Author Topic: What would you do? (Read 1871 times)

kevthekid · « **on:** September 09, 2015, 10:28:40 PM »

I've been dating this girl for about 6 months and over the summer I was going to transfer to U Miami in Florida for school instead of going to my current college at home. I met her at the beginning of the year and Miami was already in my head as my school I'm going to go to no matter what then we started dating and I really thought about it and knew I actually liked her and could see myself making a future with her. I decided to stay at my current college for her even though she felt guilty for me staying and blamed herself but to this day I have not regretted my decision. Just today she came back from her cousins wedding in Maine and informed me that she was going to move up there to live with her aunt and go to a community college there....I was super pissed off how I made all these sacrifices for her yet she's going to go to a community college in another state just from being there for 4 days. She's also very impulsive and indecisive. How would I be able to convince her to stay?

TuHolmes · « **Reply #1 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:31:42 PM »

Let her go and transfer to what's best for your future.

Do not give up your future for some woman.

That's just stupid.

SF1900 · « **Reply #2 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:38:03 PM »

don't try to convince her. Even if you convince her to stay, she will resent you for it in the future.

You should have never made that huge sacrifice for her. Lesson learned.

Pray_4_War · « **Reply #3 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:42:56 PM »

Let her go dude. These hoes ain't loyal.

Put yourself first. Get a good education and a good job.

There will always be another bitch down the road.

kevthekid · « **Reply #4 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:43:33 PM »

The college is go to is a very good college in my state. The only things that bother me is how fast she made her decision after only visiting the place one time and not even going into the campus, it's a COMMUNITY college which there are 3 in our city alone, her excuse for leaving is "I hate the place we live in", some of my family live up there and I hate my family here, it's such a nice little town, I never thought I would have this opportunity. Those are all her reasons. I'm a junior in college and have less than 2 years to graduate, I'll
Be done with school in less than 2 years and have a full paying job...I put myself first but I also put her happiness before mine which is why I stayed at home to be with her

38-26-40 · « **Reply #5 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:44:43 PM »

Let her go to Maine and you go to Florida. She doesn't want to move or stay for you, then you shouldn't either. You had Florida on your mind since before you knew her...stick with it.

Maine over Miami? I don't get it.

Pray_4_War · « **Reply #6 on:** September 09, 2015, 10:47:29 PM »

Quote from: kevthekid on September 09, 2015, 10:43:33 PM

The college is go to is a very good college in my state. The only things that bother me is how fast she made her decision after only visiting the place one time and not even going into the campus, it's a COMMUNITY college which there are 3 in our city alone, her excuse for leaving is "I hate the place we live in", some of my family live up there and I hate my family here, it's such a nice little town, I never thought I would have this opportunity. Those are all her reasons. I'm a junior in college and have less than 2 years to graduate, I'll
Be done with school in less than 2 years and have a full paying job...I put myself first but I also put her happiness before mine which is why I stayed at home to be with her

Like I said. These hoes ain't loyal. Know it, understand it, conduct yourself accordingly.

OB1 · « **Reply #7 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:17:48 AM »

Quote from: Pray_4_War on September 09, 2015, 10:42:56 PM

Let her go dude. These hoes ain't loyal.

Put yourself first. Get a good education and a good job.

There will always be another bitch down the road.

Agreed.

Yamcha · « **Reply #8 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:22:14 AM »

I made sacrifices for a girl, just like you are doing. She ended up screwing a Lawyer behind my back while I was away at college.

HTH

Beefjake · « **Reply #9 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:25:06 AM »

That is why she felt guilty about your staying in the first place. She just wasn't so sure.

Donny · « **Reply #10 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:26:35 AM »

Quote from: kevthekid on September 09, 2015, 10:28:40 PM

I've been dating this girl for about 6 months and over the summer I was going to transfer to U Miami in Florida for school instead of going to my current college at home. I met her at the beginning of the year and Miami was already in my head as my school I'm going to go to no matter what then we started dating and I really thought about it and knew I actually liked her and could see myself making a future with her. I decided to stay at my current college for her even though she felt guilty for me staying and blamed herself but to this day I have not regretted my decision. Just today she came back from her cousins wedding in Maine and informed me that she was going to move up there to live with her aunt and go to a community college there....I was super pissed off how I made all these sacrifices for her yet she's going to go to a community college in another state just from being there for 4 days. She's also very impulsive and indecisive. How would I be able to convince her to stay?

