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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: usmcdevildoc on August 19, 2012, 06:41:40 PM
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Ladies:
How would address the issue if you found out that your bodybuilder boyfriend who already had a lot of personality issues was doing the G4P scene?
I mean like why the hell would anyone want to continue in a relationship like that? If a bodybuilder was dating a female bodybuilder how would one not know that issues of this nature were taking place? ENLIGHTEN ME ::)
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Regular straight dude here, but I once read an article that polled a bunch of women and asked them if their guy was cheating on them with another woman, would you take them back when you found out... It was about 90% said no they would not take him back.
In the same article they asked if he was cheating on them with a MAN and they found out, would you take them back... About 55% said YES, they would take them back.
I don't know what that means, but apparently a majority of women only care about cheating if it's with a female... If it's with a male, they can deal with it.
Seems odd, but that's what the poll had.
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That is odd Tu. :-\
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That is odd Tu. :-\
Maybe the women think they can "change him" back?
I am just telling you what I read.
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Maybe the women think they can "change him" back?
I am just telling you what I read.
You can't change a person so these women are wasting their energy and time.
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You can't change a person so these women are wasting their energy and time.
Not disagreeing... Just telling you what I read.
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Not disagreeing... Just telling you what I read.
I know Tu. :) Another theory is that maybe these women don't see men as competition to them? In other words they don't mind their guys sleeping with men cause it isn't another female. :-\ Messed up too.
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Ladies:
How would address the issue if you found out that your bodybuilder boyfriend who already had a lot of personality issues was doing the G4P scene?
I mean like why the hell would anyone want to continue in a relationship like that? If a bodybuilder was dating a female bodybuilder how would one not know that issues of this nature were taking place? ENLIGHTEN ME ::)
She'd be more pissed off about him keeping money he earned for himself instead of spending it on her.
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She'd be more pissed off about him keeping money he earned for himself instead of spending it on her.
Haha ;D It's all gross either way. I would rather a poor faithful man.
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Haha ;D It's all gross either way. I would rather a poor faithful man.
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Even Carlton and Collingwood fans agree on this.
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Even Carlton and Collingwood fans agree on this.
I know these are footy teams here. :-[ I don't follow football.
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I know these are footy teams here. :-[ I don't follow football.
I'm one of the few people outside AUS who follows that league. :D
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I'm one of the few people outside AUS who follows that league. :D
I don't mind watching some grit iron. :) I know that was totally random. HAHA ;D
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Ladies:
How would address the issue if you found out that your bodybuilder boyfriend who already had a lot of personality issues was doing the G4P scene?
I mean like why the hell would anyone want to continue in a relationship like that?
Some wouldn't have a problem w/it but I would. He would be gone.
If a bodybuilder was dating a female bodybuilder how would one not know that issues of this nature were taking place? ENLIGHTEN ME ::)
I was just talking to someone who competes frequently and they weren't clued in to some of this stuff so it does seem possible they aren't aware.
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How nasty is that?? The woman is gonna change the G4P bodybuilder? Right.
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I couldn't do it...it would hurt to much to know he was getting intimate with someone else...even if there wasn't an emotional connection behind it.
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I couldn't do it...it would hurt to much to know he was getting intimate with someone else...even if there wasn't an emotional connection behind it.
Same here BS. I would probably explode too...steam would be coming out of my ears!
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I used to date a female bb'er when the gym where we both worked out at. She was 5'9" and 179 and had a great face, great wide back and legs. Skinny shits thought she was a guy when the backside!
Bodybuilding glued our relationship together. We were animals in the gym and in the bedroom. So, one time a guy in the gym wanted to know if we were interested in doing vids together. I was surprised at the offer and we didn't need the cash that bad. Instead, we had jobs, did some personal training, etc., to make it in the sport.
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I used to date a female bb'er when the gym where we both worked out at. She was 5'9" and 179 and had a great face, great wide back and legs. Skinny shits thought she was a guy when the backside!
