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I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
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it sounds like you are secretly craving a homosexual relationship, pm Bhanky or primemuscle for further advice
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Never raise children if they aren't yours unless you are Reuben James.
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it sounds like you are secretly craving a homosexual relationship, pm Bhanky or primemuscle for further advice
im craving a relationship with your wife she came over and I slapped meat on her grill bitch can suck a tank through a straw. Apparently you taught her.
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Her words
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im craving a relationship with your wife she came over and I slapped meat on her grill bitch can suck a tank through a straw. Apparently you taught her.
she told me you went down on her and sucked out the load i left in her earlier in the day
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she told me you went down on her and sucked out the load i left in her earlier in the day
Bro...
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Men put too much energy and time towards women. And why would anyone want to be with a woman whose kids aren't even yours?
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she told me you went down on her and sucked out the load i left in her earlier in the day
what a great whore of a mom you have god bless her throat
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Never raise children if they aren't yours unless you are Reuben James.
:D
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it sounds like you are secretly craving a homosexual relationship, pm Bhanky or primemuscle for further advice
You sound like Flexacon... very socially awkward. You both have a knack for turning a conversation into a joke about homosexuality. It’s almost like you two are the same person.
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I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
Hey we've all been through this
One day she says, we are soulmates, we must've been together in an earlier life, you are the one i want to grow old with etc etc
and the next day your shit is on the porch
Can't fucking trust anyone these days
Words don't mean shit, and are just empty
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I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
:o
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This is a happy ending. None of her problems are your problems anymore. Get your shit off the porch and never look back.
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If they aren't yours then you're never their "real dad." You're just renting them as a package deal for as long as you're with their mom. There is no return on investment for the time and money you put into raising someone else's children.
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you write real good not liek me soemtimes i have a hard time fbut you are doing it right and not beign that kindo of guy who is not happy!!
I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
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I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
Serious question: why were you a “boyfriend” and in a “relationship” and not in a relationship with the aim of marriage and your children? I’m asking sincerely. Marriage is not without challenge and carries inflated risk these days—serious risk!—but at this point I have no clue why men put themselves at risk for being a “boyfriend,” which is a low position that doesn’t even give him a family and subjects him to the sort of lunacy you’ve experienced!
GB’ers: women aren’t our friends! They’re meant for breeding and serious life partnership. Though I have mixed feelings on prostitution, anything between this and marriage—being a “boyfriend”—is the biggest emotional and financial drain on a man there is! If a man must get laid, he can go to a red-light district and move onto other business!
Stay strong!
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You sound like Flexacon... very socially awkward. You both have a knack for turning a conversation into a joke about homosexuality. It’s almost like you two are the same person.
Imagine calling someone socially awkward based on anonymous trolling internet posts.
Good job outing yourself as someone who clearly has no life away from the keyboard. Get up, leave your mums basement and get some fresh air. The internet is not real life.
(https://media.vanityfair.com/photos/54848cb848de990f76760187/master/w_2560%2Cc_limit/stephen-king-it-movie-rexusa_953600a.jpg)
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through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
If you had respect for yourself then you wouldn't have been with her. If you can't respect yourself why should anyone else (this woman)?
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Men put too much energy and time towards women. And why would anyone want to be with a woman whose kids aren't even yours?
Done that once, never again!
MSM speak on this!
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If you had respect for yourself then you wouldn't have been with her. If you can't respect yourself why should anyone else (this woman)?
Bingo.
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You sound like Flexacon... very socially awkward. You both have a knack for turning a conversation into a joke about homosexuality. It’s almost like you two are the same person.
HOWOAK = Flexacon?
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I'm not going to beat up on dude....we've all been manipulated. Sometimes it takes a decade to realize you are losing the battle - and things slowly turn ugly, it's not like this all happened in a week.
I have a good friend that was in the same situation. He lost 10 prime years and she just turned him off like a switch and got back together with the baby daddy. He raised basically a newborn to 10 years of age as the real father. She was bipolar, narcissistic personality disorder, borderline....whatever you want to call it they are all similar in modern women. These traits are rewarded, not shamed in the age of social media.
Run Taco, and consider yourself lucky it didn't take longer for the same result. Keep busy, don't dwell on what you never had anyway and work on yourself. Women are only attracted to men that provide and protect.
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Imagine calling someone socially awkward based on anonymous trolling internet posts.
Good job outing yourself as someone who clearly has no life away from the keyboard. Get up, leave your mums basement and get some fresh air. The internet is not real life.
(https://media.vanityfair.com/photos/54848cb848de990f76760187/master/w_2560%2Cc_limit/stephen-king-it-movie-rexusa_953600a.jpg)
Imagine being trolled on the internet and letting it bother you.
