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Getbig Female Info Boards => Open Talk for Girl Discussion => Topic started by: w8m8 on May 23, 2011, 10:21:05 AM
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from a piece in Esquire
Morning
First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.
After work
Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.
Night
Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.
Conclusion
Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.
I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal :)
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make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color.
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And if she's asleep,She'll hear you anyway.
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You girls are not kidding me.you love this and pretend you're asleep to see if the guy says's anything.
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You girls are not kidding me.you love this and pretend you're asleep to see if the guy says's anything.
no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills ;D
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no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills ;D
Uh? Did you say something, honey? ???
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no .. it's because we have excellent listening skills ;D
Yeah,thats why you give a little smile when you hear it......even though you're sleeping ;) ::)
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Uh? Did you say something, honey? ???
lol :D
Yeah,thats why you give a little smile when you hear it......even though you're sleeping ;) ::)
no
the smile is from the sweet dreams we get from having a man that whispers sweet nothin's to us even if we are sleeping ;D
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from a piece in Esquire
Morning
First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.
After work
Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.
Night
Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.
Conclusion
Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.
I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal :)
And what does she do? Last time i checked, a marriage is between two people...It's not like a man can't be neglected either...
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And what does she do? Last time i checked, a marriage is between two people...It's not like a man can't be neglected either...
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I said it should be reciprocal
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lol
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I said it should be reciprocal
It should be changed to reflect what a man needs...which is not to have one's hair stroked (what if one doesn't have hair?), and a snuggle...the 270 was written from a woman's perspective on what a man should do
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It should be changed to reflect what a man needs...which is not to have one's hair stroked (what if one doesn't have hair?), and a snuggle...the 270 was written from a woman's perspective on what a man should do
that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time :)
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wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon
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my buddy does this with his g/f...says "i know you need some attention so Im going to give you 90 secs of uninterrupted eye contact" lmao
always funny as ish
what was the womans list to do for a better marriage? lol
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wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon
HA HA !! :D
my buddy does this with his g/f...says "i know you need some attention so Im going to give you 90 secs of uninterrupted eye contact" lmao
always funny as ish
what was the womans list to do for a better marriage? lol
lolololerss ... these topics reinforce the reasoning behind me being a single recluse ;D
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wth 270 seconds...that's a freaking marathon
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I said it should be reciprocal
270 seconds of not talking to us sounds great ;D
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270 seconds of not talking to us sounds great ;D
not talking ... "sounds" great
::)
oh brother
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not talking ... "sounds" great
::)
oh brother
Why yes...yes it does ;D 8)
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lolololerss ... these topics reinforce the reasoning behind me being a single recluse ;D
LOL these topics and women who buy into them are the reason im single and content ;)
alas but soon I will be the only single guy left in my group of friends and then I will be forced to get into a serious relationship...waaa waaa waaaaaaaaah
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not talking ... "sounds" great
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oh brother
the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.
so....
w8m8, got some free time?
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that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time :)
I have to take my time...I'm thinking
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that's a fair statement .. so list what men would like for those 270 seconds .. split into 90 at a time :)
My understanding is that husbands are perfectly satisfied with only two things: sex and quiet. :-\
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the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.
lol! How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!
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lol! How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!
What do you mean "you people"? >:(
Sexist post reported! ;D
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the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.
so....
w8m8, got some free time?
:-* luv ya miglet ... between commercial breaks LOL
My understanding is that husbands are perfectly satisfied with only two things: sex and quiet. :-\
I like quiet .. but I can't always be quiet .. so I reckon it's good I don't have a husband to worry about :)
lol! How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!
or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out ::)
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:-* luv ya miglet ... between commercial breaks LOL
I like quiet .. but I can't always be quiet .. so I reckon it's good I don't have a husband to worry about :)
or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out ::)
luv ya back
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What do you mean "you people"? >:(
Sexist post reported! ;D
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or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out ::)
Exactly!
