I do think outside the box... all the time
It's a good thing that back in the caveman days of yore, the drive to impregnate as many females as possible manifested itself in our alpha males. That drive got passed on and here we are today. The "picky" gene wouldn't have gotten us very far.
There's nothing wrong with having such specialized preferences... so don't get me wrong. Lots of people have fetishes and fixations. I seem to attract people with certain fetishes, but I always find there seems to be little sensuality to them, as they are simply too fixated and rigid to offer much in return. Truly sensual people are imaginative and can find pleasure in many, many ways. But maybe I'm just projecting.
I also think that people who constantly affirm something like physical preference are just avoiding hurt by rejecting first. If you say you don't like candy, you won't be wounded when you don't get any. Then there's the "methinks the lady doth protest too much" syndrome.
It's just funny that being so picky... you spend so much time talking about your fetishes here. You obviously aren't going to have your fixations fulfilled by anyone here... so what's the diff?
Even your analysis is predictable.
By thinking outside the box, I meant in terms of psychological analysis as well.
I am a Psychology major, less than two years from my degree.
Do you honestly think I wouldn't have considered all possibilities pertaining to my provisions?
I'm not passive aggressive, nor is there any self defeatism in my behaviour.
I'm really just picky......as strange as that sounds coming from a guy.
Who says my fixations aren't being filled as we speak?
I still have a FWB relationship with my ex.
It doesn't mean I won't talk about the type of women I like.
You still don't really understand me.
You deal with too many average guys........simple guys.
Think outside the box.
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