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A neighbour who has become a good friend of mine for the past 4 years told me Wednesday that she had sex last week with her best friend's husband.
I'm extremely distraught about this. Why did she tell me? I know the couple, I know Tish's best friend Kate and I also know her partner Patrick. They've been together for 15 years and Tishy tells me she bonked Patrick whilst drunk the other day. I cannot bear it, it does my head in. I don't know what to say or do. I'm so upset. It's like what you see on tv on a soap opera, I honestly didn't think that real live people in my life would act so disgracefully.
I'm flabbergasted, wondering whether Kate will come round and kill Tish. She should, I would..... My best friend fucks my husband of 15 years? How could she? No matter how drunk she was she has no excuse, it's evil behaviour and is totally unforgiveable.
I cannot talk about it (I've only told my Mum, trying to laugh about it, but really I can't, it's such horrific behaviour.
I do not want to see Tish anymore and she was such a great friend/neighbour, such fun. But I'm blown away. What a disgusting person. I'm so upset. I've not seen Patrick or Kate for a few months so now I cannot get in touch with them as friends anymore because of this horrific situation I wish I didn't know about.
Advice please?
How ought I converse with Tish from now on? She's my nextdoor neighbour so I can't just ignore her, especially as I feel like punching her but what should I do what can I say? It's been two days since she told me (we had a nice meal and a drinky poo or 3 in my garden which I won't be inviting her to do again, she drank too much and blurted this horrific news.
Help and advise me please Girly Disscussors?
ta
xLinda
London England
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Well, it's not your place to share the news. If anything, the husband who cheated should tell his wife. The woman who "helped" him cheat really shouldn't say anything, either.
She shared this with you because she feels guilty. Not much to do about something that's been done. Talk to her more about it. If she was a good friend I don't think you should abandon her for doing this...just keep her away from your partner :P
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Linda, this is not your problem. Your part is only that you involuntarily heard this confession. So take a deep breath and try to shake it off.
You could suggest your neighbour to do something about her being drunk and stupid. But stay nice to the other couple. If you behave resentful, it'll make things weird.
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Linda, this is not your problem. Your part is only that you involuntarily heard this confession. So take a deep breath and try to shake it off.
You could suggest your neighbour to do something about her being drunk and stupid. But stay nice to the other couple. If you behave resentful, it'll make things weird.
oh babes thank you thanks that's exactly what I thought and what I needed to hear xxx
I have avoided her I cannnot talk to her yet till I .... get over being weirded out over a soap opera happening next door to me. I almost expected Kate to rock up with a gun and kill Tisha and all the helicopters above and the rest.
It's a full moon ecplisce and you can I read, see it in America and Australia but not not here in UK. It's nice here tho'
Wish me luck, I'm avoiding Tishy, I don't put up with fools, although I've been one, I'm learning
xxx
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Well, it's not your place to share the news. If anything, the husband who cheated should tell his wife. The woman who "helped" him cheat really shouldn't say anything, either.
She shared this with you because she feels guilty. Not much to do about something that's been done. Talk to her more about it. If she was a good friend I don't think you should abandon her for doing this...just keep her away from your partner :P
Sorry darlin' but this is my place.
This Girly Board on GetBig is MY place.
This is where we do news we can't tell anyone else?
I've never done guilt so I won't put up with it and your advice that I talk to her is complete rubbish. I cannot talk to her, she's tried to come round (she lives upstairs next door) and I pretended I was busy. Abandon her? I'm not even involved in this, I'm keeping my head down and am just out in my back garden. Yet I feel fucked up. How dare she?
>>>I want it to kick off, I want Kate to find out, I want this nasty evil secret to come out. I want to not know
I've always believed and known that men will fuck anything and you have to fend them off. I've gone there once or a few times, I nearly got married once. I've been promiscuous, I've done one night stands and loved them.