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I’m sorry for your loss we’ve all been in serious relationships that have ended and it sucks. You will recover and meet someone better that you will enjoy spending your life with.
What you should do is work on yourself, find out why you stayed with an abusive narcissist for a decade so you don’t waste time in another relationship of this type.
Serious question Taco, I’m sure you talked about marriage but after four years of dating you knew marriage was a bad idea but you stayed in the relationship, why? Did you think you helping the kids or was there another reason?
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Bro...
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Once a woman loses affection for you you are considered dead to her. From that moment on you are completely worthless to her and she's already into someone else. Nature doesn't give a sh1t about your feelings.
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I’m sorry for your loss we’ve all been in serious relationships that have ended and it sucks. You will recover and meet someone better that you will enjoy spending your life with.
What you should do is work on yourself, find out why you stayed with an abusive narcissist for a decade so you don’t waste time in another relationship of this type.
Serious question Taco, I’m sure you talked about marriage but after four years of dating you knew marriage was a bad idea but you stayed in the relationship, why? Did you think you helping the kids or was there another reason?
Bing the kids lost their father. I didn’t want them to feel like I was going to abandon them to don’t get me wrong. She still wants to be in this relationship but she put my stuff on the porch because she’s mad that I left. She still emails and texts every day saying she loves me but I can’t put up with her shit anymore.
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You sound like Flexacon... very socially awkward. You both have a knack for turning a conversation into a joke about homosexuality. It’s almost like you two are the same person.
it sounds like this "Flexadong" character is taking up alot of space in your head, did he leave one in your ass and not call you back the next day ? ???
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Bing the kids lost their father. I didn’t want them to feel like I was going to abandon them to don’t get me wrong. She still wants to be in this relationship but she put my stuff on the porch because she’s mad that I left. She still emails and texts every day saying she loves me but I can’t put up with her shit anymore.
You know what you need to do.
I understand your concern for the kids and the relationship you’ve built but it sounds like the relationship is unhealthy for everyone. As others have pointed out they aren’t your biological children despite being involved with them their whole life.
Ask yourself what is the logical conclusion here? Are you going to stay together and work through the issues, despite not being married after a decade!? Will you stay together until the daughter grows up and then break up? Or will you try and stay in the kids life and be fine with moving on from the mom?
You’ve got to make a decision as a man. Playing house isn’t going to help this family, it only adds to the dysfunction and you will end up ruining the daughters idea of real relationships. She will think what you and her mother have is normal. She will think she can have a baby and it doesn’t matter if the biological father is a part of the babies life because she will find someone else to help raise the child. And they don’t even need to be married. It’s a perpetual cycle (unless as an adult she gets intense therapy).
I’m not saying this to be mean or hurtful but so that you understand that while you think you’re helping this little girl you undoubtedly love and helped raise you’re really ruining her by not committing to her mom and if you continue this path she will grow up to resent you.
Good luck bro.
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Bing the kids lost their father. I didn’t want them to feel like I was going to abandon them to don’t get me wrong. She still wants to be in this relationship but she put my stuff on the porch because she’s mad that I left. She still emails and texts every day saying she loves me but I can’t put up with her shit anymore.
In your first post you made it sound like she just dumped all your stuff on the porch and broke up with you.
Now it turns out you dumped her and you're annoyed she threw out your stuff. Are you sure she's the narcissist here?
Give us an example of her narcissism.
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Bing the kids lost their father. I didn’t want them to feel like I was going to abandon them to don’t get me wrong. She still wants to be in this relationship but she put my stuff on the porch because she’s mad that I left. She still emails and texts every day saying she loves me but I can’t put up with her shit anymore.
Just sleep on the porch.
Bring a little camp stove heater thing, a cooler, a cot, and a lamp.
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In your first post you made it sound like she just dumped all your stuff on the porch and broke up with you.
Now it turns out you dumped her and you're annoyed she threw out your stuff. Are you sure she's the narcissist here?
Give us an example of her narcissism.
its like Hankins version of events....
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I'm not going to beat up on dude....we've all been manipulated. Sometimes it takes a decade to realize you are losing the battle - and things slowly turn ugly, it's not like this all happened in a week.
I have a good friend that was in the same situation. He lost 10 prime years and she just turned him off like a switch and got back together with the baby daddy. He raised basically a newborn to 10 years of age as the real father. She was bipolar, narcissistic personality disorder, borderline....whatever you want to call it they are all similar in modern women. These traits are rewarded, not shamed in the age of social media.
Run Taco, and consider yourself lucky it didn't take longer for the same result. Keep busy, don't dwell on what you never had anyway and work on yourself. Women are only attracted to men that provide and protect.
Is tacobender your friend? Exact same story almost.