Bodybuilding glued our relationship together. We were animals in the gym and in the bedroom. So, one time a guy in the gym wanted to know if we were interested in doing vids together. I was surprised at the offer and we didn't need the cash that bad. Instead, we had jobs, did some personal training, etc., to make it in the sport.
so you are saying you regret not making the vid? Trying to piece the story together into something more interesting. Kidding...sorta.
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I used to date a female bb'er when the gym where we both worked out at. She was 5'9" and 179 and had a great face, great wide back and legs. Skinny shits thought she was a guy when the backside!
Bodybuilding glued our relationship together. We were animals in the gym and in the bedroom. So, one time a guy in the gym wanted to know if we were interested in doing vids together. I was surprised at the offer and we didn't need the cash that bad. Instead, we had jobs, did some personal training, etc., to make it in the sport.
You with the guy or you with the girl?
My Phreak got an offer to star ( ;D ) in a muscle bear video, but he didn't do it. I would have been supportive. Men are no rivals to me. Women on the other hand...
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Yeah seems like the same sex as yourself is more threatening
I.e. you're female and your partner is messing with a female is more threatening than you being female and your partner messing with a male
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Yeah seems like the same sex as yourself is more threatening
I.e. you're female and your partner is messing with a female is more threatening than you being female and your partner messing with a male
"What does she have, that I don't have?" You can get a whole list of what is not so perfect about you. At least, that how I would hear it.
"What does he have, that I don't have?" Well, that would be obvious...
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"What does she have, that I don't have?" You can get a whole list of what is not so perfect about you. At least, that how I would hear it.
"What does he have, that I don't have?" Well, that would be obvious...
Gee, bertha, what DOES he have that your partner doesn't have?! Hmmmm?? >:(
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"What does she have, that I don't have?" You can get a whole list of what is not so perfect about you. At least, that how I would hear it.
"What does he have, that I don't have?" Well, that would be obvious...
So cheating is "not" always cheating...
Interesting.
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Haven't a clue what G4P means (going for penis perhaps?), nevertheless I can post on this topic:
Straight female here...
I've just come back from a week in Amsterdam with Michael, a gay friend of mine from 25 years ago in Toronto (I live in London England now, so these days we meet up in Amsterdam or Paris every few years?
When I was 18 to 21, I lived with a young gorgeous man. I worked and paid the rent. I found out at the end that he was spending time with Michael. I threw the slut out and Michael and I became life-long friends. Michael tells me now that they didn't in fact have sex, they did too many drugs and danced and sweated half naked all night at the gay bar/disco then passed out (That was the 70's or 80's?
I never forgave the young gorgeous man. I chucked him out, he fucked off and went to hell. Since then, I've only looked upon men as travelling companions...
But as said above, I made a loving intense friendship with a dear funny homo. Michael owes me big time and repays me by taking me first class to Amsterdam and Paris..... I forgave him decades ago but he still wants to show me he's sorry and he's very very very rich nowadays, so good.
It rained in Amsterdam last week, I tried to download pix but it says file too large? it's all on my iphone?
Darlin? Make friends with your boyfriend's boyfriend and then tell your boyfriend to fuck right off
xLinda
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Wait so you had a boyfriend who fooled around with Michael....?
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a lot of personality issues
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That ought to have been your first clue
dump him, get out now
xL
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Wait so you had a boyfriend who fooled around with Michael....?
Na, 'twas the other way around? Michael tried to fool around with the man I was living with who then passed out having been up 3 days on MDA. Whatever. I never trusted a man after that nightmare.
Boyfriend of 3 years comes home at like 5am after staying away 2 nights high as a kite and I had to get up to go to work at 7am. Hugely offputting. Told him to pack his shit and take a hike.
