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Title: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:07:08 AM
When you get loads of stupid shit from sad men do you respond?

Is there an unwritten code here?
Am I rude if I just ignore them all as I have done forever?

Sometimes when it says 6 new messages and one is particularly irksome, I get this sudden urge to reply immediately.  But I don't...

What do you do?

~flower~ gets Toxi's phone number and the rest just flirt? 
Only kidding, this is a serious question

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Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Al-Gebra on June 26, 2007, 09:19:30 AM

you can post them here for the rest of us to enjoy.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:24:59 AM
Yep, I obviously thought of that.  But since someone (allegedly perhaps AS) did that to me on the first night I was here in a panic whilst in the middle of a meltdown I decided it wasn't a very nice thing to do.

xL

I'm serious now.  Am I supposed to respond to pm's?
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 09:25:23 AM
If someone is bothering you, you can always block them from being able to pm you.

  Or ignore them.   It's like having caller ID.    ;D



 Or if they are really funny, you can post them, with or without the name removed!
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:29:21 AM
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Hey Linda, my name's Greg and I wanted to ask you a couple questions if you don't mind. If i'm trying to maintain a tan, should a use a moisturizer (vaseline cocoa butter unless you recommend a better one) once or twice a day. Also should I be using a specific brand of soap for my face and body so it won't wash away my tan fast? Oh one more thing, does using a loofa make your tan fade faster ?

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Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:32:17 AM
that's the lamest, silliest and least offensive one
xL

am I meant to tell him something?


the rest are profane or mad and I will not post them.

Pray explain this to me?
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 09:32:46 AM

 lol!!   I wonder why he asked you that?  Did you reply?   ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Al-Gebra on June 26, 2007, 09:33:22 AM
yeah, that last one is n't really doing anything for me. post the other ones, and don't leave their names off. it's a getbig tradition.

how about you post some of mine?
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:43:25 AM
no, I didn't reply (read above).

AlG:  I made a big mistake twice.  The first time I pmd Always Sore or YMBL or Migs or that one.  That was the night we did 17 pages last August when I first arrived and you lot melted me down in 2 hours.  He quoted me pleading for help.  That scared me, I was just learning.

The second time I did a pm to a bloke was to you.  It was the night they instigated the girly board and I thought it might be a good thing, a fine thing, a thing to be proud of.  Trouble was, your name came up first (in alpha order) and I was pming you instead of congratulating all of you sad blokes on being accepted onto the girly board.

never again do I send an unsolicited pm out of the blue to a man.  3x unlucky. 
I'm just asking whether I'm expected to respond to the ones I receive.


Though I should re-read some of the incoming ones instead of blanking and forgetting them, I've got some funny ones

Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 10:12:09 AM

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yo linda i apologise for my stupid comments..i should'nt have posted that shit..sorry that i offended you..it won't happen again babe
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Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: powerpack on June 26, 2007, 10:14:35 AM
I can only comment as a guy.
I speak on a few other sites (ranging from Political, Science, computer to other body building sites)I have sent and received PMs from other people some interesting, some weird, some nice, some down right offensive.

On this site I have only ever sent out one PM and that was to Medford about 4 or 5 months ago.
Some guys where being more sadistic to her than usual so I sorta told her to hang in there  ;)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 10:19:54 AM
thanks for explaining.  here's me thinking Medford was a bloke or a masochist or both. 

or a mod, one time I thought s/he was ~flower~'s gimmick.  She/he broke into my threads and quoted me as her and then deleted me silly.  Is she still here?  Banned from the Girly Board again?  4 or 5 months ago I realised that it wasn't a good idea to have anything to do with "her".  She's probably Mig's gimmick...


I've learned that on any other website in the world, you will perhaps be treated maybe nicely, that people are themselves and that you will get a decent answer to your query.


On Getbig, it's completely different.  It's a bunch of short men (who are perhaps in drag) who are mostly very clever and extremely funny and who enjoy beating up everyone within distance.

But did she pm you back...
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Al-Gebra on June 26, 2007, 10:22:19 AM

The second time I did a pm to a bloke was to you.  It was the night they instigated the girly board and I thought it might be a good thing, a fine thing, a thing to be proud of.  Trouble was, your name came up first (in alpha order) and I was pming you instead of congratulating all of you sad blokes on being accepted onto the girly board.

never again do I send an unsolicited pm out of the blue to a man.  3x unlucky. 


my name came up first, b/c I was first.  Why was it so unlucky for you?
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: powerpack on June 26, 2007, 10:46:37 AM
But did she pm you back...
No she never did and actually I never expected her too.