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I have to take my time...I'm thinking
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bump to check for any ideas yet :)
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bump to check for any ideas yet :)
Im a man, I have a lot to think about...but one is sprat my car, and keep the toilet seat up, another---keep gas in the lawnmower...all these take less than 270 secs
a note in my lunch, telling me how much I mean to you, or you appreciate me.
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bump to check for any ideas yet :)
i've got a few
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I love this....it's so romantic. I'm single but when I'm in a relationship I'll be showing the man this little tidbit and doing it myself.
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but one is sprat my car,
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from a piece in Esquire
Morning
First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.
After work
Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.
Night
Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.
Conclusion
Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.
I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal :)
this is dumb. i used to do all this crap and more as the awesome boyfriend i was. you know what?.. SHE was the one not doing this crap. not talk about kids, money, work??? DID SHE EVER TALK ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE??!? lololol
hilarity. my response to this is that whoever wants to have a good relationship should never, ever stop doing the things or being the way which started off the relationship in the first place. this trickery of women being or acting awesome for the first 6 months/year and then slacking off and basically turning into a lazy, nagging, sexless creature needs to go. any couple i know that is still together after any length of time it is usually because they stop that from happening.
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no offense to w8m8.. just esquire mag :)
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from a piece in Esquire
Morning
First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.
After work
Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.
Night
Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.
Conclusion
Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.
I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal :)
3 simple things that can really make a person feel good that people lack right there. Nice post W8M8 :)
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3 simple things that can really make a person feel good that people lack right there. Nice post W8M8 :)
:-* ... a minute and a half .. 3 x a day .. is not much at all .. and if it makes your loved one feel good it should be no biggie
god forbid if something ever happens to someone's mate .. the few minutes that may seem like a pain in the ass now .. would probably be a regret some would wish they could have back
I think about this young guy from American Idol .. and I bet he takes time to look in his girls eyes a lot .. thankful she is still here
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:-* ... a minute and a half .. 3 x a day .. is not much at all .. and if it makes your loved one feel good it should be no biggie
the few minutes that may seem like a pain in the ass now .. would probably be a regret some would wish they could have back
Am I the only one that thought this sounded naughty?
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Am I the only one that thought this sounded naughty?
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lol...nope....but if W8M8 is involved, then i'm game all the way! :D
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lol...nope....but if W8M8 is involved, then i'm game all the way! :D
i'll re-write the time and date this'll go down on the bathroom stall.
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HEY wait a minute ... what is going on some bathroom wall !!
the 90 second looking in eyes stuff would be GREAT !!!
give the men something useful to read while they're sat on the throne :D
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come here and let me butter your biscuits.
i nedd some romance in my life damnit :'(
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come here and let me butter your biscuits.
i nedd some romance in my life damnit :'(
mmmmm bisquits hot out of the oven .. with melting butter ..... yummmmmmmm ... wanna get some breakfast ? :D
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I just had a wedge of the best damn carrot cake I have ever tasted in my life.... :o
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I just had a wedge of the best damn carrot cake I have ever tasted in my life.... :o
LOVE carrot cake .. and banana bread too !!
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mmmmm bisquits hot out of the oven .. with melting butter ..... yummmmmmmm ... wanna get some breakfast ? :D
should i whisper in your ear or nudge you?
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should i whisper in your ear or nudge you?
I get up around 4:30 am to get ready for work ... what time do you have breakfast ready ?
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I get up around 4:30 am to get ready for work ... what time do you have breakfast ready ?
4:30! WTF!
it'll be ready by 5
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4:30! WTF!
it'll be ready by 5
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I left you a thank you note for the lovely breakfast .. on your night stand .. you were sound asleep and I didn't want to wake you :-*
Hope you have a GREAT day Miglet !!!
BTW .. you're out of lotion ;D
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I left you a thank you note for the lovely breakfast .. on your night stand .. you were sound asleep and I didn't want to wake you :-*
Hope you have a GREAT day Miglet !!!
BTW .. you're out of lotion ;D
marry me.
p.s. that wasn't lotion
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spray my car (wit water), I was typing on a iphone...