Love the "sheep terms" Div. Very well put.
What can I say, bro?
People relate in different ways.
Some of us are sheep, while others of us are carnivores.
If he's truly as gentle as a sheep, he'll have no problem making a woman at ease and eventually she
WILL be stroking his wool.
LOL! Well, I never dated tons of people... I prefer the looking across the room and meeting someone's eyes and just knowing, strategy. Besides when you date a bunch of people you have to juggle them, then you have to decide which one you want to sleep with, and if you don't really want to sleep with any of them, you have to do the fending off thing... ech too complicated. I was making a general statement... a cop friend told me the statistics once, so I just always pass on the info to women if the subject comes up. Oh and btw, guys always say they prefer to go to a girl's house so they can leave when they want... well, truth is, men are just as hard to get out of the house. They want to hang around and have breakfast, etc... it's an urban legend that guys leave right after the fun.
I'm also not the type to date a bunch of people at the same time. I know within the first meeting what the possibility is of anything developing.....friendshi
p, FWB or LTR. I also don't go over to a woman's pad or invite her over to mine until after several dates, meetings. I suppose you could say I'm an exclusive type person. There isn't really a gray area with me in terms of relationships. I am honest and I let a woman know where she stands with me. If I see after meeting that there are differences that preclude a LTR, but there is still physical attraction, I might consider a FWB situation. Most women aren't mature enough for something like that. If there's a mental connection but no physical chemistry, a friendship is possible.
One thing I cannot do, however, is be strictly platonic with someone I have a physical attraction to. It never works and I won't even go there now.
It's sad in a way, but I know myself well enough to know that a conflict of interests never works out in my favor as it pertains to women.
If I can't look at her without picturing her naked on all fours from the back ass up, then a friendship isn't in the cards.
DIV