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How do I permantly turn a guy off that keeps trying to come back like a boomerang? Last year in march I briefly dated a much younger guy and then dumped him when I realised he was wrong for me and not experienced enough in life. He contacted me several months later and I told him I was not interested and that he was a douch. Fast forward to Saturday and he sends me a message on Facebook saying that he's not being creepy but he saw me today and I looked great. I said thanks and he said that's okay. Now hes messaging me asking me what I am doing. I said I am cooking dinner and he's asking is it anything nice. In other words small talk. How do I turn him off for good? I have been quite mean to him last time he tried this even telling him I had zero feelings for him and that he doesn't know how to satisfy me. It worked for a while but now the boomerang has seen me. And all I was doing was shopping with a girlfriend and having lunch dressed in my gym clothes.
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I have boomerangs coming from all directions all the time....I just don't reply, it's the best approach, in all honesty many times I just see the name flash on my whatsapp and I read the message two weeks later when I remember if at all.
Monday to Friday work wipes out 12hrs of my day, sleep 7, food toilet break and quick shower about 1.30 hour, this leaves me with less than 4 hours for gym and a small window of relaxation/rest in the evening, barely long enough for a movie...I don't have 1 or 2 minutes to waste reading and replying to messages from people I don't need in my life.
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How do I permantly turn a guy off that keeps trying to come back like a boomerang? Last year in march I briefly dated a much younger guy and then dumped him when I realised he was wrong for me and not experienced enough in life. He contacted me several months later and I told him I was not interested and that he was a douch. Fast forward to Saturday and he sends me a message on Facebook saying that he's not being creepy but he saw me today and I looked great. I said thanks and he said that's okay. Now hes messaging me asking me what I am doing. I said I am cooking dinner and he's asking is it anything nice. In other words small talk. How do I turn him off for good? I have been quite mean to him last time he tried this even telling him I had zero feelings for him and that he doesn't know how to satisfy me. It worked for a while but now the boomerang has seen me. And all I was doing was shopping with a girlfriend and having lunch dressed in my gym clothes.
Invite him over for dinner and leave some massively skid marked underwear on the kitchen floor while you're cooking. When he mentions it, just say "Oh, those? Yeah I was going to pick them up a few days ago but haven't got round to it" and then continue cooking, occasionly using the same hand to scratch your bumhole ;D
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I have boomerangs coming from all directions all the time....I just don't reply, it's the best approach, in all honesty many times I just see the name flash on my whatsapp and I read the message two weeks later when I remember if at all.
Monday to Friday work wipes out 12hrs of my day, sleep 7, food toilet break and quick shower about 1.30 hour, this leaves me with less than 4 hours for gym and a small window of relaxation/rest in the evening, barely long enough for a movie...I don't have 1 or 2 minutes to waste reading and replying to messages from people I don't need in my life.
Yeah I hear you. Ignore completely... Don't even be a friend. They are using the friendship card as an excuse to communicate.
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I have boomerangs coming from all directions all the time....I just don't reply, it's the best approach, in all honesty many times I just see the name flash on my whatsapp and I read the message two weeks later when I remember if at all.
This.
Just stop responding back to his messages. He will eventually realize that he's not having any luck and will move on.
Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
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This.
Just stop responding back to his messages. He will eventually realize that he's not having any luck and will move on.
Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
He waits for a few months and then tries again. And nothing has changed as far as I am concerned. I just get meaner.
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Invite him over for dinner and leave some massively skid marked underwear on the kitchen floor while you're cooking. When he mentions it, just say "Oh, those? Yeah I was going to pick them up a few days ago but haven't got round to it" and then continue cooking, occasionly using the same hand to scratch your bumhole ;D
Sounds like a good getbig story to tell :D But that will eat into my getbig posting time !
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Men confuse friendly talk with "open options", hence if you ever truly want someone out of your life, then stop talking to them.
Friendships with ex's never work in general, especially with younger folk. I have more ex's than I can count...I am friends with ZERO....still on good terms with some, if I bumped into them we would say hi, hug and genuinely ask each other "how are you" "good to see you" but that's it, we will walk separate ways.
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He waits for a few months and then tries again. And nothing has changed as far as I am concerned. I just get meaner.
The thing is, you're still talking to him. Even if you're being mean, you're still giving him some attention by replying back. Next time he messages you on FB or whatever, just ignore it and don't respond back. He sends another one, ignore it too and so on. Even block him if you have to.