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In your first post you made it sound like she just dumped all your stuff on the porch and broke up with you.
Now it turns out you dumped her and you're annoyed she threw out your stuff. Are you sure she's the narcissist here?
Give us an example of her narcissism.
she lacks empathy for others very judge mental she values how people view her super huge ego. Her number one is she only cares what people think of her she’s arrogant she’s on medication she has anger issues. She’s constantly cursing at her kids when she gets mad, verbally, abusive, etc. that is why I left.
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she lacks empathy for others very judge mental she values how people view her super huge ego. Her number one is she only cares what people think of her she’s arrogant she’s on medication she has anger issues. She’s constantly cursing at her kids when she gets mad, verbally, abusive, etc. that is why I left.
its taken you ten years to work that out?
I think you have someone else and you need to make an excuse
She got pretty horrible pretty quick
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i agree with UK Jeff
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she lacks empathy for others very judge mental she values how people view her super huge ego. Her number one is she only cares what people think of her she’s arrogant she’s on medication she has anger issues. She’s constantly cursing at her kids when she gets mad, verbally, abusive, etc. that is why I left.
Are you sure she isn't just a Latina :D
I don't know if she's a narcissist based on what you said, but those things make it sound like she might be the type of woman who has never had to rely on anything other than her looks to get what she wants, and also didn't really need to bother developing any other redeeming qualities
Probably hates that she had kids so early and couldn't be out partying all the time. Life clearly hasn't gone the way she might have wanted and she hasn't been dealing with that well.
You're better off without her because if she can't change she'll only get worse. Also you definitely don't wanna be around during the menopause stage. Try find yourself something younger and start again.
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Dear Taco, be always a Supremo, not a Pequeño.
Do not go soggy in emotion. Stay Crunchy in resolve! Here is relationship kounselor Kramer demonstrating how not to be.
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Imagine being trolled on the internet and letting it bother you.
Imagine being bothered!
Imagine being on the Internet!
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Are you sure she isn't just a Latina :D
I don't know if she's a narcissist based on what you said, but those things make it sound like she might be the type of woman who has never had to rely on anything other than her looks to get what she wants, and also didn't really need to bother developing any other redeeming qualities
Probably hates that she had kids so early and couldn't be out partying all the time. Life clearly hasn't gone the way she might have wanted and she hasn't been dealing with that well.
You're better off without her because if she can't change she'll only get worse. Also you definitely don't wanna be around during the menopause stage. Try find yourself something younger and start again.
lol basically hit the reset button . As far as narcissism, I looked up the common traits. She has every single one of them. She affects others. Her kids have resentment toward her. She’s never ever wrong.
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Once a woman loses affection for you you are considered dead to her. From that moment on you are completely worthless to her and she's already into someone else. Nature doesn't give a sh1t about your feelings.
Truth.
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Maybe you should try identifying as a woman and sue her for child support ;D
https://nypost.com/2023/01/06/desperate-dad-legally-changes-gender-to-female-in-bid-to-gain-custody-of-kids/ (https://nypost.com/2023/01/06/desperate-dad-legally-changes-gender-to-female-in-bid-to-gain-custody-of-kids/)
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These people most often cannot be rehabilitated.
They usually have baggage with their parents with at least one of them being pretty nuts.
It doesn’t sound like you got much of anything from her and maybe your socialization skills were harmed by your parent’s own deficiencies.
I hear stories like this on Stefan Molyneaux’s podcast sometimes.
You may want to look through the old episodes of the “Freedomain podcast he does.
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I figured I would switch it up. This board has been getting kind of stale lately, but anyhow, has anybody been in a relationship with a narcissistic woman? I just got out of one I was with her for 10 years she had children I didn’t. She was kind of my high school sweetheart, or crush. Should I say lol I used to look at her and be like man who ever ends up with her, is the luckiest man in the world Fast forward 16 years I end up with her. I’ve been through lots of ups and downs. Her kids lost there father to suicide. I financially help to support them when he was alive. He wasn’t contributing his support which she could easily do. He had a great job it’s crazy I ended it , but how she flips this on me or tries to I raised her youngest since she was a year old in diapers. She’s now 10 going on 11 or son was eight now he’s an adult and through our break up she decides to leave my shit on the porch crazy. How shit goes lol and how women are they forget Everything you do for them but in the end you’re always the dick .
NEVER trust a Vagina! If you fall in love with one you are fu#ked!
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Very true
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Run away as far as you can. I know it's hard. But they'll never change. No matter what. They use you as supply absorb you emotionally financially then they get rid of you usually for someone in their past. It's a never ending revolving door, and you're never god enough for them. I was on and off with one for 7 years and it nearly ruined my life. Nose beers and alcohol took over.
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Imagine Imagining something!