But I have never done a married man and am still feeling sick that I know someone and still must continue to know a woman who would screw her best friend of 20 years's hubby.
I need more advice please
xxxLinda
London England
Happy Full Moon Eclipse[/size][/size][/size][/color]
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I meant, it's not your place to share the news with other people in real life. Didn't mean to be ambiguous
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I have avoided her I cannnot talk to her yet till I .... get over being weirded out over a soap opera happening next door to me. I almost expected Kate to rock up with a gun and kill Tisha and all the helicopters above and the rest.
It's unlikely there would be a killing. Unfortunately I've been through a few cheatings, on both sides. Never cheated myself, but was cheated on.
Two seperate guys I've dated "forgot" to mention they were already in a relationship. So, unknowingly, I was the girl they cheated with. Broke the whole thing off when I found out.
A relation with another guy got a bit more serious, untill I found out he cheated... with at least 7 other women! Boy, did I feel stupid! But killing someone? No way!
Go talk to your neighbour. You do not have to agree with what she did. Avoiding here like that is weird, and you not would keep up with it. Eventually you will have to talk, to get it out of your system. Better now than over a few weeks or months when it's fermented into a bigger problem.
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It's unlikely they'll kill each other? You haven't met Kate. She's one feisty woman. I've only partied with her once or twice. She used to be an actress on a soap opera called Brookside, then went on to the front page of the Daily Star for running a brothel. I wouldn't put it past her to get a gun and kill everyone including me. I'm keeping schtum.
Sorry about the mad colours and huge fonts, I can't see anymore I need big magnifying glasses. I'm going blind.
Ya here's t'update: I spoke to Tish she phoned 17x (I avoided her for 3 days) and I told her she was a bitch cow and I said that I used to love her but can no longer
She said let's not argue and I said I can never trust you now and she hung up. She phoned me straight back and had a rant.
I said I haven;'t told anyone I'm scared shit of the fallout how dare you tell me and she said oh Linda I love you so everything's okay
Not
I'm staying indoors and just doing my private little garden on my own. Those ridiculous horrid nextdoor neighbours can just carry on.
Thanks for being there
xL
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I meant, it's not your place to share the news with other people in real life. Didn't mean to be ambiguous
thanks so much for a hugh big laugh TEH, you so get it xL
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It is an odd spot to be in.
I personally know of an incident where a single woman went out with a single guy... They went back to the single woman's house with a MARRIED female friend and the single people started doing the nasty.
When the dude would pull out, the MARRIED female would proceed to suck the guy off.
The married woman's husband still doesn't know and I keep my mouth closed because the single female told this to me and it's not my place to talk about such things. (The married male who doesn't know is quite a good friend of mine)
I think it's disgusting and outrageous... more so because I can't believe the married couple wouldn't have talked about their individual sexual needs at some point.... That's the misery of it.
None the less, I know and I stay quiet...
It will be better for all parties involved if you act like you don't know anything about any of it... You didn't hear anything and you don't know anything.
Now... if something pops off in the future... You can always use it as leverage and that's sometimes the best way to go about it.
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ya baby that's what I was telling myself: Maybe they're 10 or 20 years older than me and all hippies free love and orgies and mad drugs from way back. ~Maybe they all fuck each other all the time silly?
but it's not that: It was like my new best girlfriend of 4 years, a neighbour who is a daft funny mad slut. Last year she had a hip replacement then a few months later she's bonking her upstsairs 30 something year old neighbour which I couldn't deal with either. He's moved away thankfully. I'm well out of this. I seem to remember there was something else I didn't like about her, like the way she smells and the way she eats which disgusted me anyways. I'm over it. I trusted her implicitly and can never again. I made her food and the way she eats made me want to barf. I already wanted to not see her anymore, so this takes the biscuit. xL
or as you say in your country, how the cookie crumbles
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i need still vent... I'm keeping it all in >>>more happens every day, this is the middle of Central London and it's whacky
Yesterday I went to my corner shop and on the way passed by Patrick. I'm all smiley nice hello Good Afternoon? He starts shouting at me in full daylight outside my house. I kept going, hearing him spout bitch cow slut crack whore and all the rest, I kept going down the road to the shop.