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what's G4P?
why can't I post my iphone pix, they're too funny and so good
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G4P = Gay for Pay
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Na, 'twas the other way around? Michael tried to fool around with the man I was living with who then passed out having been up 3 days on MDA. Whatever. I never trusted a man after that nightmare.
Boyfriend of 3 years comes home at like 5am after staying away 2 nights high as a kite and I had to get up to go to work at 7am. Hugely offputting. Told him to pack his shit and take a hike.
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what's G4P?
why can't I post my iphone pix, they're too funny and so good
Why were you living with a man
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I think stuff got deleted because Mrs muscles either started off as a gimmick or became a gimmick
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you're loving the thread about me?
People don't think I'm real :-[
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you're loving the thread about me?
People don't think I'm real :-[
Don't worry about it, people think I'm a gimmick. Hell the same person coming after you thinks I'm a dude. ::) *shrugs* I guess its a gebig ritual to haze the noobs.
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Don't worry about it, people think I'm a gimmick. Hell the same person coming after you thinks I'm a dude. ::) *shrugs* I guess its a gebig ritual to haze the noobs.
*hug* but you've been here longer than I have! I think being here for nearly a year is pretty respectable
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People don't think I'm real :-[
people think I'm a gimmick.
I think you both are real. But what do I know? They think I'm Junior... ::)
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I think you both are real. But what do I know? They think I'm Junior... ::)
Didn't you die your hair lavender? Isn't that what's in your avi?
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Didn't you die your hair lavender? Isn't that what's in your avi?
Yes, that's me about 12 years back. I changed a lot since then.
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So what is it that attracts any of you to this site? Is it just one place among others that you read/post at, or what?
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I think you both are real. But what do I know? They think I'm Junior... ::)
haha, they think everyone relatively new is Joon. :P
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So what is it that attracts any of you to this site? Is it just one place among others that you read/post at, or what?
Hey Jack, I found it while I was looking for a weightlifting site to join so I could chat while I was getting back into lifting. Its kinda grown on me at this point. I know men find it odd but there are women who don't compete that actually like to lift. I'm one of those even though I thought about competing a few years ago.
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Hey Jack, I found it while I was looking for a weightlifting site to join so I could chat while I was getting back into lifting. Its kinda grown on me at this point. I know men find it odd but there are women who don't compete that actually like to lift. I'm one of those even though I thought about competing a few years ago.
LOL. There's just something about this place isn't there.
After the initial horrific shock wears off, ...it kinda grows on ya. :D
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Hey Jack, I found it while I was looking for a weightlifting site to join so I could chat while I was getting back into lifting. Its kinda grown on me at this point. I know men find it odd but there are women who don't compete that actually like to lift. I'm one of those even though I thought about competing a few years ago.
Seems like a lot of women these days lift, actually, but I know what you mean. Everyone's still behind the curve.
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Seems like a lot of women these days lift, actually, but I know what you mean. Everyone's still behind the curve.
Have you noticed more women starting to lift the past few years? When my mom was my age, she lifted at the Y, but she was the only woman EVER seen lifting. This was 30 years ago. Now, when I lifted at my college's gym and now lifting at a club, I see 2 other women lifting at the busier times. So maybe 80-90% men rather than 99% men 30 years ago.
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Have you noticed more women starting to lift the past few years? When my mom was my age, she lifted at the Y, but she was the only woman EVER seen lifting. This was 30 years ago. Now, when I lifted at my college's gym and now lifting at a club, I see 2 other women lifting at the busier times. So maybe 80-90% men rather than 99% men 30 years ago.
Definitely. You have to figure that if something's got addictive qualities to it, everyone is susceptible, lol.
(But it probably depends where you live/spend time. I could easily imagine places where women wouldn't want to start doing it by themselves, alone, for fear of bucking trends. But those that have gyms in their houses may do it there, too, you never know.)
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Most bodybuilder men have issues. Most of us are pigs. Most of high sex drives and need sex. I'm a happy musclepig.