This 'incel' subculture has some of the funniest terminology I've ever read. I remember two of them arguing about whether or not some extremely good-looking celebrity was actually a 'Chad-lite', and one got pissed off and called the other guy a 'prey-eyed coper', lol.
I always assumed it was a joke with the whole 'is it over for me? Should I flush myself?' stuff, but it must actually be extremely damaging for young boys (and girls) to become so fixated on the subtleties of their features. Sadly, though, I do think that a lot of what they say does have the virtue of being true.