I have always been more than nice to him, yet he attacks me verbally, shouts at me. I cannot go out now or ever if shit like him happens. Tishy must've told him she told me. Oh fuck off the lot of you.
I have done nothing wrong. Obviously he hit on me 20x but I said no thank you darlin' politely. I think they're all psychotic, the whole lot of them, everyone but me is mad x
Happy Full Moon Eclipse
ps: I am not or ever have been a bitch or a cow or slut (ok maybe once) or ever a whore and I wouldn't do crack if you paid me ( I just wanted to clarify that I was verbally abused...
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Wait... He cheats and he calls you something derogatory?
Fuck that guy.
You have done nothing wrong and you stayed out of it. You didn't even tell his wife.
You should go find him and tell him in the middle of everyone that you didn't want to know. You didn't need to know. If his whore Tish hadn't told you then you wouldn't know.
If he wants to be pissed then go be pissed at her big mouth.
You aren't in involved.
And while you are at it, you kindly explain to him that if he ever yells at you again that you will cut his balls off.
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i'm all on my own here, you want to send Tishmess or Patrickpig a text? Think not. I'm a 5'6" woman alone?
I'm scared of Tishy's lack of morals, she's obviously evil horrid, let alone mad Patrick who's gone rampant.
I'm locking all my doors and windows and staying well away for a good few weeks...
I hope I never see Kate, the one who has been wronged, I'd break down in tears xL
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i'm all on my own here, you want to send Tishmess or Patrickpig a text? Think not. I'm a 5'6" woman alone?
I'm scared of Tishy's lack of morals, she's obviously evil horrid, let alone mad Patrick who's gone rampant.
I'm locking all my doors and windows and staying well away for a good few weeks...
I hope I never see Kate, the one who has been wronged, I'd break down in tears xL
I don't think you should be afraid... I'd be insanely pissed if someone did that to me.
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Ta for understanding. I got a bit pissed but didn't go insane.
Told Tish what I thought of her. Told her (making her a cup of tea) that I will never get drunk or even imbibe a sip with her ever again. She was drunk when she told me and me all ears. I will never do that again.
I gave her a bit of my mind yesterday, told her she freaked me out (when she told me she bonked her best friend's husband she sounded to me as if she was bragging about it, it was disgusting). Kate her exbest friend hasn't found out yet. I have only told one person other than GetBig, my old mate in Canada and he told me to not make moral judgements.
So I think about that: But surely the way I've learned how to live is by judging others' actions? I've never done anything which could hurt anyone else
I only hurt myself. I had a bit of a conniption about this but am now okay about it. Just will stay away from her untill it all blows over.
It's not about me, it's about those three and the fallout will be massive.
It's just hurt me enormously, my trust is again damaged. I used to love her, thought she was wonderful. But she's not.
xxxLinda
take care
stay safe
honestly I'm still flipping out about this mad sad cow bitch slut neighbour, I've avoided her, pretending I'm far too busy all hours. She's been phoning 10x a day and I text her back and say I'm doing something else.
I saw Patrick on the road two days ago and he screamed at me, then kept going after verbally being abusive. I was speechless.
I didn't tell him I've been told, Tish has obviously done that, or else he's mad guilty and knows that women will know. I wish I had not been told. I'm staying indoors and doing my back garden and then doing some choclate and eggs and a daft bonnet or my funny bunny ears and staying indoors. I daren't go out, these people scare me.
Wish me luck.
I do not suffer fools and they're all fools. Leave me alone >>> I really really don't want to hear about your evil goings-on, homewrecker
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Wow this is heavy. Don't have advice but the fact that it bothers you so much just shows that you're a good person and have a sense of morality and loyalty.
