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Help!
« on: March 31, 2010, 09:13:34 PM »
Help!

My “wife” is obsessed with countertop kitchen appliances, specifically Cuisinart appliances.  We are literally out of counter space (and have been for some time) and he still bought a Cuisinart pressure cooker (the biggest appliance yet!) the last time we were at Bed Bath & Beyond.  Somehow he found counter space for it and I have to look at it every time I go into the kitchen.  Granted that’s not very often but still.  It’s big, bulky and ugly!  We have a handmixer (which I have only seen used once or twice), a juicer (which is virtually never used), a blender (used maybe 2x a year) a coffee maker (neither of us drink coffee, we only use it when we have guests), a rice maker (used perhaps 4x a year), a big toaster oven (ok, that I use), a Panini press (it is big and literally covered with thick layers of dust because it is never used.  I have NEVER seen him use it).  I saw it in an infomercial once and said, “isn’t that what you have in the kitchen?”  Plus more crap I don’t even know what it does... 

I’m afraid to let him go into Bed Bath Beyond without supervision because he will buy more Cuisinart stuff!  Why does he do this?  Is he satisfying some emotional need?  Is this like collecting stamps... collecting Cuisinart?  How do I put a stop to this Cuisinart appliance madness?   ???

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Re: Help!
« Reply #1 on: March 31, 2010, 09:23:38 PM »
Help!

My “wife” is obsessed with countertop kitchen appliances, specifically Cuisinart appliances.  We are literally out of counter space (and have been for some time) and he still bought a Cuisinart pressure cooker (the biggest appliance yet!) the last time we were at Bed Bath & Beyond.  Somehow he found counter space for it and I have to look at it every time I go into the kitchen.  Granted that’s not very often but still.  It’s big, bulky and ugly!  We have a handmixer (which I have only seen used once or twice), a juicer (which is virtually never used), a blender (used maybe 2x a year) a coffee maker (neither of us drink coffee, we only use it when we have guests), a rice maker (used perhaps 4x a year), a big toaster over (ok, that I use), a Panini press (it is big and literally covered with thick layers of dust because it is never used.  I have NEVER seen him use it).  I saw it in an infomercial once and said, “isn’t that what you have in the kitchen?”  Plus more crap I don’t even know what it does...  

I’m afraid to let him go into Bed Bath Beyond without supervision because he will buy more Cuisinart stuff!  Why does he do this?  Is he satisfying some emotional need?  How do I put a stop to this Cuisinart  appliance madness?   ???


Sounds like Tool Time Tim in a hardware store  ;D or a woman shoe shopping.

Does he love to cook?  Maybe he has all these grandiose ideas of making some wonderful dishes, but the feeling fades when it comes time for execution  ???''

Meanwhile, unless it's used on a daily or every-other day basis, it should be stowed outta sight (IMO).
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Re: Help!
« Reply #2 on: March 31, 2010, 10:32:13 PM »
Here's a very fun way do deal with this issue, ;D
PARTY LIKE A PIRATE!

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Re: Help!
« Reply #3 on: April 01, 2010, 01:32:15 AM »
i have a rice cooker, tea maker, crock pot, blender, you get the idea.  and I use them a lot.


my wife likes an absolutely clear counter.  So we make a deal.  Kitchen counter space is decided based upon rent.  If I want more than 50%, I'm paying more than 50% of the rent.

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« Reply #5 on: April 01, 2010, 05:13:57 AM »
Help!

My “wife” is obsessed with countertop kitchen appliances, specifically Cuisinart appliances.  We are literally out of counter space (and have been for some time) and he still bought a Cuisinart pressure cooker (the biggest appliance yet!) the last time we were at Bed Bath & Beyond.  Somehow he found counter space for it and I have to look at it every time I go into the kitchen.  Granted that’s not very often but still.  It’s big, bulky and ugly!  We have a handmixer (which I have only seen used once or twice), a juicer (which is virtually never used), a blender (used maybe 2x a year) a coffee maker (neither of us drink coffee, we only use it when we have guests), a rice maker (used perhaps 4x a year), a big toaster over (ok, that I use), a Panini press (it is big and literally covered with thick layers of dust because it is never used.  I have NEVER seen him use it).  I saw it in an infomercial once and said, “isn’t that what you have in the kitchen?”  Plus more crap I don’t even know what it does...  

