Its funny to make fun of the kid after the fact but at the time I can see the issue. I was in grade 9. I was a big kid though, already over 6 feet tall. I had this young hot French teacher. At a school dance I was near the corner of the gym where no one was and just sort of moving to the music then I feel her come up behind me and start grinding on me. I went stiff as a board. Freaked the shit out of me. In hindsight, yes, I should have fucked her, but at the time having a teacher come on to you is a little shocking.