If you do want to message him, just make it a final message by telling him that you aren't interested in getting back with him at all and will not be responding back to any of his messages from now on.
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Men confuse friendly talk with "open options", hence if you ever truly want someone out of your life, then stop talking to them.
Friendships with ex's never work in general, especially with younger folk. I have more ex's than I can count...I am friends with ZERO....still on good terms with some, if I bumped into them we would say hi, hug and genuinely ask each other "how are you" "good to see you" but that's it, we will walk separate ways.
You are right Skorp. They see an opportunity still. You always make logical sense !
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The thing is, you're still talking to him. Even if you're being mean, you're still giving him some attention by replying back. Next time he messages you on FB or whatever, just ignore it and don't respond back. He sends another one, ignore it too and so on. Even block him if you have to.
If you do want to message him, just make it a final message by telling him that you aren't interested in getting back with him at all and will not be responding back to any of his messages from now on.
I told him a year ago that I was interested in someone else and had zero feelings in him. I told him to not contact me again. I dated him briefly in march 2013. It should be enough time for him to get the message.
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You should really ask this on the G&O Booty, we are not really used to scenarios that end up with 'no' from females etc, bit out our depth here. Maybe also pm some desperados like Roger Bacon for the real inside scoop
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You should really ask this on the G&O Booty, we are not really used to scenarios that end up with 'no' from females etc, bit out our depth here. Maybe also pm some desperados like Roger Bacon for the real inside scoop
Rather ask you bunch because I was wondering should I just tell him I want marriage? Is this be mean keep them keen thing actually true for some??? I am direct and don't play games so if I am interested in a guy then he knows it. I don't play games. But there are people who enjoy the chase.
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Rather ask you bunch because I was wondering should I just tell him I want marriage? Is this be mean keep them keen thing actually true for some??? I am direct and don't play games so if I am interested in a guy then he knows it. I don't play games. But there are people who enjoy the chase.
As I said, it's a completely alien concept for guys like us to deal with female refusals. I would love to help, but you could be speaking chinese and I would understand it more.
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Men confuse friendly talk with "open options", hence if you ever truly want someone out of your life, then stop talking to them.
Friendships with ex's never work in general, especially with younger folk. I have more ex's than I can count...I am friends with ZERO....still on good terms with some, if I bumped into them we would say hi, hug and genuinely ask each other "how are you" "good to see you" but that's it, we will walk separate ways.
this is it
silence is the only tactic
men have a habit of taking a polite response and convincing themselves that the women has the hots for them
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As I said, it's a completely alien concept for guys like us to deal with female refusals. I would love to help, but you could be speaking chinese and I would understand it more.
Hes from the UK. He immigrated out here and has no family in Aussie.
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this is it
silence is the only tactic
men have a habit of taking a polite response and convincing themselves that the women has the hots for them
I will ignore any form of communication from him.
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I will ignore any form of communication from him.
That's it. As soon as you decide "this guy is never dipping his nugget in my bucket" ever again, friendly chit chat is off the menu.
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That's it. As soon as you decide "this guy is never dipping his nugget in my bucket" ever again, friendly chit chat is off the menu.
yes skorp as soon as booty thought "this guy is never dipping his liquorice in my sherbert again" friendly chit chat was finished
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yes skorp as soon as booty thought "this guy is never dipping his liquorice in my sherbert again" friendly chit chat was finished
;D
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That's it. As soon as you decide "this guy is never dipping his nugget in my bucket" ever again, friendly chit chat is off the menu.
It's more like just being polite. I am not even friendly or sweet. Last time I became out right mean to get the message accross. I said he didn't know what to do with me when he had me. He abruptly stopped messaging. I guess seeing me shopping ignited his stupidness.
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yes skorp as soon as booty thought "this guy is never dipping his liquorice in my sherbert again" friendly chit chat was finished
This sounds better than saying nuggets in a bucket. I am not a bucket Skorp. >:( its the pleasure dome !
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This uk guy is still sending me small talk messages asking what I am doing today. I can't play games... It's not in my nature. So I asked him why he was talking to me again and that I don't want a repeat of last times grovelling to see me and that I was too old for him. I would rather tell him straight up that he is wasting his time. I mean I know what he's up to and I am putting him in his tracks . He replied with that I am not too old. My reply was that I am not old but I am too old for him and that I need 35 plus. He said he understands. So it's resolved.