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Maybe it's just me. Perhaps I'm just making it heavy. I'm an all or nothing kind of person...
Loyalty? That's wrecked. I can no longer trust or be loyal to Tish. That's over. She's completely trashed my understanding of others.
xxx
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Maybe it's just me. Perhaps I'm just making it heavy. I'm an all or nothing kind of person...
Loyalty? That's wrecked. I can no longer trust or be loyal to Tish. That's over. She's completely trashed my understanding of others.
xxx
No it's heavy, I wouldn't say you're blowing out of proportion. Sense of loyalty I was referring to was the sense of loyalty expected in a romantic relationship meaning you're not the cheating type.
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Ive been in a similar spot. It made me feel slimy knowing someone I thought was a good person ruined his wife and kids life over pussy. Pathetic.
I also remember feeling pissed that he put that weight on me. I mean shit, that's what priest are for. Go to confession and sort out your shit privately.
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Yep, pathetic drunk pussy. What's really mad is that Patrick told me a few months ago that he couldn't possibly go there, being that Tish was/is Kate's best friend. He told me he's had plenty of opportunity, Tisha is a mad drunk. He said he couldn't and wouldn't. I said good on you.
One time he carried Tish up the stairs outside here on the street to her flat from mine, she was that drunk. But he left her that time.
She was asking for it I've decided.
Then they go do it
I need to get a new life and new friends and stop OCDing about this horrific madness......
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Hah. He knew what was coming. He put himself in that situation to be seduced, most likely.
Who has kids of those involved?
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ooooh thanks boobs for getting all of the ramifications...
I had thought to post that thankfully none of any of them have reproduced. Thank fuck for that.
xxxLinda
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ooooh thanks boobs for getting all of the ramifications...
I had thought to post that thankfully none of any of them have reproduced. Thank fuck for that.
xxxLinda
Well, he told you about his "concerns" going over to her house when she was drunk. He knew cheating wouldn't be unlikely.
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When I concluded the conversation with Tishy I didn't want to have but had to do the other day after she'd rang my doorbell a hundred times at all hours and I'd not answered and she'd telephoned me 50 times, I said :
>>>Look maybe it's best I that I pretend to think that you are all a bunch of hippies from way back, all on mad drugs having orgies every night, I don't want to know...
I doubt she got my sense of humour, she's obviously stupid, but I left it on a silly note.
It's just that I cannot stop thinking of Kate, the wronged woman, lovely Kate, the person whose 'best friend' bonked her hubby....
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I have to be honest.
The way they been to you. I would tell Kate.
Unfortunately she may not believe you.
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If you choose to tell Kate, I don't think the choice should be made in order to get revenge for ill treatment.
If you tell her, tell her because you sincerely believe she would want to know.
I think I have a bit of an idea what you might be experiencing. I too had a friend who was messing around with a mutual friend's boyfriend. The situation was a little different though in that I was not required to keep their secret. I only found out AFTER our mutual friend T found out. She was slightly psychic, and received a flash of insight. She walked out of her apartment, marched 3 flights up, to P's apartment, and started banging on the door. No answer. Then she announced "I know you're both in there, and I know what you're both doing, and I'm not leaving until you come out, ...so you might as well come out and face the music." Knowing her tenacity, both of them decided to open the door and face the music. Meanwhile, I was completely oblivious to all the drama that was taking place 7 floors below me.
When I did find out, I had a very difficult time dealing with it myself, and it took me a long time to trust P again.
It took me a very long time to both forgive and trust P again, but I figured if T could forgive her, it wasn't my place to hold it against her. Although if looks could kill, she would have died that night when she started flirting with my boyfriend.
EDIT: Wild tangent deleted... The point I was trying to make is how disruptive to a friendship that kind of betrayal of trust can be.
To this day, I still don't know if I can really trust her in that regard.
