That really blows.
What about meeting someone at work, through friends, etc.
I met my wife at work. My son met his fiance at his friend's wedding.
I'm not referring to hookups but quality women.
Dating at work is a bad idea, generally. I know it happens but if things don’t work out, it can make the workplace awkward and uncomfortable.
I’m similar demographic to residue and I’ve done plenty of online dating. It’s best used as a supplement to meeting women in other avenues. Great for chatting during the week/at work but relying on it exclusively is frustrating.
It’s not as competitive as people like to say, I’m a solid 7-8 and I do just fine. If you have a female friend on a dating app, scroll the the male profiles and you’ll be surprised at how little “eligible” men there are out there. Plenty of men are just creepy or don’t know how to talk to women.
Take some good photos (hire a photographer if you struggle with this), have some interesting hobbies and you’re already in the top 10%