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How do I permantly turn a guy off that keeps trying to come back like a boomerang? Last year in march I briefly dated a much younger guy and then dumped him when I realised he was wrong for me and not experienced enough in life. He contacted me several months later and I told him I was not interested and that he was a douch. Fast forward to Saturday and he sends me a message on Facebook saying that he's not being creepy but he saw me today and I looked great. I said thanks and he said that's okay. Now hes messaging me asking me what I am doing. I said I am cooking dinner and he's asking is it anything nice. In other words small talk. How do I turn him off for good? I have been quite mean to him last time he tried this even telling him I had zero feelings for him and that he doesn't know how to satisfy me. It worked for a while but now the boomerang has seen me. And all I was doing was shopping with a girlfriend and having lunch dressed in my gym clothes.
You are reasonably attractive and in decent shape for your age.
Trouble is, the fact you are single at this age and have been for some time will raise major alarm bells for any male that you consider to be a "catch".
How many times have we seen this guys? One of your mates comes along and describes the perfect woman.. "No kids, looks great, works out, own house & car, single and 35 but looks 25" -a good friend will always come back with "what's the catch" but it gets ignored & we all know how it works out - you & your mate 6 months later in the pub and him telling you about whatever psychotic event she just put him through.
So I think you have to get to grips with the fact that this is as good as it's going to get for you. You need to lower your expectations. You have kids too which is another strike against.
I think you should count yourself lucky with the guy above and marry him immediately.
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You are reasonably attractive and in decent shape for your age.
Trouble is, the fact you are single at this age and have been for some time will raise major alarm bells for any male that you consider to be a "catch".
How many times have we seen this guys? One of your mates comes along and describes the perfect woman.. "No kids, looks great, works out, own house & car, single and 35 but looks 25" -a good friend will always come back with "what's the catch" but it gets ignored & we all know how it works out - you & your mate 6 months later in the pub and him telling you about whatever psychotic event she just put him through.
So I think you have to get to grips with the fact that this is as good as it's going to get for you. You need to lower your expectations. You have kids too which is another strike against.
I think you should count yourself lucky with the guy above and marry him immediately.
My off spring are almost 20 and 18. Honestly at my age a man should not be shocked that I have children. It would raise more alarm bells if I was single and had never had children. I don't believe in settling... And my heart has to be into the guy! I gave this guy a chance already and he turned me off with his games. I don't play games so he got the flick. Too many men out there to settle for the wrong one!
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Where did my post go, was good advice
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tell him you are dating lee priest and he is a mere shadow of lee.
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This thread is shit, "wahhh wut do i do with a situation i already know what to do in wahhhhh " bored to death with the shit responses. Fucking shit thread btw fu k you.
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You should just slap yourself and move on
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This thread is shit, "wahhh wut do i do with a situation i already know what to do in wahhhhh " bored to death with the shit responses. Fucking shit thread btw fu k you.
If you don't like my thread, you can fuck off.
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My mom always said men fall harder than women. She should have known she dumped quite a few men in her lifetime.
The best tactic I think would be for you to ignore him. If he sends you emails, don't reply. Better yet block his emails and his phone number. That way you don't have to deal with him....hopefully.
You hear horror stories about men who feel scorned. Hopefully, he's not some nut job who is on a obsessive mission to win you over at any cost. If that ends up being the case, you'll need to get the authorities involved.
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My mom always said men fall harder than women. She should have known she dumped quite a few men in her lifetime.
The best tactic I think would be for you to ignore him. If he sends you emails, don't reply. Better yet block his emails and his phone number. That way you don't have to deal with him....hopefully.
You hear horror stories about men who feel scorned. Hopefully, he's not some nut job who is on a obsessive mission to win you over at any cost. If that ends up being the case, you'll need to get the authorities involved.
No I don't think he's a nutter Prime. He has not contacted me since I told him that I want someone older than him. I am sure he gets the message that I am not interested as it was his 3 rd attempt at trying to meet up and I have rejected him.
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No I don't think he's a nutter Prime. He has not contacted me since I told him that I want someone older than him. I am sure he gets the message that I am not interested as it was his 3 rd attempt at trying to meet up and I have rejected him.
Well, that's good news.
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Well, that's good news.
I am sure he will make someone else happy.