Anyway, I digress, and you've got me off on a tangent. Suffice to say, only tell Kate for Kate.
Forget Tish or Patrick, and just be the friend who truly has her back.
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24k, what WAS he into?
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24k, what WAS he into?
Made me curious, too.
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24k, what WAS he into?
Made me curious, too.
Ladies, ...can you keep a secret?
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Ladies, ...can you keep a secret?
Lol who are we going to tell. These are fictional people, for all we know.
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Lol who are we going to tell. These are fictional people, for all we know.
Can you keep a secret?
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Can you keep a secret?
pinky promise
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pinky promise
So can I. :-X
I can keep a secret ...to the grave, and I intend to. :D
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So can I. :-X
I can keep a secret ...to the grave, and I intend to. :D
that was so mean :'(
i wanna know secrets :'(
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that was so mean :'(
i wanna know secrets :'(
Sorry, ...some secrets are just too embarrassing to share. :-[
I knew I was gonna have a problem with the relationship when I realized I was too embarrassed to be with him.
He was soooo cute. Drop dead gorgeous, sharp dresser, and had a smile that could melt the arctic tundra.
He'd smile and it would be all over. He had that effect on women. Throw in the fact that at 28, he owned his own brokerage firm, as well as his own insurance company, ...and had a Platinum Amex card, and he was considered quite the little catch, ...but I dreaded the thought of people knowing we were together.
I had a girlfriend from South America who was head over heels in love with him.
He and I were holding hands while making our way through the crowd at Stilife (a nightclub) one night when she spotted us. I ran into her at a Yorkville café the next day, and she was practically in tears as she was telling me how crazy she was over him, and how lucky she thought I was to be with him. She even admitted she sometimes used to go to Bemelman's (a trendy Bloor street restaurant at the time) just to sit and stare at him. She had it baaaaad! Now if there is one thing I know, is that any woman that far gone on a man, is a woman who either has been, or could easily be, intimate with that man, at the drop of a hat. All he'd have to do is snap his fingers, and she'd be his. There was no doubt in my mind that if he wanted her in his bed, she'd be there at the drop of a hat, ...if she hadn't been already. She was a fiery, adventurous, open minded, passionate Latina with a wild side, and an even wilder body. Picture a woman with the face of Megan Fox, and the body and personality of Sophia Vergara. As she was pouring out her angst to me, ...all I could think of was "Oh my God, what if Gabriella has already slept with him? What if she sleeps with him in the future? She's gonna know what I might have engaged in!!!"
When contemplating the possibility of a boyfriend potentially cheating on you, and your immediate thoughts and primary concerns are about YOUR sexual privacy rather than any lack of fidelity on his part, ...you know you have a problem, and you really shouldn't be doing what you've been doing. :P
Then too, he once offered to hook me up with his ex. A girlfriend he'd lived with for two years, and with whom he was still on good terms. His ex was one of the top Casting Directors in the city at the time, and here I was declining his offer to give me an 'IN' with her. All i kept thinking was 'HELL NO!' They didn't date casually, they'd lived together for two years. TWO YEARS!!! There is no way on God's green earth they could have lasted that long, and set up house together, unless she was doing something to keep him happy, ...and I knew exactly what it was that made him happy. That mean't I would know what she was doing, or into, in her private life. I only had to put myself in her position for a split second to realize that anyone with that kind of knowledge would not be someone who stood a very good chance of living out the weekend. lol. In fact, in my estimation, she'd probably see it as a time to start interviewing hit men.
In hindsight, it really wasn't all that "bad", it was kind of fun, a little exciting at first. A bit of a novelty, and very liberating & uninhibiting, ...at first. But then I realized that what was an uninhibiting novelty for me, was a necessity for him. That was the part I couldn't get past. The idea that this novelty item was not to be an occasional appetizer as I first thought, but would infact be the staple and main course of our intimate life was just a little too much for me. The novelty wore off real quick, and I cringed at the thought of a steady diet of it. I needed to get out and get out fast. Ah...but he was soooo pretty. What can I say, ...I have a weakness for masculine pretty boys, ...but sometimes a girls just gotta draw the line. ;D
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PM me aaaaall the secrets! :D
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PM me aaaaall the secrets! :D
If I did that, ...I'd have to have you whacked.