Getbig is a completely different place with a completely different set of rules to all the other boards I talk on.
You need a thick skin and a never mind attitude :)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 10:54:18 AM
thanks for explaining.  here's me thinking Medford was a bloke or a masochist or both. 

or a mod, one time I thought s/he was ~flower~'s gimmick.  She/he broke into my threads and quoted me as her and then deleted me silly.  Is she still here?  Banned from the Girly Board again?  4 or 5 months ago I realised that it wasn't a good idea to have anything to do with "her".  She's probably Mig's gimmick...

 Medford is not a gimmick.  I have spoken to her on the phone.

     :)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:17:50 AM
love you and her, mean it. 

Hey, you wanna know how to get a nice pm every minute?
You post a stupid thread like this
xL
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 11:18:45 AM
I have no shortages of pm's    :D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:28:04 AM
I have no shortages of pm's    :D
Thats because your so popular... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:31:26 AM
you're too
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:35:02 AM
you're too
No not really, I am liked by a select few not known universally.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:36:29 AM
No not really, I am liked by a select few not known universally.

Like a good bottle of wine.  :)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:39:37 AM
I print mine out and stick them into a homemade scrapbook, with little flowers I've drawn in the margins with pink and blue felt pens... and little notations and poetry snippets to add a whimsical touch and remind me of the conversation context. Lol.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:40:22 AM
Like a good bottle of wine.  :)
Or a big box bought at the grocery store... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:41:01 AM
I print mine out and stick them into a homemade scrapbook, with little flowers I've drawn in the margins with pink and blue felt pens... and little notations and poetry snippets to add a whimsical touch and remind me of the conversation context. Lol.
You too small world...LOL  ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:43:27 AM
You too small world...LOL  ;D

and what, yours is massive?
Give us a look at yours, go on...
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:46:29 AM
Or a big box bought at the grocery store... ;D

You said select few... but I guess you do have mass appeal.  :D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:47:20 AM
You said select few... but I guess you do have mass appeal.  :D
Nope I was making a fat joke about myself... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:48:14 AM
Thats because your so popular... ;D

I was just correcting your grammar.  Sip.

Burp.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:49:24 AM
and what, yours is massive?
Give us a look at yours, go on...
There is a difference between me and others. With the exception of you and your PM's (still think your a gimmick... ;D kidding) I do not share when someone wants to ask me a question or makes a comment in private. It's called private message for a reason. :)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:51:50 AM
I print mine out and stick them into a homemade scrapbook, with little flowers I've drawn in the margins with pink and blue felt pens... and little notations and poetry snippets to add a whimsical touch and remind me of the conversation context. Lol.

DeeDee, thanks, I so needed a good laugh.  That's the funniest thing I've seen or heard for a coupla hours or days.  So glad I started this silly thread...


LOL
LOL
LAUGH OUT LOUD
giggle
xL
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:55:18 AM
DeeDee, thanks, I so needed a good laugh.  That's the funniest thing I've seen or heard for a coupla hours or days.  So glad I started this silly thread...


LOL
LOL
LAUGH OUT LOUD
giggle
xL

I was kinda laughing out loud when I wrote it.  :)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:58:38 AM
I was kinda laughing out loud when I wrote it.  :)
Reminds me of dear diary it's Migs here again... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 12:01:00 PM
Thats because your so popular... ;D


 I seem to attract a certain.........crowd   8)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 12:02:45 PM

 I seem to attract a certain.........crowd   8)
Cough cough STalkers..Cough cough... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 12:09:28 PM
There is a difference between me and others. With the exception of you and your PM's (still think your a gimmick... ;D kidding) I do not share when someone wants to ask me a question or makes a comment in private. It's called private message for a reason. :)


Right.  You're so right.  So if you're still there, would you kindly answer this question for me?

On the night that I found a sad but fun big man I brought home and had mad sex with logged into my computer bragging about his conquests and the drugs he does,


Why would you orchestrate a meltdown when you could already see I was in a mess?

I explained in perfect English what was happening.


& you would have most certainly known that I was me, a silly woman up all night, having a snit as you are very surely an internet sadchatroom pro.  I had you figured the first night and you'd figured me out too.  Instead of understanding, you went for the meltdown.

Why would you ignore my pm (God only knows how I managed to find the send a pm button that night and pick you because you sounded sane) and then post it out of context to enhance the meltdown you were conducting?

I'm still kinda upset about that as it sent nasty vibes into the rest of my life.