I’m afraid to let him go into Bed Bath Beyond without supervision because he will buy more Cuisinart stuff!  Why does he do this?  Is he satisfying some emotional need?  Is this like collecting stamps... collecting Cuisinart?  How do I put a stop to this Cuisinart appliance madness?   ???


Boot "her".

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Re: Help!
« Reply #6 on: April 01, 2010, 08:28:35 AM »


Bay, it may help if you get the mail first....those 20% off BBB coupons may be like crack to him!

Yes!  You are onto something.  He loves those stupid 20% off coupons!  He saves them all and even keeps some in the trunk of his car so they are always at the ready.  They have an expiration date on them, but he discovered that date is never enforced so he stocks up on them and always has them handy.  We have a place in LA and go down there regularly... they get delivered to the LA house too so he has a million of those damn coupons!   >:(

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« Reply #7 on: April 01, 2010, 10:26:02 PM »
LOL  ;D

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« Reply #8 on: April 01, 2010, 10:29:06 PM »
I admit, I like BBB too, but please, no more Cuisinart appliances please!  >:(

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« Reply #9 on: April 02, 2010, 05:31:37 AM »
People managed years without 20 appliances on countertops.

It reads like the beginning of a breakdown, Bay. That's why my advice was to apply the boot.

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« Reply #10 on: April 02, 2010, 05:35:17 AM »
I just cleared out the pantry. Stick unused appliances in there on the bottom shelf. I dont like alot of stuff on the counter. Microwave is above the stove. Only thing on my counter is George foreman grill and coffee maker. I'd just comprimise Bay

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« Reply #11 on: April 02, 2010, 05:48:17 AM »
I just cleared out the pantry. Stick unused appliances in there on the bottom shelf. I dont like alot of stuff on the counter. Microwave is above the stove. Only thing on my counter is George foreman grill and coffee maker. I'd just comprimise Bay

One cannot compromise with obsessive behavior or breakdowns.

Bay isn't stupid and knows this is abnormal. He's just hopeful/naive and wants to believe other 'women' would disclose whatever magic words their husbands use to reign in certain behaviors.  :)

If booting isn't an option he's willing to exercise there's always therapy. When people suddenly start trying to fill holes themselves with stuff it's usually a sign of regret or depression.

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« Reply #12 on: April 02, 2010, 06:10:07 AM »
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 Is this like collecting stamps... collecting Cuisinart?  How do I put a stop to this Cuisinart appliance madness?   ???



One cannot compromise with obsessive behavior or breakdowns.

Bay isn't stupid and knows this is abnormal. He's just hopeful/naive and wants to believe other 'women' would disclose whatever magic words their husbands use to reign in certain behaviors.  :)

If booting isn't an option he's willing to exercise there's always therapy. When people suddenly start trying to fill holes themselves with stuff it's usually a sign of regret or depression.


spot on Doc  ... I think Bay needs to exhibit the behavior back in some way in order to SHOW his partner what it is that he's disturbed by .... visual assistance helps ... like lining up all his shoes in a neat row and saying I will keep all my shoes on display from now on so I can "look" at them .. because in effect that what you are doing with your appliances dear heart lovey pie schnookums cupcake  ;D

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« Reply #13 on: April 02, 2010, 06:14:14 AM »


spot on Doc  ... I think Bay needs to exhibit the behavior back in some way in order to SHOW his partner what it is that he's disturbed by .... visual assistance helps ... like lining up all his shoes in a neat row and saying I will keep all my shoes on display from now on so I can "look" at them .. because in effect that what you are doing with your appliances dear heart lovey pie schnookums cupcake  ;D

If you're gonna be mean* why not just put them all in a baby crib? :)

*Which I don't advise and never do!

