Personally, I favor the V taper more than anything else...a nice, wide, thick back and a small, tight waist.
Part of getting a good V taper is having a nice thick chest too. A balanced physique is indeed ideal, so delts are important, but they don't need to be huge to attain a shape that I think is most attractive.
And yeah, you will prolly get more responses if this is on the Open Talk board, cuz not as many women post on this board as that board.
I'll move it.