Tell you what, ...first let me line up a hit man, then we meet.
I'll reveal my little secrets to you, ...then step out of the room while the hit man takes care of you.
Deal?
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[size=16pt]keep a secret?[/size]
I have kept it secret other than chatting on here and have stayed away and concentrated on nice stuff like gardening. It is not my place, no way, to tell Kate. It hurts me too much and it'll ruin Kate's life? 15 years of her trust in both her partner and her supposed best friend utterly shattered? Horrific.
Thanks so much for your advice and knowledge about this mad situation.
I've stayed away from Tish my neighbour (which saddens me, but I must) and saw Patrick (the bloke who has proven to me, yet again for the 1000th time, that men'll fuck anything) on the road yesterday and he said ''call a truce?' and I said ''I feel sorry for Kate and no longer see Tish, well done" and kept going up the road home...
24kt I know you I must do? I lived in TO/YYZ from 1970 (I emigrated there from England with my family as a child) till 1986 and was there at the opening and then regularly closed Bemelmen's. I was so hot when I was extremely young and beautiful...
You and I speak the same lingo. But that was all 25+ years ago... You are sounding like someone I used to know...
Either that or you're an old reinstated Girly Getbig personality? Are you Jag?
xxxL
end of thread ya?
I'm not getting drunk with Tish ever again (I took a pot of tea, two mugs, milk and sugar on a tray up to the stoop to sit with her last time she rang my doorbell. She will never be welcome in my home or my gorgeous back garden ever again. But I gave in and went and sat there out front with her and did a pretend smile, called her a drunken slut and explained that I'll never drink alcohol with her again). Sorted.
Still bothers me but I'll get over it shortly.
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I have kept it secret other than chatting on here and have stayed away and concentrated on nice stuff like gardening. It is not my place, no way, to tell Kate. It hurts me too much and it'll ruin Kate's life? 15 years of her trust in both her partner and her supposed best friend utterly shattered? Horrific.
Thanks so much for your advice and knowledge about this mad situation.
I've stayed away from Tish my neighbour (which saddens me, but I must) and saw Patrick (the bloke who has proven to me, yet again for the 1000th time, that men'll fuck anything) on the road yesterday and he said ''call a truce?' and I said ''I feel sorry for Kate and no longer see Tish, well done" and kept going up the road home...
24kt I know you I must do? I lived in TO/YYZ from 1970 (I emigrated there from England with my family as a child) till 1986 and was there at the opening and then regularly closed Bemelmen's. I was so hot when I was extremely young and beautiful...
You and I speak the same lingo. But that was all 25+ years ago... You are sounding like someone I used to know...
Either that or you're an old reinstated Girly Getbig personality? Are you Judi/Jag?
xxxL
end of thread ya?
I'm not getting drunk with Tish ever again (I took a pot of tea, two mugs, milk and sugar on a tray up to the stoop to sit with her last time she rang my doorbell. She will never be welcome in my home or my gorgeous back garden ever again. But I gave in and went and sat there out front with her and did a pretend smile, called her a drunken slut and explained that I'll never drink alcohol with her again). Sorted.
Still bothers me but I'll get over it shortly.
Yes Linda, I thought you knew I'm Jag. I don't know if we've ever met, ...I think chances are highly likely we may have. I know we almost met in 1985. I was suppose to work on that Frank Stallone film, but backed out at the last minute. We could have met around Yorkville. btw - do you still have that video link to the YouTube video I sent you? I've been trying to find it for a few years now and haven't been able to.
