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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Royalty on October 01, 2013, 11:56:16 AM
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Im going to preface my post with this---- I now understand why a lot of black dudes date white chicks.
One day she gave me her phone number (her idea). One of the 1st things that I asked her: I asked her if her mom & dad would flip out if she dated a white guy. She said no, not if she was treated right.
She would text all day. Pics of her, pics of her nails, haircut, pics of her dinner, places she went. Ect...
I honestly liked this girl. She was totally cool. But I sent her a text that she misconstrued, and she totally flew off the handle. Im mean seriously, the text could have been worded differently, but it should not have been a big deal.
What happened was, I could tell that she had a couple issues. And I kinda confronted her on one of them. She did not like that. She turned on my instantly. No contact for 48 hours. (my "punishment")
Yesterday, she basically said that do to my "judgemental" comment, she has nothing to say to me anymore.
(I could sense an odd type of manipulation starting).
I think that I am now expected to "pursue" her and beg excessively for forgiveness (beyond what I have already done).
Im not going to play along. Im not chasing anyone. Im going to find a white chick.
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She just sounds like a typical chick.
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I forgive you.
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That's what you get for trying to be a race mixer. >:(
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She just sounds like a typical chick.
This.
Texting is so lame. No one wants to Instant Message anymore.
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Dude, do NOT chase that chick. You are better off without that headache, trust me.
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Dude, do NOT chase that chick. You are better off without that headache, trust me.
Exactly, due to her own insecurity issues she went off. And now pursuing her would put her in the driver's seat.
Let that ish marinate...or be done with it
She is a time waster. You have better things to do, glutes to see, thongs to fold.
*and it's not just relevant to black chicks.
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blackitude
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I hope you and Lobstah make up. :(
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She just sounds like a typical chick.
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Drama queen with issues. Do not kowtow. Move on.
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Exactly, due to her own insecurity issues she went off. And now pursuing her would put her in the driver's seat.
Let that ish marinate...or be done with it
She is a time waster. You have better things to do, glutes to see, things to fold.
*and it's not just relevant to black chicks.
x2, that applies to ALL chicks.
Don't ever put up with that shit no matter how hot she may be.
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Dudes,
this is why you always FB friend add a few of her friends right away.
I guarantee you "like" a pic on her slightly hotter friend's wall from 6 months back, and watch so fast she calls ;)
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She just sounds like a typical chick.
THIS.
And definitely do not chase any chick who says she's done. Unless she has a bunch of your shit. Then you can chase for as long as it takes to get all your shit back.
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*and it's not just relevant to black chicks.
Agreed.
Men and women of all races have insecurity issues.
My advice.... maybe try dating another black girl.
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that's what you get for being an oildriller
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My advice.... maybe try dating another black girl.
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Yes, two at once, that does sound like a good plan.
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people piss me off
Get your guns over 18.5" and they will start showing you some respect.
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Yes, two at once, that does sound like a good plan.
Unless you are in an actual relationship with one person, why not date many people?
Did he say he was going steady with this young gal?
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Did he say he was going steady with this young gal?
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I never saw him post anything about an exclusive relationship.
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She just sounds like a typical chick.
yup, they're all the same.
texting only causes problems, only text after the subject has been banged.
and women love it when men beg and repent, it all comes down to how little pride and dignity you have and how far you'll go to get her back.
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Dudes,
this is why you always FB friend add a few of her friends right away.
I guarantee you "like" a pic on her slightly hotter friend's wall from 6 months back, and watch so fast she calls ;)
lol you dirty dog i like your style. ruthless.
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Dudes,
this is why you always FB friend add a few of her friends right away.
I guarantee you "like" a pic on her slightly hotter friend's wall from 6 months back, and watch so fast she calls ;)
Haha, I love your little truth gems (no homo), I played this exact card a few weeks ago, although not on Facebook and it went from not texting back for ages to blowing up my Phone and getting my nuts wet within 24 hours
And never EVER chase, makes you look weak as fuck and she will respect you even less
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Haha, I love your little truth gems (no homo), I played this exact card a few weeks ago, although not on Facebook and it went from not texting back for ages to blowing up my Phone and getting my nuts wet within 24 hours
And never EVER chase, makes you look weak as fuck and she will respect you even less
hate to say it, but totally true. I mean maybe some ladies like that, but whether I was right or wrong, I've never responded positively to begging. I probably have some kind of terrible self esteem problem, but if you would grovel for MY wack ass, I immediately question what YOU'RE bringing to the table.
