How old are you? I, too, loved the chase throughout all of my 20s and 30s. But once I turned 40, I thought it'd be kinda sad to keep playing out the same old game. Got married (even though I also have no interest in having children) and the last dozen years with my wife have been awesome.
I'm 45.
Been chasing women all over the world for 20 years now.
It's not sad to be happy, but i understand your point of view. Many people see my lifestyle as shallow and unfulfilling, but every single day of my life is like being on vacation. No stress, no drama, no attachment. I grew up on a farm with like 30 family members, so my upbringing is very different than most.
I've had many relationships that last a year or two, but they always turn into the same thing.
I'm a very independent person. An introvert that travels the world in search of new beginnings and experiences. I've lived in 7 different Countries. Pre-Covid i would spend 2 months a year just traveling alone. Most people haven't experienced a tenth of what i have. The people i've met, the places i've been. I have a very different thought process on most things.
I don't like being tied down to anything, i've always been this way.
To be fair, my current GF has been good to me for the last 18 months and i never cheated on her. But she wants to get married, live together and have kids. All three of these are deal breakers and she knows it, so she backs off. She is also a lot younger than me.
Based on my life and what i know, it's my choice to me happy doing what i want in life. I choose to live this way.
Maybe 5-10 years from now that will change.
I have no problem with normal people with wives and kids. I've never met a women who i could see myself getting married to or "settling" down with. My GF is a sweetheart and an amazing person, but i know that will change one day. Maybe it won't? She might be the one. I don't know.