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Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 12:14:29 PM

Right.  You're so right.  So if you're still there, would you kindly answer this question for me?

On the night that I found a sad but fun big man I brought home and had mad sex with logged into my computer bragging about his conquests and the drugs he does,


Why would you orchestrate a meltdown when you could already see I was in a mess?

I explained in perfect English what was happening.


& you would have most certainly known that I was me, a mad woman having a snit as you are very surely an internet sadchatroom pro.  I had you figured the first night and you'd figured me out too.  Instead of understanding, you went for the meltdown.

Why would you ignore my pm (God only knows how I managed to find the send a pm button that night and pick you because you sounded sane) and then post it out of context to enhance the meltdown you were conducting?

I'm still kinda upset about that as it sent nasty vibes into the rest of my life.

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Because your a nutcase..and well you know the other reason..Cough cough..guy..cough cough... ;D

Hope this helps... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 12:16:33 PM
no, tell me the other reason?




Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 12:20:55 PM
okay, I'll tell you.


it's either:  you still pretend that I am a gimmick bloke,

or you enjoy causing pain to vulnerable women.



take your pick
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: michael arvilla on June 26, 2007, 12:35:52 PM
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Mike can i see a picture of your penis?

thanks Toxic::
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 12:36:32 PM
Because your a nutcase..

It's because you are = you're.
Gotta correct you again.  I abhor rotten use of the language.
your is what you own.  You're is you are...
Thanx.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 12:37:43 PM
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Mike can i see a picture of your penis?

thanks Toxic::

If you've actually got one.

(Wish I'd sent that pm, I've surely seen enough pix of his other overthetop muscles...

sorry, Laura, I hope he has a lovely personality, (it doesn't shine on this internet forum though...


xL

love ya ProF, that's a pm and a half...  Well done, lol !!
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: 24KT on June 26, 2007, 09:08:14 PM
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Mike can i see a picture of your penis?

thanks Toxic::

I sure hope this isn't what I think it is: ...Mikey setting us up for more candid pics of himself.
He'll justify it by saying, "...it was a special request. I'm only trying to keep my fans happy."  :P
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: CQ on June 27, 2007, 02:12:51 AM
you can post them here for the rest of us to enjoy.

I've had quite a few beauties in my day, can't be bothered to rustle up many but here is a recent charmer, name removed to be nice. This one was mild, but recent so readily available to me. I've some had some real prizes in my day. One fruit recently went berzerk and pm'ed me every 2/3 mins until I blocked him.

Quote from: XXXXXXXXXXXu=8522 date=1181782833
do you have a nice big round butt?

Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: ToxicAvenger on June 27, 2007, 03:56:53 AM
note to self : send poor linda annoying PMs  ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Laura Lee on June 27, 2007, 06:25:58 AM
I have 1042 messages I have to review and decide what to do with.  I think I need a secretary.  ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 27, 2007, 07:41:45 AM
I have 1042 messages I have to review and decide what to do with.  I think I need a secretary.  ;D
1200+ and half as much I deleted... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Laura Lee on June 27, 2007, 08:02:29 AM
1200+ and half as much I deleted... ;D
Show off  >:(
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 27, 2007, 08:45:22 AM
Show off  >:(
Naaw just sometimes would rather talk to people without everybody chiming in... ;D
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Laura Lee on June 27, 2007, 08:50:20 AM
Naaw just sometimes would rather talk to people without everybody chiming in... ;D
Ahhhh, secrets, eh?  ;)  I gotcha.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Samourai Pizzacat on June 28, 2007, 06:34:30 AM
Should decide on a one to one basis whether you respond to PM or not., no protocol or secrets attached.
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: davidpaul on June 28, 2007, 07:40:01 AM
1200+ and half as much I deleted... ;D

sad fucker. ::)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: Always Sore on June 28, 2007, 07:43:07 AM
sad fucker. ::)
Thanks that was nice. I was sure this is a message board where people type/talk and pass the time but I could be wrong... ::)
Title: Re: What do other women do with "personal messages"?
Post by: 24KT on June 29, 2007, 02:00:25 AM
I've some had some real prizes in my day. One fruit recently went berzerk and pm'ed me every 2/3 mins until I blocked him.

Ditto. Some people are just plain disturbed. Then there are the ones that are in need of serios therapy.
What am I supposed to be, ...their psychiatrist? WTF! I simply, ignore, respond, or delete accordingly.

When I ignore them, they usually get the message they might want to seek professional help with their problems, ...and I'm not it!

Got a beaut the other day, ...an absolutely clueless & transparent guy crying over other people's responses to his posts ::)