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« Reply #14 on: April 02, 2010, 06:20:41 AM »
If you're gonna be mean* why not just put them all in a baby crib? :)

*Which I don't advise and never do!

If you think that's mean .....  then it's no wonder you're passing out hugs in the mean thread  ;D  LOL


If I was going to say anything would be mean ... it would be post an ad in Craiglist for used kitchen appliances at $1 a piece and have everyone show up when his SO is in the middle of a facial on the bear rug dressed in silk   :-*

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« Reply #15 on: April 02, 2010, 06:23:48 AM »
If you think that's mean .....  then it's no wonder you're passing out hugs in the mean thread  ;D  LOL


If I was going to say anything would be mean ... it would be post an ad in Craiglist for used kitchen appliances at $1 a piece and have everyone show up when his SO is in the middle of a facial on the bear rug dressed in silk   :-*

I put some fresh hugs in there a few days ago. :)

I was saying making him confront the baby thing in that manner would be mean. Selling the crap would just start the cycle again. Bay's SO has perfect credit and can keep buying crap forever.

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« Reply #16 on: April 02, 2010, 06:35:26 AM »
I put some fresh hugs in there a few days ago. :)

I was saying making him confront the baby thing in that manner would be mean. Selling the crap would just start the cycle again. Bay's SO has perfect credit and can keep buying crap forever.


oh ... mybad .. you're saying it's babyish behavior buying all that stuff ?

I am not too clear headed this morning ... 


I wasn't saying the selling would be the key moment of that scenario .. I agree he will keep buying whatever he wants .. it would be for the shock more so .. a less intrusive sort of frontal lobotomy I think     :)

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« Reply #17 on: April 02, 2010, 07:05:05 AM »

oh ... mybad .. you're saying it's babyish behavior buying all that stuff ?

I am not too clear headed this morning ... 


I wasn't saying the selling would be the key moment of that scenario .. I agree he will keep buying whatever he wants .. it would be for the shock more so .. a less intrusive sort of frontal lobotomy I think     :)

Shock value is probably fun when someone else has to clean up the mess, LOL! Bay still has to live with the guy so that's really not an option.

If you were buying too many shoes and a SO Craigslisted them all... there would probably be hell to pay. :)

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« Reply #18 on: April 02, 2010, 07:18:21 AM »
literally covered with thick layers of dust because it is never used.



Bay, maybe you could tell him that:

About 70% of that dust on those appliances in your kitchen where you prepare food is human skin...yours and others.  Nom nom nom!!!



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"One of the frustrating things about house cleaning is that no matter how clean you try to keep things, household dust still accumulates.  That grey dust, it turns out, is largely human skin.  The tiny flakes of skin that we lose on a daily basis create over seventy percent of the dust in our home.

Dry skin is a translucent grey colour.  Of course humans come in different colours, but the pigments which colour our skin are found beneath the layer that we shed.  Blood vessels, too, are much deeper down, and are not lost as skin sheds.  Therefore, there is neither blood nor pigment to colour the grey skin dust.

The epidermis, or outer layer of skin, sheds skin cells and replaces them with healthy new cells.  The epidermis is completely replaced once a month.  It’s estimated that everyone sheds about half a kilogram of skin a year, as our skin cells are continually replaced.  Unfortunately, we don’t replace the lower layer of skin called the dermis where scars and stretch marks occur.  Since this layer doesn’t shed, the scars stay with us.

Beyond the seventy percent of skin dust, the remaining thirty percent of house dust comes in different colours because it’s mostly wind blown soil, varying according to our geographic location.

So next time you dust, remember that grey powder is largely made up of members of your family or friends who’ve left it behind."

http://www.scienceshorts.com/Ssw/051217.htm
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Re: Help!
« Reply #19 on: April 02, 2010, 07:27:31 AM »
Stella,

Germaphobes with pets amuse me. I'm wondering how long Toxy is gonna last with the doggie. :)


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« Reply #20 on: April 02, 2010, 10:00:56 AM »
¡Please... no mas!