels pose physical risks that include a tightening of the heel cord and changes in the growth plate.

Matthew Dairman, a Suffolk, Va., foot and ankle surgeon and a spokesman for the American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons, urges parents to limit wear to once or twice a week for four hours at a stretch -- if at all. Another important factor, he says, is difficulty in keeping kids from running, which could make those in heels more susceptible to ankle sprains or broken bones.

"You put a kid in a heel and someone touches them and says tag, they're it -- they're off," Dairman says. "Moderation is key."

Michael Penrod, a sales representative for children's footwear with a showroom at Dallas Market Center, a wholesale merchandise marketplace, says adult styles began surfacing in children's footwear a decade ago. While manufacturers do offer heels in sizes small enough to possibly fit a 3-year-old, stores are more likely to carry sizes meant from age 5 and up.

Heels for young girls get mixed reactions from buyers, with more interest from the coasts and bigger department stores.

"In the South, there's still a very traditional store owner that prefers the younger looking silhouettes," he says.

Jennifer Thomas, one of the owners of two Chicago-area children's shoe boutiques called Piggy Toes, says she doesn't carry heels for young girls.

"I just don't think they're age appropriate," says Thomas, who has a 10-year-old daughter she doesn't want to see in them. "As far as the customers, girls for sure love them. Mom usually doesn't want them."

Dr. James W. Brodsky, a Dallas orthopedic surgeon and past president of the American Orthopaedic Foot & Ankle Society, says healthy shoes for kids are similar to healthy shoes for adults -- not too high a heel, plenty of width in the toe box, soft natural materials to conform to the shape of the foot and good support.

Dairman does see some value in girls around 12 or so learning to wear heels, when their bones have developed. And while he doesn't think younger girls wearing heels is that widespread, "as kids seem to be aging quicker, it's something that should be addressed."

Lisa Spiegel, a counselor and director of Soho Parenting, a New York City parenting resource center, says worry about kids aging too fast is often on the minds of parents today. She says she hasn't noticed a prevalence of young girls wearing heels but does know parents contending with young girls wanting to wear makeup or dress in too-skimpy clothes.

"We really, really try to help families hold onto their better instincts that kids should be children and not little adults," she says.
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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2010, 08:46:54 AM »
Yes!! Women in heels! An excellent topic  :D Stilletos & long hot legs is what its all about!  :)

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #2 on: January 18, 2010, 09:41:27 AM »
Yes!! Women in heels! An excellent topic  :D Stilletos & long hot legs is what its all about!  :)

Something tells me you didn't read the article ;D
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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #3 on: January 18, 2010, 09:47:48 AM »
my 4 and half year old plays dress up in my stilletos but I would'nt buy her a pair of sensible high heels for her age unless she asked and she can wear them around the house or for a special occassion

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #4 on: January 18, 2010, 09:57:32 AM »
Something tells me you didn't read the article ;D
Nope...you got me...just thinking of women in heels now :) Tall or short. :)

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #5 on: January 18, 2010, 10:21:23 AM »
That little girl looks like she's on her way to cankles   ;D
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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #6 on: January 18, 2010, 03:19:45 PM »
Something tells me you didn't read the article ;D

There was an article?

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #7 on: January 19, 2010, 12:09:18 AM »
The Mother say's "It's not my preference, but I stop fighting it" WTF! You are THE PARENT, she is 6 YRS OLD!!! I can't stand this Babyboomer   Parenting...WHO runs Shit in this house, the kid or the mother? Bitch ass parents in America are part of the problem. You don't let you kids have everything they want.

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #8 on: January 19, 2010, 04:40:03 AM »
Parker I agree with you..Im the mom and dad...if she acts up, she gets a warning..then she gets a smack on the ass...no timeouts..flip that..I just have to give her the look and if I get up she stops whats shes doing

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #9 on: January 19, 2010, 05:49:17 AM »
Parker I agree with you..Im the mom and dad...if she acts up, she gets a warning..then she gets a smack on the ass...no timeouts..flip that..I just have to give her the look and if I get up she stops whats shes doing
that's good. Hopefully she'll grow up with a good head on her shoulders, and mom's looks.

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #10 on: January 19, 2010, 06:38:05 AM »
That little girl looks like she's on her way to cankles   ;D

lol

Maybe it's just the lighting
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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #11 on: January 19, 2010, 07:59:30 AM »
Parker I agree with you..Im the mom and dad...if she acts up, she gets a warning..then she gets a smack on the ass...no timeouts..flip that..I just have to give her the look and if I get up she stops whats shes doing

i think the occasional elbow or even knee off of a clinch will serve well too!

Hell we never got time out as a kid, it was smack "what are you stupid?" smack smack

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #12 on: January 19, 2010, 09:29:53 AM »
for the most part she is a great 4 and half year old..i dont coddle or tolerate meltdowns or fits..that crap gets a smack...a few times a month I help for a few hours in her head start school. Let me tell you, I took it with a grain of salt when her teachers said how well behaved she is, after seeing some of those monsters in her class makes me wonder. One girl bites the teacher and another hits them..not for nothing that crap must be allowed at home..

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #13 on: January 19, 2010, 09:30:50 AM »
P.S. thanks Parker for the compliment ;D

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Re: "High" Heels for Little Girls?
« Reply #14 on: January 24, 2010, 04:47:41 AM »
high heels for little girls...

thats just plain sad :-\
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