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nope Jag, I didn't clock that it was you until just now, I wasn't paying that much attention until you started posting paragraphs and I then suddenly knew it had to be you...
xL
what clip did you send me Jag? I don't really do clips
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end of thread. Tishy went away to the countryside for a week, good for her, I hope she goes and thinks and recognises her evil ways. I will be civil to her in future but nothing more. Patrick was manly egofest nice(ish) to me on the road the other day, but I was with a bloke neighbour so he had to be.
I haven't seen Kate and if I do I'll talk to her about the Lilacs and Rhodedendrons and the Lillies all coming up, I'll pretend to not know diddly squat. It's highly unlikely that she'd talk to me about her personal life, I've only met her two or three times. I'll just act silly and zip my lips and stay away from the probable fallout. I might give her a hug and walk away. I hope I don't run into her, I hope I don't see her. I'd have to smile and keep going. I feel so very sorry for Kate.
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I didn't clock that it was you until just now, I wasn't paying that much attention until you started posting paragraphs and I then I suddenly knew it had to be you...
xL
what clip did you send me
That's ok, I found it again. It is one of the most beautiful love letters to Toronto I've seen.
It was a video posted by a Filipino man who accidentally found himself stuck in Toronto for a year.
He ended up falling in love with the place. I love the video, it brings back many happy memories,
...and of course, some of my old haunts are no more... Bistro 990, The Sutton Place Hotel... both gone now :'(
See if this brings back any memories...
A Year in Canada: It Feels Good, and It's Beautiful
and of course, there's this one that is bound to bring back memories for you :)
Find Yourself in People City
No Torontonian from back in those days can forget this
PS: No, I'm not Teh Boob
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Yeah I joined in October or so. Yeah women's board was dead, I posted only in g&o up til a month or two ago
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That neighbour/friend of mine yesterday checked into AA re-hab... Good for her
(I'd stayed away from her and just been civil/polite/gotta-go-now to her for 3 months?
So that's the answer is it? Shoddy pile of crap she is, hope she repents. Hope she suffers withdrawal. AA? You went and fucked your best friends' hubby you nasty drunken drugged slut. Or you allowed him to fuck you. Whatever. You disgust me
I'll be here when you get out. I feel so sorry for you you sad cow. There's no way I could've helped you so I didn't. I was here, you were over there.
Women like you give women a bad name you slag from hell.
I've realised that I honestly don't care about their nasty behaviour, carry on you lot, if you want.
What I object to is that she had to tell me and wrecked my friend/neighbour/female friend trust thing Don't know why I bother caring really
xL
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And no, I didn't tell Kate. I hardly know her. She's going through a really bad patch. Not only has her live-in partner fucked her best friend, her mum died recently and so now she's coping with that, not knowing the rest.
I hate it when I see her going to that slut what fucked her hubby and crying on her shoulder, trusting her
I'm best out of this crap situation, I'm not saying nowt to noone. I was going to send Kate sympathy flowers but I didn't. xL
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What truly honestly irks me is that I thought I'd found a really good friend: Tishy is Pisces/Monkey, same as me only exactly 12 years older. She's supposed to be my me if you believe all that astro stuff? She's like a hippy from way back. She wears purple and turquoise like me. Even better than me. Gives (or gave) great hugs, I miss her. Ought I forgive her?
Should I talk to her about her horrid behaviour when she gets out of rehab? I'm thinking Kate knows Patrick regularly errs, he came on to me big time at least 20 times and it was difficult to tell him to just stop it please. So I must forgive Tish. Kate may never find out. That'd be fantastic wouldn't it?
madly
xL
I should just phone her shouldn't I, whilst she's in rehab, she'll have her mobile phone with her won't she? I ought attempt to help, I should ask how she is?
I should, instead of putting it all off and writing on an online forum? I feel so sorry for Tishy. Daft woman
na, I'll just turn off my computer and go to bed.
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Purple may quite possible be the least flattering color anyone can wear.