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How do I permanently turn a guy off that keeps trying to come back like a boomerang?
As I said, it's a completely alien concept for guys like us to deal with female refusals. I would love to help, but you could be speaking chinese and I would understand it more.
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How do I permantly turn a guy off that keeps trying to come back like a boomerang? Last year in march I briefly dated a much younger guy and then dumped him when I realised he was wrong for me and not experienced enough in life. He contacted me several months later and I told him I was not interested and that he was a douch. Fast forward to Saturday and he sends me a message on Facebook saying that he's not being creepy but he saw me today and I looked great. I said thanks and he said that's okay. Now hes messaging me asking me what I am doing. I said I am cooking dinner and he's asking is it anything nice. In other words small talk. How do I turn him off for good? I have been quite mean to him last time he tried this even telling him I had zero feelings for him and that he doesn't know how to satisfy me. It worked for a while but now the boomerang has seen me. And all I was doing was shopping with a girlfriend and having lunch dressed in my gym clothes.
Act like uncle junior, it allows him to keep women at bay, should work the other way around.
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Act like uncle junior, it allows him to keep women at bay, should work the other way around.
I can't act. ;D
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I can't act. ;D
Send this douche bag a picture of me...tell him this is the new guy I am now dating.
He will eat some humble pie and retreat.
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Send this douche bag a picture of me...tell him this is the new guy I am now dating.
He will eat some humble pie and retreat.
Or alternatively fire bomb her house.
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Or alternatively fire bomb her house.
x 2
especially if he is a racist
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x 2
especially if he is a racist
Send this one then...rub it in even more
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x 2
especially if he is a racist
I don't think he is a racist. He is from Wales.
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Send this douche bag a picture of me...tell him this is the new guy I am now dating.
He will eat some humble pie and retreat.
If he tries again then I will do this.
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If he tries again then I will do this.
Skorp gets to choose the pic you send, right?
Skorp, cock pics are the way to go here.
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Skorp gets to choose the pic you send, right?
Skorp, cock pics are the way to go here.
if he asks my best friend about Skorp, then my cover will be blown.
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skorp is a man well used to being used as a standard most boomerangs cant achieve 8)
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skorp is a man well used to being used as a standard most boomerangs cant achieve 8)
I appreciate the extra polish you applied to my ego Sir
I will return the favour at a suitable time later 8)
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Skorp gets to choose the pic you send, right?
Skorp, cock pics are the way to go here.
I've been told a few times that I have a "nice" cock....whatever that means in a woman's mind ???
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I like the direction this thread is heading in.
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I've been told a few times that I have a "nice" cock....whatever that means in a woman's mind ???
What do other men say about your cock?
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I like this thread now. ;D
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What do other men say about your cock?
"Is it bulking or just holding a lot of water?"
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Thread moving in the wrong/right direction here lol (no homo/hetero)
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lots of "hetero" men
trying to steer this thread in to cock highway
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lots of "hetero" men
trying to steer this thread in to cock highway
Hahaha had to be said
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I've been told a few times that I have a "nice" cock....whatever that means in a woman's mind ???
It simply means she likes you and wants to pay you a compliment.
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It simply means she likes you and wants to pay you a compliment.
It's means she likes him a lot. Otherwise she would tell him he has nice eyes, nice smile... That kind of thing.
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It's means she likes him a lot. Otherwise she would tell him he has nice eyes, nice smile... That kind of thing.
Agreed, I appreciate cock compliments a lot more.
Nice eyes, smile..etc that's something my mothers friends used to say to me as a 6 yr old kid.
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Tell him what Lee Priest did to your fun bags. If your too embarrassed to tell him directly, send him a link to getbig and let him read it himself. I sincerely hope that this helps. If that doesn't work, tell him about your mudsharking experiences. That should do it every time.
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Tell him what Lee Priest did to your fun bags. If your too embarrassed to tell him directly, send him a link to getbig and let him read it himself. I sincerely hope that this helps. If that doesn't work, tell him about your mudsharking experiences. That should do it every time.
He probably found me on getbig already. Another friend from the gym has. And what you are forgetting is that these people know me off here and wouldn't believe the lies posted about me.
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Agreed, I appreciate cock compliments a lot more.
Nice eyes, smile..etc that's something my mothers friends used to say to me as a 6 yr old kid.
cock compliments equal desire/passion/lust.