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Title: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Brixtonbulldog on January 22, 2015, 05:34:13 PM
i think every dad has some personal nightmares seeing kids these days end up complete shitheads.  i won't come out and say these to him but i pray he abides these at all costs:

don't be gay.
don't be a sociopath.
don't fight, kill, or sabotage your people (whoever they are) or your family.
carry on the family name and values.

anyone else?
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: SF1900 on January 22, 2015, 05:39:09 PM
Lets be real here. This sums it up.

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.

They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: calfzilla on January 22, 2015, 05:39:46 PM


Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didn't have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they don't interact with others for the rest of their life.

They are extremist in everything they do, always looking exaggeratedly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also, boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in their male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunately, they can get as big as they can it doesn't cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They are not as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they don't know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (MMA, Cars, Weight Lifting, Etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attempting to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didn't have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

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Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: MikMaq on January 22, 2015, 05:40:41 PM
Be on the autistic spectrum, but not full retard.
 
Have an interest in useful shit like science or commerce.

Do not become a painter.

Don't be narcissistic.

Be over 6 ft.

Have multiple kids.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: che on January 22, 2015, 05:41:28 PM
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Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: calfzilla on January 22, 2015, 05:42:30 PM
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Lol funny but very sad and true.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: youandme on January 22, 2015, 05:43:55 PM
Be on the autistic spectrum, but not full retard.
 
Have an interest in useful shit like science or commerce.

Do not become a painter.

Don't be narcissistic.

Be over 6 ft.

Have multiple kids.


lmao
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: El Diablo Blanco on January 22, 2015, 06:18:53 PM
Learn all there is to know about electricity.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Walter Sobchak on January 22, 2015, 06:21:04 PM
Don't put a cock in your mouth or ass like BrixtonBulldog
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Parker on January 22, 2015, 06:23:12 PM
i think every dad has some personal nightmares seeing kids these days end up complete shitheads.  i won't come out and say these to him but i pray he abides these at all costs:

don't be gay.
don't be a sociopath.
don't fight, kill, or sabotage your people (whoever they are) or your family.
carry on the family name and values.

anyone else?
If you are there for your son. Teach him responsibility, and show him the correct way to do things in life. And to own up to one's mistakes. And don't mess with heme-iron. Then he should be alright in this world.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: che on January 22, 2015, 06:39:15 PM
If you are there for your son. Teach him responsibility, and show him the correct way to do things in life. And to own up to one's mistakes. And don't mess with heme-iron. Then he should be alright in this world.
what about electricity ?

I teach my kid how to fight , how to ride dirt bikes and I will teach him how to score with 9 and 10's  , that's all I know.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: trapz101 on January 22, 2015, 06:44:49 PM
Be on the autistic spectrum, but not full retard.
 
Have an interest in useful shit like science or commerce.

Do not become a painterbodybuilder.

Don't be narcissistic.

Be over 6 ft.

Have multiple kids.

fixed
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Parker on January 22, 2015, 07:00:40 PM
what about electricity ?

I teach my kid how to fight , how to ride dirt bikes and I will teach him how to score with 9 and 10's  , that's all I know.
You teach him all that, and he will learn the "secrets" of electricity automatically.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: MikMaq on January 22, 2015, 07:17:42 PM

lmao
None of that was a joke.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Marty Champions on January 22, 2015, 07:26:25 PM
Do onto others as u want done unto you....thats all akid needs, then masterying electricy comes naturally
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: che on January 22, 2015, 07:30:12 PM
Do onto others as u want done unto you....

Oral sex ?
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: SF1900 on January 22, 2015, 07:32:24 PM
Do onto others as u want done unto you....thats all akid needs, then masterying electricy comes naturally

Future Tesla?

(http://cf.ltkcdn.net/safety/images/std/116464-344x257-Electrical_safety_tips_for_children.jpg)
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: che on January 22, 2015, 07:50:00 PM
Best dad ever

https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/dad-arrested-after-throwing-daughter-a-107511620007.html
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Knooger on January 22, 2015, 08:25:04 PM
Oral sex ?

I would just want someone to spit in my mouth.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Dave D on January 22, 2015, 08:28:55 PM
For the single dads you might want to add don't  date the same women.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Master Blaster on January 22, 2015, 09:33:42 PM
be able to change the oil

know how to throw a punch (even if you never do)

don't be all emo, try to have a positive outlook more or less

crying is for when you are sad, not when you are hurt, physical pain should not make you "cry"
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Knooger on January 22, 2015, 10:25:27 PM
be able to change the oil

know how to throw a punch (even if you never do)

don't be all emo, try to have a positive outlook more or less

crying is for when you are sad, not when you are hurt, physical pain should not make you "cry"

All good except for that last one. Crying is for women, a real man does not cry, ever.

Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Knooger on January 22, 2015, 10:41:15 PM
Cock salt level checker

hahahahahahhahaha
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: falco on January 23, 2015, 05:45:19 AM
i think every dad has some personal nightmares seeing kids these days end up complete shitheads.  i won't come out and say these to him but i pray he abides these at all costs:

don't be gay.
don't be a sociopath.
don't fight, kill, or sabotage your people (whoever they are) or your family.
carry on the family name and values.

anyone else?

You have no control about his/her sexual orientation,
You have no control on psicopathic features, he/her are born with them.

I have a daughter, i hope she don't become a prostitute or date a hebrew.
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Natural Man on January 23, 2015, 05:52:09 AM
You have no control about his/her sexual orientation,
You have no control on psicopathic features, he/her are born with them.

I have a daughter, i hope she don't become a prostitute or date a hebrew.

You do...

Many things are predetermined by genes but many things are also predetermined by education and the example you give as a father/mother in your couple.

Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Henda on January 23, 2015, 10:23:55 AM
Certain things I try and hammer into him.

Always make sure he is polite uses manners.

Try and encourage him not to give up when something his hard.

Teach him to be 'handy', how to fix his bike or do little repair jobs, he still a bit young to teach properly but nothing worse than a grown man who is completely useless.

Don't allow him to have teddies, wear gay animal "onesies" or dressing gowns and shit, only allow not feminised toys.

Make sure he always respects and looks out for his mother and sister.

Couldn't stand it if he ended up like a lot of the little bastards you see these days
Title: Re: dad's with sons.. what are your non-negotiables for his future?
Post by: Andy Griffin on January 23, 2015, 10:36:13 AM
No phaggotry

Only hit a woman if attempts to reason with her have failed

Be the chilidogger, not the chilidoggee

Don't call internet bodybuilding shows because people find out you live in a trailer and you might get owned

Only visit pof.com for trolling purposes

Lift heavy


Just some of the things I've learned from GetBig that any son of mine will have to live by.