Drop her and do your own thing. The seeds of doubt are in your mind.. Impulsive and Indecisive? Get Rid and she sounds a bit selfish to me and immature

jon cole · « **Reply #11 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:26:46 AM »

Quote from: kevthekid on September 09, 2015, 10:28:40 PM

I've been dating this girl for about 6 months and over the summer I was going to transfer to U Miami in Florida for school instead of going to my current college at home. I met her at the beginning of the year and Miami was already in my head as my school I'm going to go to no matter what then we started dating and I really thought about it and knew I actually liked her and could see myself making a future with her. I decided to stay at my current college for her even though she felt guilty for me staying and blamed herself but to this day I have not regretted my decision. Just today she came back from her cousins wedding in Maine and informed me that she was going to move up there to live with her aunt and go to a community college there....I was super pissed off how I made all these sacrifices for her yet she's going to go to a community college in another state just from being there for 4 days. She's also very impulsive and indecisive. How would I be able to convince her to stay?

You say she's "impulsive and indecisive", you searching excuses for her. She's just egoist and don't give a fuck about you.

Lesson learned. So you stayed for her, but she's not doing it for you. She don't love you. Period.

My exgf didn't want to follow me when i started my actual job. Her family and friend were obvisouly more important than me. Later i discovered she was a complete whore.

A true man will just let her go and forgot her. Plenty of pussy around you.

The Wizard of Truth · « **Reply #12 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:28:12 AM »

She wants to spread her wings Iin life and experience something new and spread her legs, sorry man

Henda · « **Reply #13 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:29:40 AM »

Infect her with warts are herpes before dumping her

Donny · « **Reply #14 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:36:32 AM »

Quote from: bass generator on September 10, 2015, 04:29:40 AM

Infect her with warts are herpes before dumping her

Solid Advice...

devilsmile · « **Reply #15 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:36:59 AM »

let me guess, she's white

Coffeed · « **Reply #16 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:38:44 AM »

Quote from: kevthekid on September 09, 2015, 10:28:40 PM

I've been dating this girl for about 6 months and over the summer I was going to transfer to U Miami in Florida for school instead of going to my current college at home. I met her at the beginning of the year and Miami was already in my head as my school I'm going to go to no matter what then we started dating and I really thought about it and knew I actually liked her and could see myself making a future with her. I decided to stay at my current college for her even though she felt guilty for me staying and blamed herself but to this day I have not regretted my decision. Just today she came back from her cousins wedding in Maine and informed me that she was going to move up there to live with her aunt and go to a community college there....I was super pissed off how I made all these sacrifices for her yet she's going to go to a community college in another state just from being there for 4 days. She's also very impulsive and indecisive. How would I be able to convince her to stay?

Lol... I was totally with you and I thought you were going to close by saying that you learned a lesson.

And then you dropped this gem: How would I be able to convince her to stay?

Lol... focus on your school man. This chick isn't going to work out.

devilsmile · « **Reply #17 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:40:52 AM »

Quote from: Coffeed on September 10, 2015, 04:38:44 AM

Lol... I was totally with you and I thought you were going to close by saying that you learned a lesson.

And then you dropped this gem: How would I be able to convince her to stay?

Lol... focus on your school man. This chick isn't going to work out.

x2

TheShape. · « **Reply #18 on:** September 10, 2015, 04:48:57 AM »

_aj_ · « **Reply #19 on:** September 10, 2015, 05:07:55 AM »

Step One: Ask a bunch of basement-dwellers on Getbig what they think
Step Two: $$profit$$

devilsmile · « **Reply #20 on:** September 10, 2015, 05:12:30 AM »

Quote from: _aj_ on September 10, 2015, 05:07:55 AM

Step One: Ask a bunch of basement-dwellers on Getbig what they think
Step Two: $$profit$$

yeah well I don't live in my moms basement anymore, I've moved on. I actually have to move on to a new basement every day to avoid getting caught. Free wifi too, I'm a survivor.