lol i hear ya. so when people say focus on inclines, how does this hold true?
if you should only do one incline movement, how can one focus on upper chest?
obviously you can start out with inclines, but you have an interesting yet obvious point nonetheless 
You put a lot of hard work into that exercise and it will yield results.
I know you dude,you worry a lot................give it an honest effort,bust balls in the gym,and above all,,give it a little time.
After you train,reflect on your workout and honestly ask yourself if you really put your heart and sould into every single rep.........if the answer is no,try harder next time and so on until you can honestly say you gave it 110 % .
It takes time and intensity of effort to bring up lagging bodyparts.....it won`t come overnight but it`ll come over time !!