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Black women are very insecure.
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hate to say it, but totally true. I mean maybe some ladies like that, but whether I was right or wrong, I've never responded positively to begging. I probably have some kind of terrible self esteem problem, but if you would grovel for MY wack ass, I immediately question what YOU'RE bringing to the table.
Wack compared to who?
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Wack compared to who?
I don't know, but I'm generally pretty sure there's some better looking, less wacky broad available haha. Of course if you like weirdos, there's no better option. I'M YOUR TEN.
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I'm generally pretty sure there's some better looking, less wacky broad available
Like I said , African American women are very insecure.
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a woman will always bend to a strong man - Lao Tse
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a woman will always bend to a strong man - Lao Tse
I agree
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hate to say it, but totally true. I mean maybe some ladies like that, but whether I was right or wrong, I've never responded positively to begging. I probably have some kind of terrible self esteem problem, but if you would grovel for MY wack ass, I immediately question what YOU'RE bringing to the table.
but don't most women consider "not chasing" to be just "not interested"?
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but don't most women consider "not chasing" to be just "not interested"?
Listen, anytime you have this type of question. Ask yourself WWGD? As in What Would Groink Do.
And Groink would not give chase....you don't chase skirts, they chase you.
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Mudsnake of peace.
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Listen, anytime you have this type of question. Ask yourself WWGD? As in What Would Groink Do.
And Groink would not give chase....you don't chase skirts, they chase you.
which is why groink is still not happy at nearly 50 living a life repenting and in denial.
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Agreed.
Men and women of all races have insecurity issues.
My advice.... maybe try dating another black girl.
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My mom used to tell my, don't bother making more out of something (or someone) until it proves itself worthy. All the best to the OP.
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Like I said , African American women are very insecure.
Lobstah is not Afrikaan.
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Lobstah is not Afrikaan.
Lobstah is homebrewed. Do you prefer White guys Lobstah?
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Lobstah is not Afrikaan.
If that is her photo in her avatar, she is quite lovely.
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If that is her photo in her avatar, she is quite lovely.
Like I said, not Afrikkan.
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I would go gay for Lobstah.
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If she's not willing to convert to full on bed wench then it's not even worth your time.
Talk her in to occasionally wearing a mid 19th century maid outfit for a little role play and you know you really have yourself a keeper. 8)
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My mom used to tell my, don't bother making more out of something (or someone) until it proves itself worthy. All the best to the OP.
Exactly!
Lobstah is homebrewed. Do you prefer White guys Lobstah?
Tough question. I run with longhairs. I don't have any kind of racial PREFERENCE, so my date roster sometimes looks like a United Colors of Benetton ad, but you can only pick from what's in front of you. Not too many black dudes thinking Costello is good makeout music, or who think sitting through the black metal documentary is a good way to spend a night, but frankly not too many white dudes are down with that stuff either! I'm fucking weird, Shizz. It's never about ME being finicky. it's usually more a question of who will tolerate my bullshit.
What is "homebrewed"?
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Dude, do NOT chase that chick. You are better off without that headache, trust me.
THIS.
she's alreary starting the mind games. ... soon youll ne walking on eggshells, trying not to say the wrong thing..
fuck that, dealt with it once for several years.... never again
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Exactly!
Tough question. I run with longhairs. I don't have any kind of racial PREFERENCE, so my date roster sometimes looks like a United Colors of Benetton ad, but you can only pick from what's in front of you. Not too many black dudes thinking Costello is good makeout music, or who think sitting through the black metal documentary is a good way to spend a night, but frankly not too many white dudes are down with that stuff either! I'm fucking weird, Shizz. It's never about ME being finicky. it's usually more a question of who will tolerate my bullshit.
What is "homebrewed"?
Weird? try wanting to be a zoologist and playing the cello as a black guy...
Benetton had a good F1 run back in the day...good ol Schuey...
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Don't be softcock, if U want dark pussy get one from Africa ;)
so fucking easy, every young 1 wants to marry nice Euro man.
& nothing' over 21.
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Good luck with your goals.
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Texting ::)